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Hetero Male Dominant, 39,  North, United Kingdom
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Daddy Dom looking for a submissive female to build a r/l relationship with.

I will be your mentor, protector, guide & Father figure as I mould you into all that you can be & you will be my devoted muse always eager to learn & please your Daddy Dominant.

I would describe myself as a firm but fair Daddy Dom who believes in safe, sane, consensual activities & maintains control through trust, understanding & mutual respect. I also see the relationship as being based on the mental aspects of control, guidance, leadership & care & not just on the physical aspects of a relationship.

The Equalitarian Dominant

The Equalitarian Dominant is one who controls by teaching, mentoring and leading. This Dominant feels and knows that when they find a comparable submissive that things will happen as a progression of the interaction. Usually just a mention or short learning situation is necessary to obtain a certain interaction. Both the Dominant and the submissive "get it", need very little, so called "training" and naturally know what the other needs after interaction. This Dominant does not like the situation of constantly repeating and forcing a particular behavior (submission) to occur. It is not the activities but the surrender as the result of the Domination that is the objective and enjoyment. Creativity is an important part of this situation. These are the more intellectual, into the philosophy/psychology mechanism of this lifestyle. They understand the concepts and resultant interactions and can put it into real life. They do not need many "rules" like the Democratic type, nor do they like the heavy S&M activities; preferring submission to occur as a result of an instilled desire in the submissive to surrender. She "wants" to as a result of the Dominant's knowledge and skill at Dominating. Sensuousness is the rule and pain is given and received as a form of sensuous stimulation. Light pain as opposed to severe. Sensuous torture is a popular activity in this area. Both the Dominant and the submissive must be naturally this way. These are the ones who claim to be born this way, have always been this way. They fully understand the concept of D/s - it comes to them naturally and easily. They attract a submissive who truly and naturally wants to please, and who will observe and sense what the dominant is communicating; and be able to translate that into the right thing to do. The doing or saying without having to be told type. The submissives beg easily and surrender sweetly. They understand the concept of respect and surrender and can make it happen after initial learning with little or no additional instructions. They embrace the surrender gratefully and lovingly. These individuals usually form the most intimate of relationships, the closest. There is not much downside to these relationships, because they not only grasp the concepts, but can make it happen too; and their attraction is based on strong mutual respect. Their strong relationship is not readily apparent to the unobservant, but they are always subtly in the 24-7 mode. The fact that these things come forth naturally and without the need for orders or rules are a great affirmation and source of pride, satisfaction and loving.

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 DaddyDomforu

 Dominant Male

 North 

 United Kingdom

 Willing to Relocate

 5' 9"

 186 lbs

 39

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 06/23/09

 07/07/09

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Submissive Female

 Lives For:

 Collars

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Denial

 Loves:

 Movies

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 Museums

 Anal Play

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 Housework Service

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 1950s Lifestyle

 Goth Lifestyle

 Victorianism

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 Conservative Politics

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