Hetero Male Dominant, 34,
Greetings and welcome.
I moved into Corcoran, California from Oklahoma. So now is a good time as any to dip my toes into the waters here in Cali and see what there is out here and figure out if I will be staying or moving in the coming year(s). Because of this move I am currently staying with family until I figure out if I am staying in this state.|
I have been a Top in the life for going on 11 years.
I learned about BDSM in college and focused a lot of my time into learning all about it. I had a older couple that mentored me and showed, trained and explained a lot to me.
I am not looking for any males, CDs, dragqueens.
If you don't have anything on your profile then I will assume that your a bot, lazy or fake.
I am not looking for someone married or open or even in a poly. I am looking for someone who does not want to share, who wants to be mine and mine alone, as I will be hers.
Yes I am real
No I don't play games
I am not and never will be a sugar daddy. Any one looking for money, items, rent, whatever or to be spoiled has nothing coming from me.
Hi, I am Q, I am over 6' tall, I weight 265 right now. I am mixed with a lot of shit but Black, White and Hawaiian are the dominate ones. I am a grower, it will start of very shy but the more excited the larger it gets.
I am STD/STI clean and will keep it that way.
I am drug free.
I hardly drink.
I don't smoke.
A bit of a warning I am...
Odd to say the lest
Don't cum easily I have stamina and like to fuck A LOT.
I tend to be protective of the things that I love and will fight tooth and nail.
I want someone who has similar interest as me, I don't expect it to be a perfect match but having some similar interest gives us stuff to talk and connect on. I am nerdy, geeky & perverted. I enjoy gaming both video and table top, but when it comes to relationships no games please. If you don't like me or don't want anything to do with me fine, just tell me wont hurt me and saves us both time.
I know I am not everyone's cup of tea.
I am into anime, camping, hiking, fishing, bowling, video games, table top games and RPGs, swimming, YouTube, twitch, cuddling, music, sex, porn, Mexican and Indian food and just having a good time.
I will not rush into anything and I don't expect you to be rushed. Communication is a major turn on for me. I like to talk with and listen to my girl. If we can play video games together while talking even more excitement.
I am honest and expect the same.
Oh you have pictures great me too, I am interested in your mind and personality 1st. I want to have a deeper connection then a Ed Sheeran song (in love with your body).
With that said I am not a fem
If your looking for abuse, torture, blood and violence. You can keep going. But if your looking for degrading, humiliation, exhibitionism, patriarchy then you found the right place.
I want someone who I can settle down with and grow with, someone to enjoy hobbies and learn and share new experiences, have conversations.
I am a Dom so I tend to take control of a lot of things but a good Dom also know how to let go. I will not control anyone 100% not looking for a robot, But there are things that I do want to control.
Orgasm - Control/Denial
Home Wear (clothing, outfits or lack there of in the home)
- I am looking for someone who ->
- Honest, Loyal, Trustworthy, Obedient and Passionate.
- Wants something both in and out of the bedroom. (it cant be all sex sorry) I want someone I can have vanilla fun and life with as well as kinky spicy fun and life. Balance is key.
- Who does not want kids. (Sorry)
- Wants to settle down for the long haul.
- Who into oral and cock worship. (MUST)
- Who is into communication and honesty with each other.
- Who will be open and honest with me about everything.
- Who is interested in more then just sex.
- Who wants to be a fucktoy.
- Who want to laugh and have fun.
- Who wants to be a pet.
- Who is real with themselves and others.
- Who enjoys being cuddled, grouped, having their hair brushed and washed, as much as she likes being spanks, bit, kissed, fucked, having her hair grabbed and pulled.
- Who will listen to me when I have something to say and will take my opinion and input into consideration at all times.
- Who will express herself to me when she has something to say.
- Who wants cuddles and snuggles.
- Who into some of my hobbies.
- Who likes pats on the head as much as tummy rubs.
- Who wants to be used by Daddy.
- Who loves cum and craves it in her.
- Who wants to grow and explore with
- Who likes a challenge and is a challenge herself
- Who want to be the absolute focus of my attention, love, dedication and affection!
I do sometimes like to test the limits with permission, this is mostly keeping her/you locked/bound while giving unknown amounts of orgasms back to back while making her count them off to see her limit and make her beat it.
So if you only had 10 last week we will go with 15 this week, etc...
The other thing I like to do is make it a game, red light green light with orgasms, or I tickle during orgasm.
When it comes to kinks I have many but its something we can discuss. I am adaptable meaning I am willing to work with someone that has earned it, but there are some that are a must like...
As for hard limits they are
I am very touchy person meaning I like to grope, rub, finger and tease, so if you don't like that then you don't want to be with me.
I only care that your serious, 18+ and are willing and able to do the things that I need/want. Please dont play games and waste time.
Time is something we cant get back and once its up its over. I want to spend as much of it with her/you as I can, making life amazing for as long as I can.
Lets chat and see where things go. If you have any questions please contact me.
I also do online and face to face training/mentoring, if you have questions or don't know what something is please ask.
If ya are interested in training or just have questions I look forward to hearing from you.
with that said I will not send money to anyone for any reason.
I am not perfect by any means, here is a list of what my flaws are,
Blind out of right eye
Can't drive ever
Cuss a lot
Cant spell well
Hand writing sucks hardcore docter like
Don't like crowds
High sex drive and stamina
Have a bit of a belly
If your interested and/or have questions hit me up
My Xbox and steam name can be given once we have talked and made a connection, Same for my cell number.
Willing to Relocate
Body Worship (Beginner)
Obedience Training (Expert)
Orgasm Control (Expert)
Role Playing Games
Maid / Butler Service
Sensory Deprivation (Beginner)
Anal Play (Beginner)
Local BDSM Community (Beginner)
Genital Punishment (Beginner)
9/22/2017 8:11:54 AM
Is a daddy still a daddy if he does not have someone to love and nurture, hold and protect, inspire and comfort?
I have been sad, hurt and lonely.
I miss having someone to love and cuddle and its very hard to fill this void.
I am not rushing to find her, I want to make sure that there is a connection that its not just sex. If all I wanted was sex I could get that any time.
I want to build and share my life both vanilla and kink.
I want something that's but in and out of the bed.
I want to have a connection with someone on a deeper level, I want to be able to talk to her and have her talk to me, tell me about her day, whatever is on her mind, her feelings and wants, opinions and desires.
I want her to scream at the top of her lungs at me and pound me with her fists in anger.
I want to cuddle, grope and comfort. I want to be her shoulder to cry on, her ear to listen to her even in the darkest of days, her hand to lift her up and hold her tight.
I want to brush her hair and massage her pains away.
I want all of the good and the bad.
This silence is dark, cold and lonely.
3/20/2017 3:00:15 PM
well so much for that. Turns out her online dom forced his way back in and she shut me out. So I am back to zero. I will give it another try and see what happens. So ya back on the market
3/19/2017 4:20:25 PM
I have met someone on her that seems real and wants the same as me. I am going to focus on this and see where this might lead. As of right now she is considering me to be her Dom and trainer so I will not be looking for anyone unless things fall through with her. I like her personality and we click on both vanilla and kink levels. We have been sharing some vanilla time together and I feel that we are clicking but that I am failing her with my lack of entertainment as she tends to take a lot of breaks which I feel is my fault for lack of entertainment. I hope that I can fix this and that I would lose my chance due to this.
3/10/2017 4:23:08 PM
So out about the town lonely so I went and watch a movie but it's not the same alone. I am gonna grab a bite after this and scan collarspace
6/17/2014 1:16:36 PM
So I have meet a lot of wonderful people on here and enjoy talking to them. I am always willing to learn.
I have been in talks with this one that I have high hopes for. I am really having a great time talking with her. And hope that she is as well. I find that she is willing to ask the hard questions which means to me that she really cares about her life and knows what she wants out of it.
I think I might be saying to much to fast but I am not sure. With text its always so hard for me to get a read on people because text alone has masked emotions to them.
I am playing clam and taking a different approach to this then I have in the past. I like this girls mind and I wont her to feel safe with me. So I want to take my time and do it right and not take any chances but I am afraid that by doing so I lose her.
I would really like to meet her but I need to wait for her to feel comfortable in doing so.
I know that we would have a lot of fun we have a lot of the same interest and oh my god my friends would love her. DnD would be SO MUCH fun.
Note to self ask her about her movie/tv interests. She mentioned Netflix but was to tried to talk.
6/11/2014 3:48:03 PM
I keep getting a lot of people who are calling me "fake" or "bot" I dont see how they are calling me either when. I answer all my mail and responded to them, even if its not what they want to hear.
I am also getting a lot of "foreign" members asking me to pay for them to "come" see me.
I dont understand why they think that I am just going to toss them money.
So far I have found some people on here that I really would like to get to know better and maybe connect with. And a couple of them have even sent me some messages back. But I must not be too interesting because it seems to have stopped.
I dont know if its something I said or if its just that fact that we ran out of things to talk about.
I got a couple messages about people who are interested in training. But it seems that when I ask them whens a good time for us to start they vanish. I am hoping its just that they got busy and not that they got cold feet.