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Hetero Male Master, 47,  San Jose, California
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if you are on FL, you can find my profile, along with a picture, there, under the handle DadOutOfPlace. I have been involved in the lifestyle for over 20 years. Even in my late 20's I identified more with the Dominant father figure persona rather than the sadistic Master.

I used to be active in the Boston BDSM scene before it imploded in the late 90's. At that time I enjoyed arranging group scenes for my partner at the time. Although those scenes did involve others, they had more of an S&M twist. Since then my tastes have changed.

These days, I prefer more objectification and humiliation. I know it takes a special girl to enjoy what I seek. To have someone share her body, to show off her ability to pleasure and in doing so, she knows she pleases me. I do have photos to share, but since CS profiles are open to the public and can be crawled by search engines, I will not post anything more revealing in my profile.











Last Online:


 Dominant Male

 San Jose 


 5' 10"

 240 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

 Lives For:


 Breast Play





 Orgasm Denial

 Web Surfing



 Anal Play



 Hair Pulling

 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play







 Amusement Parks


 Fine Dining





 Corner Time

 Electrical Play



 Obedience Training

 Plastic Wrap

 Role Playing

 Sensory Deprivation


 Science Fiction


 Conservative Politics

 Intellectual Discourse

 Liberal Politics


 1950s Lifestyle


 Alternative Music

 Rock Music


 Local BDSM Community



 Hard Limits:

 Genital Punishment

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Journal Entries:
11/14/2010 7:33:15 PM

It's been almost 6 months in the works but I am finally moving forward with a new company out in San Jose, CA.  It will be an interesting change, to say the least.

6/4/2009 6:43:30 AM
*Flame On*

You people with fake profiles... you must think you are so clever but let me point out the most common indications that your profile is fake:

1. You are a female 18 or 21... sometimes you are 19 or 22 because your birthday has passed since creating the profile.  You very rarely see a 20 year old on this site.
2. You state your are a Dominant Female, yet you are interested in Dominants, Submissives, Switches, Males, Females, Transsexuals - anything with a pules.
3. You don't even bother to fill in the textual part of the profile, or if you do, you don't mention any real interest in the lifestyle - OR - you are already serving a Master and you are looking for another girl to join you.
4. Your picture falls under one of three scenarios: a) it has perfect lighting meaning it was taken under studio conditions b) you have a picture on some beach that is clearly no where close to you c) the picture is so blurry that it's clear that it was some thumbnail taken from another website.
5. Your race clearly does not match your picture.  The best indication that someone is running a scam is that your picture is of some Caucasian woman yet you list her race as Native American, because you think if you live in America, that's the race you have to be!

So let me be clear... if you are here to run a scam, to get me to go to some web site, to get my yahoo ID or just to masturbate while chatting with me, try someone else.

*Flame Off*

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