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Hetero Male Dominant, 60,  SE Washington, Washington
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OK, I apologise to all the lovely girls out there who've contacted me and didn't understand what I've written here.

-First, you may NOT be a smoker. I will NEVER tolerate any smoking product in, or away from, my presence.

-If you're interested in figuring me out, I suggest you take a serious look at the takeninhand website. Just add a '.com' to the end, and you'll likely figure out where I'm coming from.

-Do you like skirts, dresses, frilly blouses, corsets, heels, earrings and other feminine accoutrements? Then you're my girl. Let's talk.

That being said, read on:

Hello I'm an old-fashoned gentleman who's been around long enough to have a pretty good idea of who I might be a good fit with.

I'm extemely passionate, caring, loving and compassionate. Those who know me say that I'm cheerful, friendly, forward thinking, positive and trying my very best to make a genuine difference in the lives of all with whom I come into contact. I've a strong sense of character and, while I occassionaly stumble, I always do my best to maintain a high level of integrity. I'm mature, and house-broken--I put my dirty clothes in the basket--hey, I even wash, fold and put 'em away again!

I'd love to find a girl who knows that to truly be fulfilled as a woman means not being caught up in the rat-race of job/career/stuff. You know, within your being, that true fulfillment means love, being cherished, honoring and cherishing ... all those "old-fashioned" values that are so out of date, yet are so important.

I seek a girl who values a manly man and who revels in her own womanly femininity; a girl who will love the fact that I want to be here to protect, guide and shield you...not to turn you into a doormat, but to free you to truly fulfill your destiny. I seek a girl who's caring, loving, valuing, generally soft-spoken, gentle, and sweet. In other words, somone who gets it that I need you to love and honor your man despite my human failings and foibles :) I trust you'll get it that this is something that cuts the other way as well: It's my desire to always live the Golden Rule.

I must tell you, I will NEVER beat nor harm you. I will never ever give you away to anyone else! I am looking for a one-man girl who craves in her heart to love, honor, cherish, respect and submit to her man. What a concept. If you wish to be taken in hand, have a strong head of household relationship and you know who is the head and who isn't, then we may talk.

I further must tell you, this is NOT a playground, nor am I seeking someone who is into this for kinky sex; I'm not talking "lifestyle" nor will you be thinking "well, I'll give this a try." No, this is you, your heart, your mind, your very being. By this, I mean, that you will be so woven with me, that you and I will literally be bound by unbreakable ties of love, honor and respect.

Do these things sound like your heart's desires? If so, write me a note, I'd love to get to know you.

BTW, my nick means: I'm a mature man. I'm a Daddy, my name is Don. I am NOT into children, or anything to do with them. I think a girl should be raised as a girl, and boys as boys; BUT, I will never do nor condone any behaviour which causes harm or damage to any child. OK? OK!
I found this in a girl's journal, and it's really what I'm talking about:

"I do not consider myself "into bdsm". That might seem like a strange statement from someone active on sites like these, but unfortunately this is the closest to what i seek that i can find.

"I know that some of you will understand what i mean by that. I'm not a play party person, I really am not turned on by whips and leather outfits, I don't like the idea of play scenes or random kink."












 Dominant Male

 SE Washington 


 6' 0"

 220 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

 Lives For:



 Fine Dining







 Being Massaged

 Massage (Giving)

 You wearing stockings

 Body Art





 Intellectual Discourse

 1950s Lifestyle

 Victorian Lifestyle

 Classical Music



 Renaissance Faires



 You wearing my collar

 Foot Worship

 Hair Pulling

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control

 You servicing me orally

 Outdoor Bondage

 Spanking you

 Online Chatrooms


 Conservative Politics





 Lifestyle BDSM


 Corner Time

 Eye Contact Restrictions



 Public Play

 Speech Restrictions

 Libertarian Politics





 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales

 Canes and Crops



 Clothing Selection

 Role Playing




 Liberal Politics





 Sensation Play

 Sensory Play


 Hard Limits:



 Electrical Play


 Genital Punishment

 Erotic touch

 Fire Play


 Masks on Partner





 Paranormal Phenomena

 The Occult


 Female Sovereignty








 Latter-day Saints

 Modern Paganism





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Journal Entries:
9/13/2011 5:44:54 PM

I found this description on a girl's profile today. While I don't always succeed--there are a few which I downright fail with--I do my best to live this way, because it's the way of truth, integrity and honesty.

Above all else, unto thine own self, be true.

Girls, stop settling...wise up!

  **  A  True  Master **

  •  A Man who displays sensitivity will be a Master who is sensitive to you.
  • A Man who displays humility will be a Master who will show you respect.
  • A Man who is not afraid to cry will be a Master who understands your tears.
  • A Man who is quiet will be a Master who will hear your faintest whisper.
  • A Man who knows fear will be a Master who will not leave you to face yours alone.
  • A Man who will listen to a child will be a Master who will always work to understand your words.
  • A Man who can stand alone will be a Master who will not crush you under His weight.
  • A Man who controls Himself with ease will be a Master with the ability to control you in the same way.
  • A Man who does not have to prove His point will be a Master with many worthwhile points to share.
  • A Man who never makes demands will be a Master who treasures anything you give.
  • A Man who doesn't chase after you will be a Master you will never need to run away from.
  • A Man who is calm will be a Master who can weather your storms.
  • A Man who has walked the path to peace will be a Master able to guide you along that path.
  • A Man who does not shout will be a Master who will never deafen you.
  • A Man who knows Himself will be a Master who will have time to know you.
  • A Man with an open mind will be a Master who never stops learning.
  • A Man who never stops learning will be a Master who never stops growing.
  • A Man who always seeks to be the best He can be for you is the only Man truly worthy of being called Master.

5/28/2011 5:06:14 PM


To set up mIrc 

  1.  Obviously install the software 
  2.  Through cm chat within a room type /register password email (make sure you use a real email address as you have to verify it) 
  3.  Check both your inbox and junk mail for an email and click on the link that will allow you to complete the nickname registration process 
  4.  Open mIrc but do not connect 
  5.  File / select Server 
  6.  Add 
  7.  Description:  Collarme 
  8. IRC server: 
  9. Ports:  6667 
  10. Group: Collarme 
  11.  Password:  whatever password you chose when you registered your nickname
  12. Ok and then Select 
  13. A Connect window should open up - put in your registered nickname - you don't have to put in any other information


9/5/2010 1:36:11 PM
I received another very nice note today from a friend. Her observations are so cogent, I could not help but pass them along: I've omitted her name since, as she's observed, there are far too many fruit-loops on this site. One can never be too careful!

It's really surprising to see how many people here on the site are out in left field. While granted I'm not into the hard core, and I still don't understand those that are. It just seems to borderline abusive to me. Yet I know the cravings that kink can be. I guess the trick is to figure out who the fruit cakes are from those that are true and real. But I do laugh at the ones that appear to be here just for sex or that they want a free maid service and someone to help pay the bills.

9/4/2010 2:36:16 PM

I received a nice note from HisSongstress today, here's what she had to say:

To me submission and surrender are very different. Submission is a trade for each time. Surrender is a one-time me.



8/10/2005 10:53:58 AM
Well, another day, another entry. This letter arrived just now, totally unsolicited, from a girl who had just read my profile and felt compelled to comment on it. I am leaving out any identifying info, but the gist of the letter is what matters most:

I was recently contacted by a Dom who preceded to tell me to leave my family and my children and be the true slave i am. A true slave he said would not put her kids would always be Master first. No wonder with advice like that there are such lost people here.

This is JUST the sort of nonsense that all you girls out there need to consider! Guys like the one she's describing are NOT doms nor masters; they're selfish boys, no matter their physical age, who simply want me me me stuff!
Girls, STOP, THINK, get your head to a place where you can breathe! You will always be used and abused and a victim if you go to this type of guy. Watch out. Find yourself a true Master...they're out there...
One more NOT offer your precious gift of you...your submission, your very being, without FIRST... THOROUGHLY check this gangster out, make sure he is real, and not just an overgrown boy!
If you're not sure whether you can discern, if you can tell, write me, I'll help you figure it all out.
So-right, so-right heheh ok baba looey, thanks for reading this...see you next time :)

8/4/2005 8:13:43 PM
Now that I've been here for a while, I see some interesting things. I thought, when I came here, that there would be a different 'quality' of people from what I've run into in sub/slave-type chat rooms. I was wrong. I wrote a letter to a girl today, who is struggling with these same issues, so I thought I'd c/p my remarks to her...see what you think:

I too find so many of those who call themselves masters or mistresses are just mainly messed up guys and gals. Why anyone would call you a phony for making sure that your children are protected, that you are going to be able to submit, not from some ....well I'll use the terms I was thinking...some durned-fool idiot's idea of what domming or subbing might mean...when all he is is clueless!
As I said in my profile, a true Master is one who will release a girl to be truly fulfilled in her femininity. That's what divides the pretenders/offenders from the genuines...a Genuine Master is one who is will put the girl and her needs first, a pretender is in it purely for himself. There's a world of difference.

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