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Hetero Male Dominant, 43,  SouthendOnSea, United Kingdom
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I am Andy but my friends call me Drew,
I am a Dominate from Southend in Essex.
I have seen both your profile and pictures and i think you are an interesting person,
I would like to get to know you and would like to chat with you.
Find out about you, what you like, dont like and what your limits are?
Maybe I can help you to define them better?
I have started to learn Shibari and maybe you can give me a pointer or two? -)
It has taken me a long time to become the person I am, it has taken a lot of pain, mostly not mine, Chuckle. To be where I am now.
I started off thinking that I am a true sadist, as a guy who likes to k and restrain a willing sub, I thought that was all I was.
But then I found out my main pleasure was not the pain or restraining. But was from the true Domination of the submissive and ensuring that they were fulfilled both physically and emotionally.
As a result I became Daddy Drew to two sweet babygirls, at different times, as I am not a greedy Daddy, lol.
Later I discovered the fulfilment of owning pets. Which I still enjoy, there is something soothing about just relaxing on the sofa, while having a pets head on your thigh while you gently stroke their hair, just enjoying each others company.
I also love Degradation play as well, I find that a submissives innerself is a truly beautiful thing to see. If you are interested I have a picture on my profile pictures page, of a letter a er sub wrote to me as part of her training, it is beautiful in both its pain and love.
But my main go to kink is still being a Daddy as I love that it is not always sexual but always intermit and rewarding.
Well I would like to thank you for taking the time to read this sooo long first message, lol.
But I thought that if I told you about me first you can better understand me. x
And I look forward to hearing from you.
Drew, x












 Dominant Male


 United Kingdom

 5' 5"

 110 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

 Lives For:

 Begging (Expert)


 Breast Play (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 You wearing my collar (Expert)

 Corner Time (Expert)

 Humiliation (Expert)

 Placing you on a leash (Expert)

 Masks on Partner (Expert)

 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Orgasm Control (Expert)

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay (Expert)

 Role Playing (Expert)

 Sensory Play (Expert)

 Spanking you (Expert)


 Whips (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)

 Heavy Metal Music


 Blindfolding you

 Body Worship




 Local BDSM Community

 Rear End Play

 Erotic touch


 Hair Pulling

 Hoods (Expert)

 Massage (Giving)

 Munches (Expert)

 Selecting the clothes you wear

 Shibari (Beginner)

 Speech Restrictions

 Vacuum Stimulation (Beginner)



 Electrical Play (Beginner)



 Being Massaged

 Masks (Wearing)

 Sensation Play

 Outdoor Bondage (Beginner)

 Public Play

 You wearing stockings

 Suspension Bondage (Beginner)

 1950s Lifestyle (Beginner)

 Alternative Music

 Eighties Music


 Curious About:

 Erotic Hypnosis (Beginner)

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