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Pan Male Dominant, 24,  Yucaipa, California
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Before I begin: I require safe, sane, and consensual play. I always follow my sub/slave's hard limits. Doing otherwise would be no less than rape. This requires a very often updated Hard Limit list, updated even during normal day-to-day play. Any safe word usage will be investigated, to find out what never to do again. (This of course is negated if there ARE no hard limits. Be careful what you wish for though.)
I am an Owner/Master/DaddyDom. This means I wish for a toy, a babygirl, a daughter, a kitten, or a puppy, etc. I am also a Sadist. This means I wish for a Slave, a Slut, and an extreme masochist. I am hoping to find both of these wishes in the same person. Unlikely? Yes. But that's what wishes are for. I will explain in this profile what I am looking for, EVENTUALLY, in a relationship. I understand that many of these 'wants' are not something that will happen right out of the gate. A real sub and Master must work towards them throughout the course of the relationship. I WILL CONSIDER ONLINE PLAY! Message me if you think you are right for me, EVEN if you are not in California. EVEN IF YOU DO NOT MEET ALL REQUIREMENTS TO BE MY FULL TIME, PLAYTIME IS STILL AN OPTION! (And yes, that's a play on words.) I have a few kinks that are not normally shared by everyone. I understand this and accept this fact. While some of my kinks may be optional to a sub that I court, some are very mandatory. Again however, that does not mean I would require them right at the start of the relationship, or even close to that. The full list is as follows: Daddy+daughter/kitten/puppy role play. This is only slightly optional; Can be ignored if you are an exceedingly craving painslut. If you are a babygirl or a daughter, this includes wearing diapers (as in the tied-up example above), acting cute, innocent, and doing as Daddy says. Pouting and whining is accepted and even wanted, but not to the point of disobeying. If you are a kitty or a puppy, this includes going to the restroom in litterboxes as pets should, and doing as Owner or Master says. Playful disobedience accepted and even wanted, but not to the point of disobeying. I am definitely open to a combination daughter/pet.
This is not optional; I am a very strict Master when it comes to rules. Punishments for disobedience or mistakes will be swift. I will have many rules for my sub. If you are not able to follow simple rules such as "Always capitalize Master, Dom, and even the word 'You' when speaking to me," expect pain, welts, and blood.
This is optional to an extent. This includes being used as a footstool, Cock 'cosy,' and other household items. 24/7 TPE. Not optional, unless specific requirements meet with a hard limit. This of course will not take over immediately, as we must get to know, and trust each other. Wearing your slave collar absolutely 24/7, except in the shower. Maybe. Recording daily weight. Asking to eat or use the restroom. Master controls everything that enters or exits his sub's body. Being told what to wear EVERY day.
Being slave trained, including performing seemingly stupid, inane, or repetitive tasks. Doing all chores and housework. Urine Play. Optional, but a big plus. This includes pissing on, or even having my slave drink my piss. The idea of coming home, zipping my pants open, and having my sub eagerly drink a full day's worth of my piss, suck her Dom's cock, and then drink my cum all within the course of 10 minutes would be a dream. I also might leave my sub tied up for hours, or even one or two days at a time. During this period of punishment, all I would allow my sub to eat and drink would be my cum and urine, respectively. All good things come (and cum) from Master. Degrading acts. These are absolutely optional, and are only wild fantasies. I will never ask for these, but my slave will be aware of their existence. Cleaning my asshole after shitting with their tongue. (Too dirty, probably wouldn't even try this in real life) Name calling/Pet names. Any of these are optional, and all may be said unless preferred against. Slut Baby/kitty/puppy Whore Lovebug Bitch Sweetheart Cunt Babydoll Cumdumpster Cutie Worthless Poor thing Stupid piece of shit Good girl Bad girl Cutiepie Fuckslut it (as in, the pronoun) MMORPG/Video games/Other interests This is more of a joke kink, but it would be nice if we shared the same interests. All are optional. World of Warcraft. I would have a pocket healer wherever I go ;) TF2 Minecraft Pokemon Homestuck Nerdisms, etc To find out more, feel free to message me. I am always looking for just friends as well! PS read through my likes and dislikes. By the way, I am in an open relationship with someone who understands and is accepting. Random List of Things I Like: Tickling the fuck out of my little one. Being woken up precisely on time every day with my slut's lips around my cock, bringing me to orgasm in time for work.











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 Dominant Male



 Willing to Relocate

 6' 3"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Friends Only

Online Romance

 Lives For:

 Begging (Expert)

 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Body Worship


 Cages (Beginner)

 Chastity (Beginner)

 Collars (Expert)

 Corner Time (Expert)

 Diapers (Beginner)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Housework Service (Expert)

 Humiliation (Expert)

 Leashes (Expert)

 Massage (Getting) (Expert)

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Objectification (Expert)

 Orgasm Denial

 Maid/Butler Service

 Role Playing

 Spanking (Expert)

 Speech Restrictions

 Tickling (Expert)



 Cartoons (Expert)

 MMORPGs (Expert)

 Online RPGs (Expert)

 Science Fiction (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Victorianism (Expert)

 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM



 Amusement Parks



 Anal Play

 Domestic Service (Beginner)


 Knife Play

 Mental Bondage (Beginner)

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Queening (Beginner)

 Sensory Deprivation



 Arcade Games (Expert)

 Cybering (Expert)

 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games (Beginner)


 Liberal Politics  (Beginner)

 Mathematics (Expert)

 1950s Lifestyle


 Rock Music



 Garage Sales


 Musical Theater

 Camping (Beginner)

 Breast Play (Expert)



 Foot Worship (Beginner)


 Massage (Giving)

 Public Play

 Board Games

 Card Games

 Chess (Beginner)

 Comedy Shows

 Horror Movies (Beginner)

 Online Chatrooms

 Web Surfing (Expert)

 Online Auctions

 Painting (Beginner)

 Photography (Beginner)

 Blogging (Beginner)

 Philosophy (Beginner)

 Political Activism

 Psychology (Beginner)

 Country Music

 Heavy Metal Music


 Nineties Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Show Tunes

 Swimming (Beginner)


 Pop Music

 Curious About:

 Going to the Opera

 Renaissance Faires (Beginner)

 Climbing (Beginner)

 Scuba Diving


 Canes and Crops

 Electrical Play


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community (Beginner)

 Fire Play


 Masks (On Partner)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Medical Play

 Munches (Beginner)

 Needle Play

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap



 Vacuum Stimulation

 Romance Novels


 Opera Music




 Hip Hop Music




 Hard Limits:

 Bar Hopping


 Genital Punishment


 Female Supremacy




 Christianity (Expert)


 Feng Shui











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