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< style="font-size: 26px;">I am a nerd and when I was a young lad, it was not a word that I proudly used when describing myself but now that I am more grown-up, I am comfortable, no, proud to be a nerd besides nerds are cool now. Not only am I nerdy but I am also a kinky nerd who identifies as dominant and I have been in and around this lifestyle since I was on that wonderful voyage of self-discovery known as college. Anyway, now that the little trip down memory lane is over, I thought it was time to start tipping my toes back into the lifestyle waters since covid is hopefully fading. Speaking of this I am happily a boosted member of “Team Pfizer” and looking forward to finding my new normal to which I would love to add getting to know other amazing lifestyle people and attend events when the demands of my career allow. < style="font-size: 26px;">Collarspace we all know is dedicated to kinky pursuits and odds are if you are reading this, you might be hoping that I will talk about that very topic. I am dominant however it does not mean I am loud, obnoxious, or cocky but I am confident, considerate, observant, passionate about life, and comfortable with my banging dadbod. Fet is a tool for me to discover events and to get to know people which hopefully will translate into real-life friendships. I am not looking to just engage in online chats but to discover quality people to build real-life connections. I think this is a great place to start to make connections since not too many people wear I love BDSM t-shirts while shopping for kumquats at the grocery. So unless I am fruit shopping at the wrong time of day, Collarspace hopefully will lead to meeting those I missed out on bumping into fruit shopping.
< style="font-size: 26px;"> Since people will ask, the reason I selected pansexual as my orientation is gender does not define who I find attractive. This does not mean I am looking to hook up or have relations with anyone or everyone. I am indeed not only a nerd but also a slut but I am a darn picky slut who typically keeps my slutty side reserved for when I am partnered when all of those desires are pursued with a partner.
< style="font-size: 26px;"> I am single/unpartnered but this does not mean I am franticly seeking a partner. At times it can feel like people can be overeager in D/s to have that amazing special someone and while yes I would enjoy sharing life with someone, I am not seeking partnership but friendship. I have learned that in my life when something sparks out of friendship, it is much more impactful. So finding a partner is not a priority for me, if it happens it will be fabulous but finding fabulous FetLife folks that become true friends is my fantastic focus.
< style="font-size: 26px;"> If you want to know more about me please feel free to say hello as I look forward to getting to know you.

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ladysienna28
 
 Age: 29
 South bend, California