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Hetero Male Dominant, 31,  Hickory, NC, North Carolina
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***WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.
I am merely an educator of the forbidden arts of submission and dominance. This ideal holds true in all aspects of our society today. We just call it different things... Honor, lust, glory, power, greed, vice, and most of all freedom. To seek each of these we have to bow down to those who have more experience and knowledge to curry their favor and gain their wisdom if we wish to surpass them one day. I am just simply being honest. Does that make me a bad man? Maybe. At least I am not unoriginal. That I can live with, and sleep quite well... Dreaming my dark dreams and fantasies uninhibited by the lesser desires. I am fervently looking for a girl who needs a relationship, but at the same time, finds herself lacking a man who will push her boundaries, and explore her levels of pain and pleasure. I am looking for a woman who likes and needs a little pain and punishment to get off. A woman who is secure in her needs and wants and will serve me as a good slave girl should. What does that mean: taking directions, keeping a clean house, cooking for daddy, satisfying daddy, and letting me see to your every desire. I want to focus on a deep, committed relationship, just alternate the traditional. Would I want to marry you eventually, yes, if you are my perfect little slave girl. The most important part of your vows will be... "I will obey you." If being told what to wear, how to act in a situation, what to do, and restraints/forced orgasms/humiliation/bondage make you wet and hot. It's not your thermostat. It's the thought of being controlled and manipulated by someone who genuinely cares for you. Now, if you want to apply put "APPLICANT FOR SLAVEGIRL" in the subject line. You send me whatever you are comfortable with. I actually prefer you send your first email to me expressing your desires and fears. I am not a racist, so all races please apply. I am a patient man and a one slave man. If you are mine, I am yours. I will spend every waking minute pleasing and punishing you. That is a promise. The greatest adventure you have ever taken begins with a few short words and an open mind seeking knowledge. I am on yahoo messenger at (please tell me what your collarme id is so I can figure out who I am talking to). Thanks again for listening to my rant. Hope you are still awake. ;)
P.S.-I have gotten a few replies which caused me to revise this just a bit. I don't have pics of my face uploaded on my sight because I am a public figure and my "betters" (see power structure above) look down on this lovely world, much to my dismay and displeasure. However, I am here seeking truth, and the one I will one day call my dearest, my child, my student, my lover, my best friend, and my wife. Again, thank you for reading... More to come I assure you.












 Dominant Male

 Hickory, NC 

 North Carolina

 Willing to Relocate

 6' 4"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Female


A Poly Household

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Journal Entries:
5/28/2012 5:04:48 AM

I really like good girls, but what is a 'good girl'?

Good girls are intelligent & can be witty, they are interesting to talk with & like to smile & laugh. Their intelligence & wit allows them to be cheeky &, sometimes, to get away with it. Good girls are feminine, because they like being women.

Good girls are open minded & enjoy learning new things. Good girls accept & enjoy their sexuality. Real good girls like to do good, their work often reflects this. Good girls are submissive, but only to someone they believe is worth submitting to & who they trust to value them as the high value woman they are. Good girls like candle lit dinners, but know candles might be used for other things later.

Good girls take care of themselves because they are proud of who they are &, just as they expect a high standard from their Dominant, they expect to be held to a high standard themselves. Good girls are honest & open when they trust someone. Good girls sometimes like to be called slut, when they know what that expression means. Good girls like to get down & dirty.

Good girls like to have fun, they can get bored with the 'same old same old'. Good girls like to dance. Good girls like to try. Good girls get excited by chains, blindfolds, gags, clamps, cages, etc, but good girls also like flowers. Good girls like to cum & cum & cum, but good girls only cum with permission. Good girls are drawn to men who can do evil things.

Good girls are sensitive, their skin is alive to all sensation, from a finger gently stroking the nap of their neck, to the line of fire from a cane across their upthrust arse. Good girls are brave, but occasionally they swear under their breath as they hold that perfect position. Good girls enjoy serving, when they know the service is valued. Good girls like to please.

Good girls make good coffee & like to fetch a cold beer on a hot day. Good girls like to kiss & be kissed in many ways. Good girls know how to ask for something in just the right way. Good girls are good friends, & loyal. Good girls strive & enjoy striving. Good girls like excited butterfly's in their belly. Good girls like to be fucked senseless, but good girls sometimes also like to be made love to.

Good girls fetch the crop in their teeth, on all fours, with the most beautiful expression in their eyes. Good girls are obedient because the connection between their sex & their brain is strong & being obedient for their man makes them wet & satisfies their soul.

Good girls are beautiful in the real sense. So are you a good girl?

5/4/2012 11:56:24 AM

She said she wouldn't let me do anything to her when we meet... I find that highly doubtful... Seeing as how her bed looks like someone was murdered in it, and I have not even touched her yet... I figure it will be more like, *car door opens* Me- "Get naked." Her- "Yes Daddy." *Evil Laugh*

4/24/2012 8:43:01 PM

Bored to tears here... My skills are really being wasted on time.  Still looking for that perfect girl for me... Maybe just maybe, she'll be worth the wait.

4/17/2012 1:22:20 AM

     Another photo shoot today.  Arabian girl I have known since grade school. insisted on being as real as possible, then backed out as soon as she had one little strike from my bamboo paddle. She said,"OW! What the fuck! That fucking hurt!" I replied simply that it wasn't called the Singapore stinger for nothing...

     I eventually had to stop the shoot, because she wanted to do heavy bondage shots with faux tears and evidence of extreme torture with makeup(!), which of course I was vehemently against, because she didn't earn them...

     It's like a tattoo without the pain as a rite of passage. I ask you dear reader, What's the fuckin' fun in that?! Right! NONE!

     I've said it before. I'll say it again. I really could use a good slave girl in my life. So much simpler when masochistic little dirty girl and daddy who does it just right get together. 


4/11/2012 12:16:10 AM

Spoke with a new potential briefly... very sweet, educated, funny, interesting, and engaging. Lost the call, and now wanting to hear much much more. Hope to hear from you soon...  ;) You know who you are dear.

4/10/2012 2:44:21 AM

   Brought a new student over to my house to learn about forced orgasms. She was shy at first... Embarrassed when I ripped her panties off and spanked her bare pussy with my hand. At first she protested, but the leg spacers and overhead restraints kept her from moving.


     I gave her a safe word, but she never seemed to use it.  She would whisper it, and when I asked her what she said, she would tell me,"nothing daddy."


     I cropped her pussy and then flogged her pussy much to my pleasure in seeing her clit become engorged and swollen. Just when she started to ask how this had anything to do with forced orgasms I forced my power vibrator wand right on her clit. She screamed,"Oh fuck! My god in heaven!" I said, "Nope, just a hundred dollar vibrator!  For such a shy girl though, you really have a potty mouth."


     Trying to concentrate, I gave her mind something to play with in the back of her subconscious while she wracked through orgasm after orgasm... Nipple clamps, some flogging to her rear, and of course my personal touch of biting her ass... Hard.


     When she was working up another good one, I told her she could not cum. She tried to cheat, but I took the vibe away and scolded her.  The next time I used it ( after much spanking and flogging) she was very good at not having an orgasm or else daddy would get mad again.


     After five minutes of teasing and flaunting that clit with the vibe, then a flog, then an ice cube, then the vibe, she was begging so sweetly to please let her cum, I allowed her. Four foot long blast of ejaculate across the floor.  I was so proud of her I gave her an A-.  That is a good score. I would have also gave her a pat on the rear for good standing, but we had to get to after care, bc she needed some attention. ;) 


     Alexia. An A in Daddy's class is phenomenal. Be proud!   xxx Daddy

P.S.- I would like to point out that the grade is given in permanent marker on a naughty area of the sub's unmentionables. that way it takes a few days to come off and can be a token reminder of a job well done.




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