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**NO MALES, NO TRANSGENDERS, NO COUPLES**
I am NOT here for the fantasies, nor the illusions, but here for Real Life and to communicate with sincere and genuine people.
Please do not approach me for cybersex, roleplay, or an online relationship.
If you are a sincere,intelligent, mentally and physically fit, (being fit does not necessarily mean skin and bones), submissive woman, looking for a real life, real time relationship with a sane, imperfect, caring, loving, and Naturally Dominant man, contact me so we can get to know one another.
I'm Bill. A 49 yr old, Daddy Dominant. Romantic, spiritual, sensual, centered, passionate, emotionally and physically fit. I've many interests, diversions and pleasures. I don't "live" the lifestyle, I live life and enjoy each day to it's fullest. If I message you, it may just be to give you a compliment or ask a
question. It does not necessarily mean that I want to have sex with, or looking for a relationship with
you. I will afford you the same courtesy. On the same token, understand
that I'm not going to write a paragraph just because you say that you
hate receiving one-line emails. I really don't message many people
anyway. I'm somewhat picky.A nurturing Daddy at heart... Caring and loving, but yet a strong Man with a Firm hand. Please understand I am "perfectly imperfect." and not here posing as some "Super Dom" but a real and passionate Man who happens to be Dominate.
If there is mutual interest, after chatting online a bit, phone conversations will be a must. If you are not prepared to do this, please do not waste my time or yours. I have no interest in a prolonged, long-term pen-pal or online situation.
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"Acceptance,
understanding, patience, power exchange, discipline, training,
teaching, time, respect, growth of trust, care, and connection."
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HER PLACE
Like a goddess
she
naked
lays across the lap of her Dom
He caresses her ass
like he’s selecting succulent honeydew
as fingers tease
“his”cunt
to test her wetness
her excitement for the act of being used
Hand lowers to flesh
and a whimper is heard
just as juices flow freely onto Dom’s hand
he smiles
He feeds his sub
allows her to lick her juices
as his hand lowers once more
She sucks his fingers
as he slaps her behind
caramel turning to pomegranate
she orgasms when he says “NOW’
The resounding slaps
the blowjob she gives his hand
her moans barely heard and ignored
These are his pleasures
his desires
Hers
are only to serve.
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I came across a very insightful post in a submissive women's journal the other day. It was right on the mark on how I feel about CM and coming in contact with someone sincere. Thanks feralprimate: "The way these personals websites are structured, it really is a format that seems counter to the ultimate destination as far as the male-dom/female-sub partnership goes…. As everywhere else on the internet and in dating forums out in ‘the real world’, there’s an ostensible abundance of males, an evident dearth of females (in relative terms only). So the male, as ever, finds himself in the pursuer role, already a contradiction to his characterization in a male-dom D/s scenario, where the ‘sub’ or ‘slave’ is supposed to take great efforts to win the dom’s favor. In this crowded internet forum, a male-dom pretty much has to win hers; has to somehow stand out from the crowd, demonstrate to the female-sub/slave his own merit above that of others… because females on this site, whether sub/slave or domme are traditionally overwhelmed with contact, regardless of their age or other attributes. All of these factors emplace the female-sub in a ‘chooser’ position …which is a bit inconsistent with the lifestyle she hopes to attain, once the choosing is accomplished. Anyway, it’s a poor opening to a D/s scenario, is all that I’m saying."
Very well said. Let me say, hell yes I think any Dom/sub or whatever needs to put their best foot forward especially during that initial contact with someone you are interested in. My experience has been though that no matter how witty, polite or whatever my approach is, 9 times out of 10 my email is either deleted unread, or read and simply not responded too. I've been on this website a while and this is something I've come to expect. Life goes on and I'm almost certain the one I seek will most likely be met by conventional means and not online.
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I liked this:
I stand before you... I wear a wife beater, no bra, and shorts. I am a little nervous, I know what will come, and its the mix of both pleasure, pain and humiliation that I anticipate and fear, just a little.
At your direction, I slip the shorts down, leaving my panties on. I then turn and lay down on your lap, hair hanging over the side of the chair, legs off the other side and my ass presented to you, willingly. I place my arms forward, above my head, to make sure I am obedient, and don't interfere with your desires.
You take a moment to caress my ass... and I bury my face in my raised arms which hang over the arm of the chair. You pull down the panties. I wait, breathing hard in anticipation. There is moisture between my legs. This feeling both embarrasses and arouses me.
You spank. Each stroke on my bare skin stings, and I jump just a little. After 6 strokes you stop... and take the time to explore and observe my most private areas.
Even though I am softly crying, from the sting and the humiliation of being punished, I spread my legs slightly for you. You play with me, and then finish the punishment with 6 more slaps to my now reddening buttocks.
I slide down, kneel at your feet, and place my head on your lap as you kiss me lightly, and stroke my long black hair... comforting me.
It is the best feeling in the world, to have you punish me, and love me.
©2007-2009 =inpenguin
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An
Article About "Daddy Doms"
by Kendra
about Daddy Doms...I mentioned
the term Daddy Dom in a chat room the other day and was greeted by a
resounding Yuk! It got me thinking about the misconceptions surrounding
this aspect of D/s. I realize most think that it involves a father/daughter
relationship. That isn't quite true, Daddy/little girl is a much different
level. I do not know if I can explain what I mean so I will simply talk
about what a Daddy Dom is to me. First I should say that in my relationship
my Dom is not my father, he is nothing like my father, and I have no
need for him to replace my father. He is however my Daddy. We do not
engage in age play specifically ( beyond the occasional school girl
fantasy *s*) and our relationship is not based on any need to have sex
with children. I am always all woman, and always a very independent
woman. He does have the ability to make me feel like a little girl,
however, a very cherished and sometimes needy little girl. It is a feeling
that I revel in, it is the safest place I have ever been, and it allows
me the freedom to be all that I am without fear of reprisals. So..what
makes a Daddy Dom? First and foremost he loves his little girl. She
is his prized possession. His eyes light up when she walks into the
room and he takes great pride in her successes. After all, he helped
to create her. She holds the most tender part of his heart and has the
greatest power to hurt him. Seeing her hurt however is not something
a Daddy Dom wants. He sees it as his job to protect her, both from the
outside world and herself. He may love to cause her great pain in a
scene, but he hates to be the one to hurt her emotionally. It hurts
him to have to punish her , but he knows it is sometimes necessary.
This takes great strength on his part. It takes strength to control
her, and to shape her to his needs and desires. It takes strength to
be her confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let
her out into the world when all he wants to do is hold her safe in his
arms. And it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to
be disciplined. A Daddy Dom knows the value of discipline, though at
times his soft heart gets the best of him. He knows that in order for
his little girl to be the best she can possibly be he must stand firm.
He uses his experience in life and his knowledge of her to provide proper
direction and punishment when the need arises. He knows this hurts her,
and that tears at his heart, but he also knows it is for her own good.
A Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to his submissive..acceptance.
She is safe in his arms because he knows her, everything about her,
and he still loves her. When she goes to him she knows that this man
knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn't matter. To him
she is beautiful. Many of you may be asking what separates a Daddy Dom
from any other Dom. In most cases very little. Hopefully they all provide
love, strength, protection, discipline, and acceptance. I have heard
Daddy Doms described as a kinder, gentler, Dom. I like that definition
though I know it won't apply to all. I guess when it really comes down
to it I can't explain it. There is something infinitely magical about
a Daddy Dom. Perhaps it is something only a little girl can understand.
Daddy/little girl does not refer to the ages, real or pretend, of the
participants. Nor does it imply closet desires. It refers to the environment
that two people have created. A Daddy Dom is so named because of the
qualities he possesses and the service he provides. So, what are these
qualities? What is a Daddy Dom? A Daddy Dom wants to be the center of
your universe. He wants to be able to provide for your every need and
care. But more than that he wants to be able to shape and mold you to
the image he thinks you should become. He sees in you someone who, in
his mind, can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He believes
more in you than you believe in yourself. What he wants in return is
to be able to bask in his image of you, the image he has created. How
does he achieve his goals? Through love, respect, and discipline. His
love for his little girl goes without saying. He accepts every part
of her and works to emphasize the good while improving the bad. He loves
her as much for who she is as for who she will become with his guidance.
It is this love that allows him to train her. He could not invest so
much of himself in someone he did not love completely. This love would
not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel great pride
in his possession. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside
world and still submit to him. He holds the greatest respect for the
gift she has given him and takes great pains to increase it's value.
It is extremely important to him to know she can be with any man and
she chooses to be with him. He knows that this makes discipline a priority
in their lives, more important than in some other D/s relationships.
In order for the little girl to really trust she must know he means
what he says. He must constantly deepen her respect for him. If he does
not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If his
submissive finds that she can manipulate him out of punishing her, she
begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He
needs to empower her as much as he wants to possess her and it becomes
increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect.
The discipline is also important when it comes to her protection, both
from those outside the relationship and those within. He is the one
who makes the decisions about how she will relate to the world in general
and his discipline ensures that she follows these rules. I think most
Doms have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the role of male authority
figure in their submissive's life and using their power to enrich that
life. Daddy/little girl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension
of warmth, caring, and ritual that it's participants crave.
authored by
"Kendra"
as indicated on subspace.cc
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It's been quite a while since I've been on this site. I had lost my password but mostly lost interest in coming here quite honestly. Life is wonderful and I've been spending a lot of time on my business as a real estate investor. I am a month away from celebrating my 50th Birthday and it's a big deal for me. I'm considering Vegas as a place to celebrate but we'll see.
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