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Hetero Male Dominant, 46,  Minneapolis, Minnesota
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Hi there!
Oh, you were wondering about me? Well, I'm like most people you'll meet. I'm average in some ways, exceptional in others, and I have a few flaws. Yes, I'm definitely human.
You should consider getting to know me if: - you are NOT a psycho. - you do NOT want to be harmed (note that something can "hurt" without causing "harm"). - you know (mostly) who you are and what you want. - you're genuinely submissive and, with the right person, willing to follow through and eventually meet - you're not just all talk, no action. - you are NOT looking for someone who has built a dungeon in their basement (candidly, I would be worried about that type if I were you). And along those same lines, you don't need a Dom who always wears leather outfits, etc. (I'm not ruling out some leather, but I don't own any Dom 'costumes' as of yet. I do own some toys & tools). - you highly value friendship and consider it an essential in a genuine D/s relationship. - you like intelligent, successful men (especially those who prefer casual to Armani, who feel more comfortable at a local diner than a 5-star restaurant, and who would rather be out hiking vs. sitting in a board meeting - usually). - you have spunk (no doormats please). - you like non-sexual adventure and non-sexual conversation. - you're grounded in reality, not fantasy.
And - bonus points here - you like to travel (and I don't mean just to meet me - I'm talking about visiting interesting places around the world.)
If most of that sounds about right to you, then drop me a line.
And, just so I know you've read this entire profile, include the word "the" or "a" in your message (yeah, it's a joke.)












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 5' 11"

 180 lbs






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Journal Entries:
9/6/2012 9:18:47 PM

"All things are ready if our minds be so." Shakespeare, Henry V

11/8/2010 5:20:30 PM

Most people here don't seem willing to invest *any* significant time and/or energy in actually getting to know someone - so they continue wandering from profile to profile like a lost sheep. There needs to be an initial spark, true, but who's willing to fan the flames? Real relationships take time and require effort.


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