I just wanted everybody to know that I am doing well.  My life is not as I had originally planned it to be 20 years ago, not even 10,5,4,3,2...but the last year things have taken wild twists and turns and I was a mess...the dust is starting to settle now, the clouds from the storm are clearing, the sun is shining again...I see that things are as they need to be to achieve my main goal...I may not have taken the road I had planned on, but I seem to end up exactly where I wanted to be.  I have confidence that it is as it needs to be...for all involved...even me... 

 DaddizGirl

Please don't say you are sorry to hear of my recent separation, it was my choice.  I am getting my life together and I am much happier in the situation I am in now that the one I was in there.  I am looking at my experience as something to learn from and taking it and moving forward.  No hard feelings, No hostility, I wish him the best in all he does and hope that he does better with his new love which he has found already.  As for me I do not wish to jump into anything just yet, I am learning from jumping into relationships without looking first...that simply ends in disaster ever time I do it so I am not going to do it any longer.  I am focusing on my life with my children and the rest of my family and building a foundation that will remain no matter what happens if a relationship goes bad.  My children deserve that much.  I do not mean to seem cold or unavailable, I am just focused on some people other than myself at the moment and my children are the most important to me.  I guess you could say they are my little dommes for now.  I am not willing to relocate and probably never will be again, I have learned my lesson about going far from home.  I am simply here to make some friends to chat with and maybe if we get along have lunch or something if you are up for that then feel free to drop me a line.