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Hetero Male Dominant, 50,  Virginia Beach, Virginia
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Seeking a real-life D/s relationship that incorporates BDSM with intimacy and romance.
Full committment to our respective M/s roles.
Seek to expand and deepen your submission.
Believe that this can best be accomplished in a loving and trusting environment where romance and submission can effectively coexist, with one reinforcing the other. In this manner, a girl is provided with the structure she needs to make her feel safe, owned, and desired while being molded according to her Master's wishes.

The strongest bond and control that a Master can have over his girl is not physical, but psychological.
I make you uncomfortable at first because I lay your soul bare. I make you comfortable at last because I know your soul. The way that I approach the trappings of a D/s lifestyle reflects this understanding. However, such a regimen must be practical, allow for spontaneity and be able to be incorporated into a girl's daily life, not exist as simply a fantasy to be resorted to on occasion. I do not believe that D/s can be effectively turned on and off; rather the key to happiness and longevity is to incorporate it as an undertone in the relationship that exists at all be adapted as necessary and appropriate, depending on the environment and circumstances.
It is in this manner that the D/s flame in a relationship can remain strong and not be extinguished by the demands of real life. As my girl, she must be able or will be taught to shift gears from lewd and lascivious to classy and presentable and back, as I desire. This contrast and requirement lends an element of sexual tension and excitement to one's daily existence, and provides for a degree of uncertainty that keeps a girl wet, wanting, and wondering.

If you have within you the need to move beyond the fantasy and live the M/s lifestyle in a completely real but practical and caring context and you have the strength, spirit and commitment that is required, I'd like to hear from you. Perhaps we can make both of our dreams come true.

I seek my best friend, my lover, my mate, my little girl all in one sweet package, are you her?












 Dominant Male

 Virginia Beach 


 6' 2"

 225 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

 Lives For:



 Art Galleries

 Fine Dining


 Anal Play (Expert)

 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)


 Being Massaged

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Hair Pulling


 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Orgasm Control

 Sensory Deprivation

 Wax Play (Expert)



 Musical Theater


 Electrical Play (Expert)


 Suspension Bondage


 Historical Shows


 TV News

 TV Sports


 Intellectual Discourse

 Libertarian Politics

 Political Activism



 1950s Lifestyle

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Journal Entries:
5/31/2010 9:27:36 PM
A special little girl is wandering around in her world, woefully unfulfilled and unanswered.  
You have dreams of a strong Daddy to take your hand.  
You have patiently (or maybe not so patiently) looked everywhere.  Your search and quest has thus far borne such minimal harvest.  
You ache for those arms to wrap around you as you sit on my lap.  You hear the soft words of my adoration…being that good little girl.  
The same little girl who understands that a firm hand will amend your wrongdoing, just as well as those hands will equally nurture you to your personal dreams.   
ALL of your dreams.  Even those you are not yet aware of.  
You will enjoy the comforts of this strong and powerful figure, yielding to his wants and desires.  Being his slutty and sexy little girl, eager to please him in every way.   
You accept his administrations of corporal punishment, standing admonished in your corner, awaiting his word to come sit on his lap once again.  
And yet you may well be that independent type, in full recognition that your “entirety” is not quite there yet.  Awaiting that Daddy to set that course.  For you do know the role in your life and how demonstrably fulfilling such a life can be.  
The ability to blend two such enjoyable pathways is a treasure to behold.

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