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Hetero Male Master, 66,  Hickory, North Carolina
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I'm an older, experienced Master/Daddy in the Foothills of North Carolina. Looking for someone less than 20 Year younger than me, to share this lifestyle & more. I train, not only with sex, bondage & pain, but use protocols, rituals (non religious), rules, schedules, erotic hypnosis, sensory deprivation, and classical training (ie, reflex conditioning). I'm looking for a intelligent, attractive, funny lady. Sadistically, I play from light to moderate; if needed, I can do heavy to extreme, but that causes a totally different Top space from the first. Sexually, I have very few taboos. Don't do scat because it's a complete turn-off for me. Don't do death, dismemberment, permanent marks (except for marks of ownership).











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 Dominant Male


 North Carolina

 6' 0"

 160 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Friends Only

 Lives For:


 Body Worship

 Canes and Crops

 Collars (Expert)

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Local BDSM Community (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Public Play  (Expert)

 Spanking (Expert)

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 Wax play (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM



 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Breast Play

 Corsets (Expert)

 Foot Worship



 Masks (On Partner)

 Massage (Getting) (Expert)

 Mental Bondage

 Munches (Expert)

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Denial

 Outdoor Bondage (Beginner)

 Plastic Wrap

 Sensory Deprivation

 Shibari  (Beginner)


 Whips (Expert)

 Card Games

 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows


 Online RPGs

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction

 Sitcoms (Expert)

 Candle Making

 Cooking (Beginner)


 Intellectual Discourse

 Mathematics (Expert)



 Old Guard




 Heavy Metal Music


 Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Christianity (Expert)

 Wrestling (Expert)


 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Movies (Expert)



 Tai-Chi (Beginner)


 Weightlifting (Beginner)

 Yoga (Beginner)

 Anal Play


 Housework Service



 Masks (Wearing)

 Massage (Giving)


 Maid/Butler Service (Beginner)

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Speech Restrictions


 Uniforms (Beginner)

 Arcade Games

 Board Games


 Chess (Beginner)

 Horror Movies (Expert)


 Puzzle Games

 TV News

 Web Surfing

 Alternative Medicine

 Photography (Beginner)


 Astronomy (Beginner)



 Libertarian Politics



 Psychology (Beginner)

 1950s Lifestyle

 Goth Lifestyle (Beginner)

 Polyamory (Beginner)

 Alternative Music

 Blue Grass

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Folk Music

 Industrial Music

 Nineties Music


 Opera Music


 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music



 Buddhism (Expert)





 Rollerblading (Beginner)

 Chastity (Beginner)

 Corner Time

 Electrical Play


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Fisting (Beginner)

 Gas Masks (Beginner)

 Medical Play (Beginner)

 Role Playing (Beginner)



 Romance Novels

 Blogging (Beginner)

 Country Music

 Hip Hop Music

 New Age Music

 New Wave


 Show Tunes


 Curious About:

 Martial Arts (Beginner)

 Pilates (Beginner)

 Economics (Beginner)



 Cuckolding (Beginner)



 Dilation (Beginner)

 Needle Play

 Pantyhose Fetish



 Gorean Lifestyle




 Online Chatrooms

 Hard Limits:


 Female Supremacy




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Journal Entries:
6/28/2017 9:37:38 AM
My basic protocol for relocation. 1. I require proof of Identity, full medical history, and criminal record (if any), before planning relocation. 2. While I will pay relocation cost, I don't buy slaves or wire money to strangers and hope they'll keep their end of the bargain. I'll make moving arrangements or reimbursement upon arrival. 3. Relocating slaves may bring, clothing, accessories, toys, all important documents and an suitable amount of traveling cash. 4. Additional cash, furniture, vehicles and other properties may be placed in storage or liquidated and the proceeds place in trust. 5. Pets, livestock or any matter not covered above will be handled case by case and must be discussed before​ relocation is finalized.

6/7/2017 3:57:19 PM
Plan to start a new poly household with 1 to 3 bisexual female slaves.

11/17/2016 4:27:22 PM

I have noticed a pattern in correspondence here on CS, and decided to invite anyone's comments and experiences. It seem as though most subs won't answer one line messages and I encourage that. The problem comes when I write two paragraphs about myself and why I'm writing this particular person and I get a one line reply. Don't get me wrong; I know that sites like this one are Top heavy (is that really a pun in this context?) and a sub can get 1000's of messages a day. Standards & filters are necessary if a sub is going to be able to handle the mail.
What I'm having trouble with is this: regardless of how much of my heart & soul I put in a message, if it has a question at the end, the chances are, I'll get a one line answer to the question. Usually there would no comments on what I discussed before the that. If I don't include a question, then usually it's ether no reply at all or a simple "yes Sir". It's not that I don't appreciate protocol even online. But sometimes it is hard to get to know someone when your handling roughly 90% of the conversation. To sum it up, sometimes I just want to talk.

Basically I just venting because although I see a possible solution to this, it requires the cooperation of the majority of users on a given website. Good Luck with that. But just to spark the conversation here is my thoughts. Perhaps we need to sets of online protocols. A formal protocol based on what has organically evolved online through the years and a conversational protocol design to help people get to know one another. the formal one could be used by those who choose to teach, train or play online. Because this protocol places both Dom & sub into a expected role, it is harder to see if the personalities make any personal relationship possible. After that question is answer that one can press froward to see if and what can of D/s relationship is possible.
I think I will develop an online conversational protocol for my on use.

1/4/2013 10:19:58 AM

My Ten Basic Rules and Protocols


This only apply to those in service to me


  • If you respect me then show it, not just in what you say and do but in how you say and do it. If you no longer respect me, then see protocol number 8.
  • Speech restrictions: ?Silence? means do not speak until released. ?Quiet? means speak when spoken to. ?Mind your manners? means your restricted to Yes Sir, No Sir, etc until released. All speech restrictions are automatically released in a REAL emergency. If it can wait without causing destruction, physical harm or death, then so can you.
  • You serve only me but how you treat others reflect on me. Therefore, treat others accordingly. You only call me Master, anyone else, who isn't obviously another slave, is to addressed as Sir or Ma'am, until I instruct otherwise.
  • At the sound of your name, I will have your full attention, without hesitation.
  • Physical postures (positions); normal stance is on right, a half step behind, with your hands folded in front of you. Kneeling posture is on your knees, butt lowered, with you hands fold in your lap, head up with eyes on me.
  • Clothing restrictions: Always wear as little or nothing as practically possible but dress appropriately for the weather and occasion. Pantyhose are forbidden; garter-top stockings or stockings with garters or a garter-belt are preferable. When using a garter-belt, the belt and stockings should be put on before the panties. Not wear underwear is acceptable and nudity is encouraged when practical.
  • Do as you are told; when you are told.
  • I do not release slaves to their own recognizance. If the time comes, I will find you an acceptable Master or release you to the care of a mentor. I will decide when and how it is to be done. Why I included this rule:Slave training teachs new skills, habits, social behaviour, ways of thinking and feeling so she can take on her new roll in life. Releasing a slave is as different from releasing a sub as a snorkler and a deep sea diver coming to the surface. I offer the choice a new Master or mentor because if she been trained and in the lifestyle for a considerable amount of time and wants return vanilla she need help relearning old social behaviour, ways thinking and feeling. That is what a mentor is for; he or she is her hyperbaric chamber. Just imagine not making your own decisions for years, then suddenly your back in the vanilla star8ng at a five page menu trying to order for yourself. It not only that becoming a slave changing; it's also cruel for a Master to release a slave without a safety net. Maybe I should have explain that to begin with.
  • I?m active in the lifestyle, attending munches, MAsT meeting, events and play parties. I expect the same of you.
  • Although some think that subs/slaves are not allowed the privilege of common sense; I require that common sense temper all protocols and directions. This is not a means to get out of doing things, but it is necessary to do them efficiently.

1/2/2013 9:01:13 AM

Just a thought for all the younger people here. First, I wish you well on your walk in the lifestyle. Remember you aren't in unexplored territory; others before you have been where you stand now. I have yet to meet anyone sincerely in this lifestyle who isn't more than happy to answer questions and teach.

1/2/2013 7:56:32 AM
A few random things off my chest, if anyone cares to read. I've lost count of the number of complaints about male Doms/Masters being rude to female subs, slaves etc. I don't doubt the veracity of a single one of these claims. But manners are a two-way street. The reaction to this behavior has often been to react in kind. I've also lost count of the rude comments and lengthy tirades in profiles. If you assume everyone here is a fake, that's all you going find.

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