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I'm seeking my princess to worship, my eager slut, my good girl to care for and encourage, my partner to share life with
My main goal here is to find a partner for a long term relationship. Looking for a connection that is not just about kink, but deeply rooted in it.
More photos and some writing on my fetlife profile https://fetlife.com/users/4395973
I find mental stimulation equally as motivating, seductive and fulfilling when it comes the D/s dynamic. I love the deep emotional connection as much as I do anything physical.
I’m seeking a younger, submissive women, who is herself seeking a serious relationship with an older man who fits the deion of Daddy or Dominant. I’m looking for a 24/7 committed relationship that just happens to be between two kinky people, I am not expecting every moment to be kinky, but very much enjoy it to be present in a relationship - vanilla just won't do.
An ideal submissive to me is loyal, honest and keen to please. I’m not hung up on a particular body type, I'm BBW friendly and appreciate many body types, but I do need to find a partner physically attractive.
Any sort of relationship is a two way street. I believe in clear consent and good communication. Submission and trust must certainly be earned. I’m more than happy to make the effort to prove myself to earn the relationship dynamic that I desire. I’m kind and generous, laid back and love to spoil a girl. I enjoy being physically close to someone and find it particularly intimate, comforting and pleasurable for there to be lot of hand holding, touching etc.
In recent years I have enjoyed being a Daddy and taken on that role in a couple of relationships, as well as a few playdates/encounters. However there is more to me than a simple definition or type. Like everyone I have different sides to my personality that ebb and flow. Overall though I like to be in charge, I expect obedience and eagerness to please, and I enjoy repaying submission with kindness and care (and orgasms!).
Seeking a ‘submissive’ does not mean I’m just looking for a pushover, or a simpleton incapable of making her own decisions. I want to enjoy the company of a capable, intelligent and reasonably worldly woman who chooses to submit because she believes I am worthy. She does not necessarily have to be hugely ambitious, but there does need to be a spark there, a desire to grow and develop, to chase some dreams and build the best life possible.
I’m not perfect, I don’t expect you to be either. I do believe in compromise, and while having a clear idea of what you are looking for is great, I know you can miss out on something great if you stubbornly pursue a very narrow ideal partner. So I’m very happy to get to know someone who perhaps does not entirely fit what I have outlined above – there is no harm in having a chat. I believe that the dynamic between every couple is different and a coming together of desires and tastes, and that compromise is perfectly natural and ok.
I’m not especially interested in hook ups or one off encounters. Ideally I'm investing energy into something that has a future. Will however consider reasonable offers while I am single.
I enjoy rough sex, gentle sex and everything inbetween, depending on my mood... see my fetish list for a good guide of what I like to get up to or am interested in. I’m happy to entertain and discuss kinks. I’m not necessarily looking for every day to be kinkier than the last, do prefer natural development and a 'lifestyle' over deliberate scenes. The real prize for me is the gift of the submission, and trust and dedication to one another. I am very open minded and accepting, do have a few limits and things I'm simply just not interested in.
I'm not interested in a permanent long distance arrangement. I am willing to get to know someone who is not local to me, but I would be looking to close that distance over time. I am not unwilling to travel, but a sensible arrangement and seeing plenty of each other is essential. I do enjoy exploring and seeing new places, for example I've developed a love of London this past year.
Some more general information about me and what I get up to in the vanilla world:
- I enjoy nature, days/nights out, writing on occasion, gardening if the weather is not too dismal and getting comfy watching tv/films or curling up with a book/audiobook.
- I spent a lot of time in 2016 visiting National Trust houses and gardens with my camera and would like to continue the habit.
- I enjoy art and galleries. I have just begun teaching myself to paint
- I am a homeowner and definitely want to continue to work hard and move up in the world.
- When it comes to genres of tv, film and books I enjoy comedy/sci-fi/fantasy/anime/horror and a lot more besides.
- I'm a fan of eating well and trying to keep in good shape, believe we owe it to ourselves to look after our health.
- I am tattooed but not pierced
- I enjoy listening to music, would be lost without my spotify app, enjoy rock/metal/punk/electronic/indie and all sorts of other things too.
- I am Australian, have lived in the UK for 6 years and counting
- I’m not religious, can be a bit nihilistic at times, but ultimately feel that this is the only life we have so let’s make the most of it!
- More of an introvert than an extrovert. Non-smoker. Not into heavy drinking or drugs but don't tend to judge as long as it is not affecting me
Well if you got this far I should congratulate you. Would love to hear from you if you're interested in getting to know me.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Dominant
98% Daddy/Mommy
93% Brat tamer
89% Sadist
87% Rigger
85% Owner
84% Degrader
82% Master/Mistress
65% Voyeur
54% Ageplayer
51% Experimentalist
44% Exhibitionist
30% Masochist
28% Primal (Hunter)
11% Vanilla
5% Non-monogamist
2% Girl/Boy
1% Degradee
1% Pet
1% Submissive
1% Switch
0% Brat
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
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