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	Dominant TransMan with a strong sense of honor, loyalty, and ethics. Those words mean a great deal to me. I value honor as it shows my ability to hold myself accountable to my values and beliefs. My heart and mind are both very open to unique ideas, people, and concepts. My patience however does not allow me to tolerate those who intentionally deceive or create chaos. My loyalty shows in my commitment to communication with my family and friends. My leather family and friends go back over a decade with friends on both coasts as I'm originally from New England. My non-leather family and friends are core as well in helping support and create the person I've become. My ethics are strong in I am fully aware of who I am and continue to develop as a man, father, friend, and family member. Perfection is a myth that I hold myself and others too high in regard to limit them to the ideal of perfection. I do however, hold myself accountable for my actions and those that love me have been requested to share any inconsistencies between my thoughts and actions. Who I am looking for? The woman who possesses honor, loyalty, and ethics of course. She knows her power and drive are balanced with her need to grow and stretch all areas of her life. She feels stagnant and dull when she sees patterns of existence instead of living and growth. She seeks him to shed light with her in love, firmness, and humor. She knows she Must share all of who she is in order to know she is Loved for Who she is. I am very comfortable in my own skin and do not need someone in my life right now. My last long term relationship of length lasted almost 10 years and ended 3 years ago. My heart has not been available since as my love for her was deep and true. Let's start by getting to know more about each other..........perhaps the curiosity and interest brings us to coffee/tea/water by the ocean. A campfire is a sacred place where fears, new ideas, and imaginations are shared in a spirit of open acceptance. We'll talk.......explore.........and allow things to go as they will.... Please do Not respond if your looking for someone to fix, finance, or mold you into who you are. I wish to help her become the Best of who she is........not Find who she is.

3/6/2011 2:02:15 AM

I'm finding lately that I am able to see more and more how deception impacts myself and others. If self deception is trying to rule, than the ego is fighting for more, and more, and more of whatever is sought. Once I arrive "here", there is always another "there" to chase/hunt/pursue. This place holds no comfort, no peace, and no warmth.

Instead I seek to become a better listener, more attentive to family/friend/acquaintance and simply those whose paths cross. This had led me to find the best in people, the gifts that hope provides, and the genuine interest in my fellow human being. I Love this part of my journey.

Even though the amount of work to be done is endless, so are the gifts I get for looking!

I am remaining single by choice at this time. It is critical to me that I know Exactly what I offer in Any dynamic or exchange. Exchanges are too intimate, strongly connecting, and deeply personal to be willing to invest anything less than everything crushes me.

There is freedom in not seeking. I'm more attentive to what is opposed to what might, could, should, or any of that other distracting noise of the brain.