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Pan Male Dominant, 56,  DeBary, Florida
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ISO MommyDomme and bi-subbie couple for 'family oriented' D/s 'Back in the day...' I found a few subbie friends via bondage.c.., craigslist, yahoo groups, and kinkycontacts. Some lasted 15+ years. But things change. Now bondage has gone 'full commercial,' KC is for sale, yahoo groups never evolved to follow the users' preferences and declined in use, CL is a spamhaus, and I've move here to FL, so starting over again.

I'm looking for a MommyDomme to partner with for 'family oriented' D/s roleplaying, plus a younger adventurous/exploring bi-subbie couple. The intent is a 4some that can walk down the street like any other normal family, but that in private everything is lots more erotically and intimately playful. :) (It's also totally possible that the older woman could be submissive, plus a DaughterDomme.)

This is not for a quickie but LTR NSA FWB - keyword: *FRIENDS*.

This requires lots of communication up front to make sure people will be potentially compatible. No, no endless emails, but lots of clear Q/A from both sides so we don't waste any more time than necessary. The only -unfulfilling- (read one-time) meetings I've had were -caused- by not enough up front communication first. Those were -very- few and I learned from them.

My favorite activity is obviously spanking which I use for both reward and punishment. I am an expert-expert spanker and have been told that by people with many more years experience than me. The pleasure and beauty of a naked bottom laying across my lap for my enjoyment and entertainment is the most wonderful feeling in the world. :) :)

Also included are restraints, sensory deprivation, clothespins, hot wax, CD for -both- of the subbies, and lots more those are just come to mind at the moment.

Hard limits are no underage of course which goes without saying but needs to be said anyway, no blood/cutting/piercing, no asphyxiation, and no permanent marks or damage.

D/s is not a one way street. A subbie is a playtoy, but still a living being. Part of the Dom/Domme's 'job' in a sense is to learn the subbie's individual needs and desires and fulfill those needs. Doing that job well is what makes the subbie come back again and again always wanting more. Leaving those needs unfulfiled is what makes the subbie want to leave to look and find what they need elsewhere. Again, these are all aspects of the 'communication' topic.











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 Dominant Male



 6' 1"

 150 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

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Submissive Male

Sub/Sub Couples

Femdom Couples

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