DaddyJim

I come on here night after night and always see the same slaves moaning how they cant find any real Masters. Yet when I write them there is no response, they dont even read the mail I sent most of the time. What I read on most profiles the slaves here think it is all about them and what they want. Get a clue girls, its not all about you and what you want. 

I know that I am older but isnt age just a number? And I know that even slaves have needs and wants. But by the very nature of the word slave, they are giving themselves over to another. They want humilitaded, objectivied, used and to serve. What difference does it make what that person looks like or how old they are as long as they fill your "needs"? Again by the nature of the word slave, it is not about them, it is all about the Master. 

Are the slaves on this site all fakes? Do they not understand what the word slave means? Open your minds, think outside the box, try something new, perhaps you will be suprised and find just what you are looking for.

Same ol same ol, day in and day out. Fakes, liars, scammers. Is there anyone on here real besides me? What do you have to lose talking to me. You could find just what you are looking for by thinking outside the box a little. Step out of your comfort zone and give something new a try. If you are on here day after day seeking what you want then it seems that you are either too picky, how can a slave that pickey, or you a re just playing games. With yourself and anyone that is serious.

On another site that I belong to, I was reading a thread on the best way of saying "no thank you". Here is one of the best answers that I read on that thread.

 "No thank you, I am not interested"works just fine. I fucking hate getting ignored and not getting a reply back, good or bad. If I can put the effort in to initiating contact the least someone can do is put forth the effort to shoot me down!"

 I know that most ladies here on CM get pages and pages of mail. There is nothing wrong with blocking or deleting those messages that do not meet what you said on your profile. But someone that is thoughtful and kind in their messages do deserve at the very least, some answer. A polite "No thank you" takes all of 10 seconds and is the least you can do.

See the same people on here day in and day out. Yet they never read their mail, never respond. Is it all just a game? Why are you here if you are not looking for something real?

Begining to beleive there are no real females on her , let alone any slaves. Most dont even read mail sent to them. Are you really looking, really interested or are you just playing games. I know that I am an older Dom, but to a slave that should not make any difference. As one told me they have found that older Masters are more controlling and demanding, which is so very true. We have learned what we like and are very set in our ways and likes and dislikes.

a Dip in the Reality

I'm your Auntie Screamer, and I'm
here to help clear those up for you. Pay attention. I'm only
going to say this once.

1. "You do have rights. You
have the right to walk away. If you believe otherwise, it's
time for a dip in the reality pool."
2. "No one can keep up a 24/7 lifestyle for long without
a break for comedy relief, and a swift dose of kids, family,
work and car problems."
3. "No man has an erection continuously. Unless they're
priaptic, in which case, a doctor's visit is in order."
4. "There is such a thing as PMS, and no amount of Domming
is going to make it go away."
5. "A chainsaw is not a sex toy."
6. "Your cyber safeword is the off button on the front
of your computer. Use it."
7. "There *is* going to be a time when you don't feel like
having sex. It *does* happen. Prepare yourself mentally for
it."
8. "24/7 is not a myth. 24/7 in chains, naked and kneeling
is."
9. "There will come a time when you see your Dominant scratching
himself, belching and in need of a shower. Prepare yourself
for that as well."
10. "No one understands your collar but you. Showing it
off at Safeway isn't exactly a statement."
11. "The distance is not insurmountable. It is inconvenient
and irritating, and it will grate on your nerves unless you
fill your time with other things."
12. "Eventually, you're going to have to take those cuffs
off to take the kids to the doctor. Get used to it."
13. "Speaking of doctors, tell yours what you're into,
or be prepared to deal with social services on a regular basis."
14. "You really don't need another flogger. What you need
is a new microwaves and a pair of hundred dollar tennis shoes
for your teenager. Know when to say when to the toy bag."
15. "People get sick. People die. Use a condom, please,
unless you've been tested twice in the last year, and so has
your partner."
16. "Don't walk away from your friends. You might well
need them later, when your dream Dominant turns into a frog."
17. "If you want something, ask. Ask respectfully, ask
in role, ask in good faith. But ask. If you don't, chances are,
you ain't gonna get it."
18. "Just because you call yourself a slave doesn't mean
that others will agree with your definition. Be prepared to
defend your views, but don't bark at others for their opinions.
They have a right to them, same as you do."
19. "Don't believe everything you read, especially if it
comes from John Norman."
20. "Just because the screen name says Master doesn't mean
he is one."
21. "Find a way to orgasm without BDSM. You may need that
someday."
22. "Safecalls work. Use them."
23. "There are things you won't do. Trust me. Maybe you
just haven't been asked to do them yet."
24. "This ain't always all about sex. Don't expect to get
a nut every time you play. Then you won't be disappointed when
it happens to you. Orgasms are nice, but not mandatory."
25. "People are not always nice. You will not play at every
party you attend. You will get hurt non-consensually sometimes."
26. "Your Dominant is not a mind reader."
27. "Forever is not as long as you might think. Sometimes,
it's just until she changes her mind again."
28. "The Mistress is not always dressed in thigh highs
and hose. The Dominant does not always have his flogger nearby.
Sometimes, it's time for sweat pants and hot cocoa."
29. "An argument is not the end of the world. Not resolving
it, however, might be."
30. "Sometimes, a fuck is just a fuck. A beating is just
a beating. And a kiss is just a kiss. Enjoy it, remember it,
and move along."

I hope you've enjoyed your dip in
the reality pool.

 I know that young ladies looking to be a slave get pages and pages of messages here on collarme. What I dont understand, after replying to a message sent to them, why they then dont even read the reply you send back?

I have a pet peeve here. Why is it that females say that they wont even consider, will delete, one line messages. Yet when responding to messages from me, all I am getting back is one line messages.