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Lesbian Female Dominant, 36,  19720, Delaware
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READ BEFORE CONTACTING ME: 1. Contact me in a RESPECTFUL way. That doesn't mean you need to be bowing while we speak, it means approaching me like you have some home training. 2. Don't contact me for sexual conversations. I realize that sexuality is a component of this lifestyle but I'm not seeking a fuck buddy. I'm seeking someone who has potential to be my slave, sub and/or play partner. If there is a sexual connection between us, in time that can be explored by it's not about sex for me. 3. For MEN: Although I'm not opposed to having a man as a slave/sub and/or play partner understand there will ABSOLUTELY be NO sexual contact between us. There are plenty of other female Dominants who would be more than happy to have a multi-level relationship with a man in service to them, however I'm not. 4. Don't ask me for a picture when I have barely gotten a chance to know who you are or you know who I am. I understand that there are a lot of people who play games and if I feel we click I have no problem verifying my identity. Also, if you are in the local community and/or go to local and/or national events, you can see me in person. That isn't to say we can't meet in a public place if you don't but if your main concern is focused on what I look like, you're probably a little bit shallow for me. 5. I'm not on this site very often at all. Therefore, when I do come on I tend to get lots of messages. Be respect of the fact that I may not be able to get right back to you if you message me. Also, I'm usually doing a multitude of things when I'm online. Patience is a virtue that I definitely look for in potential servant. DO NOT send me chat requests if we haven't even had a conversation. Have respect for me and my time and I will do my best to reciprocate that. 6. If you do contact me have something more to say than how much you want to grovel at my feet. I'm not new to this and I'm not impressed by that. Use your mind and at least act like you have some decorum. Think of a first contact with me like an interview and put your best foot forward as well as giving me a reason to want to know you more. About Me: I'm an African-American Sadistic Female Dyke Dom (meaning I'm not a Ma'am/Mistress, I'm a Sir/Syr). I am open to subs and slaves who are serious about the lifestyle. I have been in the lifestyle for about 15 years now. I don't post public pictures of me online however if after talking to someone awhile if there is an interest on both sides I have no problem swapping pictures, talking on the phone and/or eventually meeting in a public setting for verification. In general physically, I'm a BBW who is 6 feet. I'm not a girly girl at all. In fact, I only wear men's clothing. I would prefer someone to live within 3 hours of me, yet I am open to those farther away if there is a chance they can relocate at some point. For potential subs/slaves: 1. This lifestyle is just that for me, my lfestyle. Its not something I do on the weekends or just in the bedroom so I seek a serious minded sub/slave that has the same mindset. I am seeking someone to serve Me in a manner with mutual respect, total power exchange (in time), pleasure and an overall desire to want to be Mine. Mind you M/s isn't the same as BDSM. I do enjoy playing, however I find its a lot harder to find a sub/slave than it is to find a play partner. So be able to hold a decent conversation and be aware enough about yourself enough to know what you are or aren't ready/looking for. While I understand we have all had to start somewhere I desire someone who knows what they want or at the very least has clear ideas of what they want. In time I would like the relationship to be a 24/7 total power exchange relationship. 2. I am open to all genders, races and sizes for service and play. However keep in mind that I do not play sexually with men (meaning I'm not playing with your dick). If however you take pleasure in serving in a non-sexual (yet sensual) way, let's talk. 3. I am connected to the Leather community as well as its values, morals, honesty and intregity. I don't feel you need to be Leather, however these are some of the traits I seek in someone. Also I do go out in the community to lifestyle events. If you seek to serve me as a 24/7 sub/slave, you would be expected to attend some if not all of them with me (within reason). 4. Yes, I am a Sadist and I enjoy the infliction of pain. That doesn't mean you have to enjoy pain to serve me however as there are many ways to serve. It does mean that if you do enjoy pain you get a gold star next to your name. 5. I'm not seeking online relationships. I seek those who are willing to serve Me in real-time settings. Therefore, I would expect to actually meet you in person in a reasonable amount of time (according to distance and/or basic obligations). At the least, I expect to talk on the phone after exchanging emails if there is a mutual interest. If you are interested in Me, training will be required! I do not give out collars to just anyone and I don't give them out quickly. Therefore if you are seeking someone just to say you're collared...stop reading now. 6. I don't deal with those who are married and/or partnered unless their significant other(s) are fully aware and I will require proof of that.
7. Again: I am a BBW Dyke Dom (not a Domme)! I'm not going to play into any FemDomme fantasies you have so if that's what you seek, exit stage left. 8. I am also open to a NSA non-sexual strictly play partner(s) so if that is your interest, lets talk.
I do require someone with an open mind. Ignorance is a waste of a good brain and space. Good communication skills are a must. Feel free to look over My "kink" wall and if you feel they meet what you seek and want to talk send a RESPECTFUL email detailing your desires and experience level.
With Honor and Devotion, DaddiPanther Always Present











 Dominant Female



 6' 0"



 African Descent



Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Submissive Female

Male slave/sub

Sub/Sub Couples


A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 You massaging me

 You being my domestic servant (Expert)

 Objectification (Expert)

 Sensation Play (Expert)

 Speech Restrictions (Expert)

 Dominating you with a strap-on (Expert)

 Vibrators (Expert)


 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)



 Fine Dining


 You begging (Expert)

 Blindfolding you (Expert)

 Tying you up

 You worshiping my breasts (Expert)

 Cages (Beginner)

 Disciplining you with a cane

 Collaring you (Expert)

 Corsetry (Beginner)

 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Eye contact with me is not permitted (Expert)

 Penetrating your rear (Expert)

 Erotic touch

 Fire Play (Beginner)

 Gags (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)


 You at the end of my leash

 Medical fetish play (Beginner)

 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 Modern Primitivism

 Going to munches

 Training you to be completely
obedient to me and only me (Expert)

 Complete control of your orgasms (Expert)

 You worshiping me with recitations and rituals (Beginner)

 Deciding what you wear

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay (Expert)

 Role Playing (Expert)

 Sensory Play (Expert)

 Shibari (Beginner)

 Spanking you (Expert)


 Wax Play

 Whips (Beginner)

 Comedy Shows


 True Crime

 Alternative Medicine


 Online Auctions



 Intellectual Discourse



 1950s Lifestyle (Expert)

 Female Sovereignty

 Old Guard





 Giving you corner time facing the wall (Expert)


 G-spot Stimulation

 Local BDSM Community

 You kissing my feet


 You servicing me with your mouth

 Public Play

 Board Games

 Card Games

 Curious About:

 Suspension Bondage (Beginner)


 Housework Service

 Horror Movies

 Hard Limits:


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Journal Entries:
6/28/2012 12:48:25 AM

While I'm not in a rush, I do seek someone who will be able to serve me real-time eventually! I'm not interested in online relationships and/or having conversations one day just for that person to disappear the next. Let's not waste each other's time. However, I'm not going to invite you into my home or come to yours after a few email exchanges. Patience is a virtue. Show me that you have that virtue inside of you. I have no problem in exchanging emails off of collarme and soon after talking on the phone.

Again while I'm open to males for non-sexual service and/or play, my ultimate desire is for a female sub/slave.

So this is a general public service announcement. If you can't respect it, exit stage left.


7/8/2010 3:14:01 AM

I realize that this site isn't that serious as other sites that I'm on when it comes to the lifestyle. That so many people are on this site to get kinky sex, orgies and the like but can you at least respect what I take the time to write in MY profile???!!!!

I'm not a lesbian because I haven't had the right man so no you are not going to be the one to change Me. I find it quite laughable for men to even suggest that they will be the one to change Me! As if I will suddenly wake up out of this lesbian slumber and start to crave dick. For those who don't know the difference in the BDSM lifestyle and sex, let Me quickly educate you.

The BDSM lifestyle isn't about sex! I can have sex with any woman I want (if she wanted Me..My ego isn't that big). Finding a slave who will fullfill My Dominant/Sadistic needs are a horse of a totally different color and THAT is why I'm here. I seek a 24/7 TPE dynamic within My House. If that doesn't work for you...please don't waste your time and more importantly...Mine....

Always Present

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