DaddyBEARfromTN

Pan Male Dominant, 48, Knoxville, Tennessee


Sexually sadistic dominance oriented Top who likes to play rough but not with your sanity. Local mentor to me2beYours, mated to Daddys_shebear. Open

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	Sexually sadistic dominance oriented Top who likes to play rough but not with your sanity. Local mentor to me2beYours, mated to Daddys_shebear. Open to considering inquiries about other available positions. ?I have bee?n educated and trained as a Dom for 30 years so far. While in my mid-teens a founder of famous men's Leather club took me in as a student. That man is the only one I have ever called "My Daddy". Since education is a continuing process I believe there is no end to learning unless one chooses to remain ignorant. Around 40 years old now, it has been said I have forgotten more aspects of play than most people ever learn. I won local-level Leather titles in 1989 and 1993, then utilized those titles to rid my agency of anti-BDSM practitioner hiring practices. Because of that history I am strongly repulsed by self created titles thrown around by internet players or those who just read a couple books and now think they know everything there is to BDSM. For all my gruffness, I am really a Daddy-type with honor, strength, support, love, discipline, compassion, and loyalty, being my high priorities. Always beware the bear aspects though, as I have strong hands and sharp teeth with little hesitation to use them. While having numerous skills, and some predilections, I definitely do not approve of pointless cruelty or humiliation. Cruelty as means to a good ending for all involved is another story. While casually intimidating, I can also be sweet, and often both at the same time. ? I am open to considering a permanent house-service sub, free of communicable diseases and no illegal drug use. Other expectations outlined during interview. Gender is not important, our energy and interactive alignment is of primary concern.? ? An ideal house-service sub candidate... is submissive to my desires and that of my woman will fulfill my needs across the spectrum that I establish understands that boundaries are not just "in scene", life is 24/7 knows 24/7 Lifestyle means exactly that, regardless of environment accepts diversity with an open mind because I am full of diverse aspects will keep the promises/contracts they make unless excused from the obligation by me must be trusting as well as trustworthy will not expect financial dependency, everyone contributes to household is preferably a non-smoker, absolutely no illegal drug use, and is not dependent on alcohol These are the minimum attributes to begin consideration, not a completely worded all-inclusive contract. The preferences expressed in pre-formatted profile lists can be confusing depending on the reader's interpretation, so take nothing for granted just because a box was checked. Interested locals may send me a message to inquire. ? ? ? ? ?

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DaddyBEARfromTN

Dominant Male

Knoxville

Tennessee

5' 7"

260 lbs

Pan

Caucasian

04/02/08

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Submissive female

Sub / Slave Male

Switch Women

Switch Male

Sub/Sub Couples

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Lives For:

Body Worship

Breast Play (Expert)

Local BDSM Community (Expert)

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Old Guard (Expert)

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Nanotechnology

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Bar Hopping

Beachcombing (Beginner)

Clubbing

Fishing (Beginner)

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Scuba Diving (Beginner)

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9/29/2011 8:36:12 AM

House-service sub needed. Services required are regular full cleaning of my house, some yardwork and cat wrangling. If your kink is crossdressing while performing the indoor tasks then that is fine, though nudity is the usual expectation. Entire service is under my watchful eye and direction. Punishment is dismissal, reward is you being blessed with my less mundane kinky and sexual attentions.

11/26/2009 9:13:51 AM
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11/26/2009 9:09:48 AM

Copied below is a personal journal rant I originally posted on another site after a talk with my psychologist mom about being frustrated with abusive people who claim to be abuse victims. I removed the screennames in favor of nicknames only recognizable by the people involved. Everything I say below is verified and documentation in-hand so not slander.

TN "subs": the abuser wall of shame

to Collegiate Nut - you have Herpes, I do not and have no interest in contracting it. So of course I have no interest in kissing you, receiving oral from you, or having sex with you. Hell, considering you did not tell me about your Herpes until you thought I had reserved the motel room (only 6 days after meeting online, really?) I would not even fuck you while we both wore full body condoms since I don't know what else you are hiding. Infecting sex partners, while cheating on your husband, is even more abusive than the other crazy shit. Hope the guy you have been fucking for a while now knows what you gave him or already had it since you still think its only transferable when a sore is obvious. The big H is for life, luckily it normally does not kill people but you really should read a current Health Dept or CDC pamphlet about Herpes (all varieties). Its too bad a real child will be swept up in your behavior as well.

to Southern Transplant - your manipulating, fake innocent, rapist behavior is not cute and its a tragedy that you expect everyone to believe its somehow just your confusion from being hard-of-hearing and going deaf. Must have been quite a shock that not only am I "hearing impaired" educated but the Trans boy I have been crushing on for 8 years has even worse hearing deficit so I am not ignorant like so many others you have preyed on. Hope the next Dom/me you try to sexually and physically abuse does not break your neck in anger, and that you grow up in the head before that might occur.

to WV switcher- I loved you, may still love you in a way but recovering. In your own written confession you ran because you loved me back and became scared of your own comfort. Your new profile claim of "being honest as the day is long" must refer to a North Pole winter day. Rather than lying and stealing, as you freely admitted and bragged about, you should have just said you needed to go and we all would have helped in any way you needed. Oh, right, you claim it was all that loving support and help that made you run away from the new home I arranged, the cushy job that was being held for you, and the 4x4 truck bought for you to keep, and forced you to create a series of slanderous accusations about me that can be easily impeached with certified documentation and non-related online sources. In truth it was your addictions coming back in full force from bumming Oxycontin, alcohol, and smokes from my disabled friends, since your ER prescription was for 6 Hydros, not 23 Oxys (that was the confirmed number, unconfirmed is much higher). You are correct, failing the work related drug test would have exposed you before my friends did. Word of advice... before falsely claiming someone has a mental condition LOOK IT UP since you claimed I had Schizo Effective Disorder (which I don't have) but accused me of symptoms related to a different disorder (which I don't have either). Morgan is only a Psychologist while playing Second Life where she tries to emulate the herd of shrinks that keep her on SSDI as 100% mentally disabled, so get a better reference source like DSM-IV. Enjoy your new celebrity from suddenly being a Switch and supposedly trained in such. You are well on your way of accruing the very type of people you ridiculed over and over. And say hello for me to your drug using and dealing sister who suddenly joined kink sites to stalk me for you.

11/11/2009 3:26:56 PM

My results for the BDSM & Long-Term Relationships Test

You scored 92% in romance and 90% in BDSM interest!

BDSM activities, fantasies, and interests are as personal as anything else in the realm of human sexuality. I hope that this test has given you a sense of your interest in integrating your desire to engage in BDSM into a long-term, loving relationship. For some people, this is essential. Other people are just as happy with "play partners" with whom they can engage in BDSM activities but do so without the real emotional attachment of a long-term, loving relationship. A high score in BDSM indicates a demonstrable interest including experience and a desire to engage in these activities in the future. A high score in romance shows that not only do you hope to be in a long-term relationship, but it would ideally be one in which the caring that you have for your lover results in flexibility on your part and a willingness to learn of the interests of this special person in an open and non-judgmental way. This may both enhance the relationship by bringing the two of you closer and help to keep an erotic charge for a long time to come. If you get a warm feeling when you think of such a future, you are a romantic (like the author of this test!). I hope that you have enjoyed this test and feel that it was worth your time.

6/25/2009 8:10:35 PM

Free from Self Will (quote from truly Old Guard wisdom)

Free from self-will, aggressiveness, arrogance, anger and the lust to possess people or things, he is at peace with himself and others and enters into the unitive state. United with Master, ever joyful, beyond the reach of desire and sorrow, he has equal regard for every living creature and attains supreme devotion to Master. By loving Master he comes to know Master truly; then he knows Master's glory and enters into Master's boundless being. All his acts are performed in Master's service, and through Master's grace he wins eternal happiness.

- as translated from 'OG' Bhagavad Gita 18:53-56

12/19/2008 8:31:36 AM

Kinky Twelve Days of Christmas

On the 1st day of Christmas, MASTER will give to you...
A Small Feather Pillow for your knees.

On the 2nd day of Christmas, MASTER will give to you...
2 Nipple Clamps and
a Small Feather Pillow for your knees.

On the 3rd day of Christmas, MASTER will give to you...
3 Blindfolds,
2 Nipple Clamps and
a Small Feather Pillow for your knees.

On the 4th day of Christmas, MASTER will give to you...
4 Ball Gags,
3 Blindfolds,
2 Nipple Clamps and
a Small Feather Pillow for your knees.

On the 5th day of Christmas, MASTER will give to you...
FIVE A-N-A-L BEADS ...,
4 Ball Gags,
3 Blindfolds,
2 Nipple Clamps and
a Small Feather Pillow for your knees.

On the 6th day of Christmas, MASTER will give to you...
6 Tubes of KY,
FIVE A-N-A-L BEADS ...,
4 Ball Gags,
3 Blindfolds,
2 Nipple Clamps and
a Small Feather Pillow for your knees.

On the 7th day of Christmas, MASTER will give to you...
7 Crops a Swinging,
6 Tubes of KY,
FIVE A-N-A-L BEADS ...,
4 Ball Gags,
3 Blindfolds,
2 Nipple Clamps and
a Small Feather Pillow for your knees.

On the 8th day of Christmas, MASTER will give to you...
8 Floggers Flogging,
7 Crops a Swinging,
6 Tubes of KY,
FIVE A-N-A-L BEADS ...,
4 Ball Gags,
3 Blindfolds,
2 Nipple Clamps and
a Small Feather Pillow for your knees.

On the 9th day of Christmas, MASTER will give to you...
9 Candles Dripping,
8 Floggers Flogging,
7 Crops a Swinging,
6 Tubes of KY,
FIVE A-N-A-L BEADS ...,
4 Ball Gags,
3 Blindfolds,
2 Nipple Clamps and
a Small Feather Pillow for your knees.

On the 10th day of Christmas, MASTER will give to you...
10 Scenes a Whipping,
9 Candles Dripping,
8 Floggers Flogging,
7 Crops a Swinging,
6 Tubes of KY, FIVE A-N-A-L BEADS ...,
4 Ball Gags,
3 Blindfolds,
2 Nipple Clamps and
a Small Feather Pillow for your knees

On the 11th day of Christmas, MASTER will give to you...
11 Pairs of Stockings,
10 Scenes a Whipping,
9 Candles Dripping,
8 Floggers Flogging,
7 Crops a Swinging,
6 Tubes of KY,
FIVE A-N-A-L BEADS ...,
4 Ball Gags,
3 Blindfolds,
2 Nipple Clamps and
a Small Feather Pillow for your knees.

On the 12th day of Christmas, MASTER will give to you...
12 Orgasms Screaming,
11 Pairs of Stockings,
10 Scenes a Whipping,
9 Candles Dripping,
8 Floggers Flogging,
7 Crops a Swinging,
6 Tubes of KY,
FIVE A-N-A-L BEADS ...,
4 Ball Gags,
3 Blindfolds,
2 Nipple Clamps and
a Small Feather Pillow for your knees

-- (apologies to original author)