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Hetero Male Dominant, 64,  Sacramento, California
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The stirring inside. The relentless call of desire. The darkness bids you to taste its erotic fruits, and find freedom in its carnal pleasures.

You may be new. You may be experienced. In either case, you yearn for the fulfillment that can only be realized within the context of your submission. You are a submissive, but not a doormat. You may be a toy, but you are more than an object.

Who I am:
A fellow journeyman who has traveled this road, for the better part of 35 years. I believe that engaging one's fantasies around the BDSM/Fetish scene requires communication. This has as much to do with listening, as it does with acting. Two people gather, and dance together in an intricate web of give and take, push and pull, dominance and submission. I strongly believe in Safe, Sane, and Consensual. I also believe that the point of this is to enjoy oneself, and in the process, become more in tune with one's secret yearnings and desires.

What you will find:
A caring, sane, individual who is sometimes very intense, and at other times easygoing. You will find someone with a wicked sense of humor, and a functioning brain, with various intellectual interests - afterall, sex is not everything in life. In me, you will find a potential friend, and play partner.
Someone, if our kinks are compatible, can help you learn about yourself, or help take you deeper than you have gone before.

I'm looking for the following:
Sane, a sense of humor, and doesn't play stupid games, wasting my time and their own.












 Dominant Male



 6' 1"

 195 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

 Lives For:

 Begging (Expert)

 Body Worship (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Humiliation (Expert)

 Knife Play (Expert)

 Massage (Getting) (Expert)

 Role Playing (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)

 Old Guard (Expert)


 Antique Shows


 Coffee Shops  (Expert)

 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales


 Travel (Expert)

 Blindfolds (Expert)


 Local BDSM Community (Expert)

 Fisting (Expert)

 Gags (Expert)

 Munches (Expert)

 Public Play  (Expert)

 Sensory Deprivation (Expert)

 Vibrators (Expert)

 Wax play

 Role Playing Games (Expert)

 History (Expert)



 Bowling (Expert)



 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Fishing (Expert)

 Going to the Opera


 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires

 Volunteerism (Expert)

 Horseback Riding

 Hunting (Expert)

 Anal Play (Expert)

 Electrical Play

 Fire Play



 TV Sports

 Country Music


 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes

 Auto Racing






 Online Chatrooms (Expert)


 Bar Hopping (Expert)

 Clubbing (Expert)

 Gambling (Expert)



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