| Read My profile. It says much more than any checklist ever could.
20+ years in the Canadian military have taught me how to be firm, fair and authoritative, when required. The style of the "DaddyDom" is mine. The persona of a caring but stern mentor, trainer, instructor and guide is what suits me best.
I'm not a hardcore dominant dressed in stormtroopers leathers and I have no sadistic desires to hurt you, as that is not me...not at all.
I am a perverted and rather quite deviant authoritarian. Nothing more, nothing less. Your submission to me will be earned, not demanded immediately; that type of trust comes with time, communication and mutual understanding. I will never try to remove your personal identity or fully control your life. Friends, family, home and personal finances are things that are you; I will not attempt to drastically change the "you" that you have held dear over the years.
My interests include, but are not limited to: lifestyle submission, orgasm control training, tease and denial, objectification, mild breath control, role play/"dress up", anal training, enemas and LOTS of insertable toys.
I'd like to interact with someone who has an open mind and is eager to objectively try new things under patient guidance, coaching and mentoring. All that is asked, yes "asked" of you is that you maintain a willingness to experiment and openly identify new things as "soft" or "hard" limits. If that compatibility exists, I certainly look forward to discussing and potentially enjoying a menagerie of kinks, deviations and perversions with you.
I consider you as independent if you have a job, don't live with your parents and own your own car; as I do. R/L meetings will only be considered with an independent submissive who is in control of her own life and wishes to surrender SOME measure of control, of SOME aspects of her life.
If we communicate only online and/or by phone, that is one thing. If we meet
R/L, we will meet as two vanilla people on a date. Any previous online/phone interactions will taken for what they were. If compatible we shall move forward with discovering each other proceeding at a pace that is appropriate, if proceeding is in fact appropriate. If more prudent we may even just become friends within the BDSM community and nothing more.
Drop me a line if you're interested in discussing further.
If you wish to simply interact online and/or by phone (AKA friends), that can have it's place too as I always relish the opportunity to enhance the BDSM community through gaining new friends and stimulating discussion.