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Hetero Male Dominant,  San Diego, California
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I am a very experienced Dominant seeking a submissive woman, brand new to very experienced

I started in 1974 in NYC at a place called The Garret. Took a LONG break and started getting involved again in 1998

I have varied interest and not all of them need to be 'Your Thing'

What Does need to be your thing?
I have no idea. Every time I meet someone new .. Nothing learned before seems fits for them. LOL

In other words D/s is an evolution for me. Master/slave didn't work with one person but Daddy/girl did.

I have experience in Master/slave, Dominant/submissive. Top/bottom.
Daddy/girl and just play partners.

I do enjoy the role of Tour Guide. I like exposing new (or inexperienced) submissives to the pantheon of S/m. There is nothing more fun than to see the passion when someone finds that one thing that really pushes the right button.

I am flexible.

Some stages I have observed and their evolution:

Slave - "I do not exist without you - your will is mine". I knew we were going to have trouble with the service aspect when I held up an empty soda I had been drinking and said "Soda?" and she said "Sure, I'd love one"

Submissive-"I surrender myself to your will but I am my own woman" .. Trouble in paradise - "Get your own fucking coffee"

Top/bottom "When the collar is on I am all yours, otherwise you are on your own" This just didn't have room for love, affection, loyalty.

Daddy/girl "What ever Daddy wants, Daddy gets. Daddy doesn't want me to breath, I die" {I do love being the nurturing sadist}- The storm is coming - "I don't need anyone for anything. I can live JUST FINE alone. I don't need you"

The last stage is a tee-shirt I saw."Beat me. Whip me. Eat me. Fuck me. Treat me like the whore I am .... and then GET THE FUCK OUT"

They all have there joys and benefits. There is no wrong way to express yourself. Again ... None of them are wrong.

The trouble comes when one person moves and the other still trying to work under the old rules. It's like when one person thinks they are playing baseball and the other is playing by football's rules.

So... What do you want for yourself?

Let's get together and see what we have to offer each other.











 Dominant Male

 San Diego 


 5' 9"

 155 lbs





Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

 Lives For:

 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Cane / Crop Discipline (Expert)


 Eye Contact Restrictions (Expert)

 G-spot Service (Expert)

 Local BDSM Community (Expert)

 Being Massaged

 Fisting (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Leashes (Expert)

 Public Play (Expert)

 Shibari (Expert)

 Spanking (Expert)

 Vibrators (Expert)

 Whips (Expert)

 Physics (Expert)



 Body Worship

 Collars (Expert)

 Electrical Play (Expert)

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 BDSM Rituals (Expert)

 Erotic Hypnosis (Expert)


 Masks on Partner (Expert)

 Medical fetish play (Expert)

 Modern Primitivism (Expert)

 Orgasm Control

 Sensation Play (Expert)

 Outdoor Bondage (Expert)

 Plastic Wrap Bondage (Expert)

 Rubber Fetish

 Sensory Deprivation (Expert)

 Speech Restrictions (Expert)

 Suspension Bondage (Expert)

 Wax Play

 Archaeology (Expert)



 Anal Play (Expert)



 Corner Time

 Fire Play



 Obedience Training


 Clothing Selection

 Role Playing (Expert)

 Theatrical Scenes

 Vacuum Stimulation



 Foot Worship

 Curious About:

 Domestic Service (Beginner)

 Gas Masks (Beginner)

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay (Beginner)




 Genital Punishment


 Mental Bondage


 Hard Limits:

 TV Sports

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Journal Entries:
11/29/2009 12:23:04 PM
Thanksgiving makes 35 years since I was introduced to BDSM.
I want to thank all the wonderful folks along the way that made this an interesting world.

Special thanks to Stephen De Sade, my mentor.

I miss ya big guy

5/7/2007 3:42:18 PM
I guess you can't post photos of people in bondage anymore ... Here is an OFF-site link to my photo account.

4/4/2007 2:17:01 PM
Just for Clarity .. I was born in 1951

11/15/2006 8:53:18 AM
If your sexual experssion is very limited and you are happy with it that way, I might not be the man for you.

I you want to push your limits or explore new territory ..
I am exactly who you need

BDSM is a part of my sexual expression

practice of, or interest in, Tantric practice a  bonus

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