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Gay Male Dominant, 50,  Inland Empire, California
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Before you give me some lame excuse, make sure it can't be fact-checked. I do not like having my intelligence insulted. On the other hand, you could just be honest, but we all know that's not going to happen.

I am a Dom Freak Master. Dom means I am the one in control. That is not up for negotiation. Threatening to top me will only amuse me. And no, straight guys are not entitled to top gay guys. I have yet to meet a straight guy trying to top gay guys that wasn't a coward and unable to attract a partner of any gender. Your inability to behave any other way than a dick doesn't make you superior to me. Freak means that I am into body and mind modification, letting what is inside show on the inside, without shame or apology. Living the lifestyle 24/7, or as much as commercially possible. No illusions, no pretense, no "kink of the month", no lip service, no popularity contests. Don't tell me what you think I want to hear, because you will be wrong every time. I require Honesty, Obedience, Loyalty, and Respect. Look those up in the dictionary, or an online dictionary. Because damned few of you have any clue what they mean, much less apply them to your own lives. Master means I believe in the master/slave dynamic. A Master trains the slave to the slave's highest potential. A Master is responsible for the slave's health, well-being, and safety, within certain limits. A Master provides for the slave, although the slave's earnings may be used for household and personal expenses. In return, the slave offers the slave's mind, body, and spirit to the Master's pleasure and enjoyment.
I am not interested in a boyfriend, lover, husband, etc. I'm in charge. You are my property. Any affection I would show would be the same as taking care of my van - I maintain my property because I want it to work properly and not look like a piece of shit. I am also polyamorous. What that means is that I believe that a group of people can enter into a relationship together and commit to each other. This doesn't mean I am available for you to cheat on your boy/girlfriend with. It doesn't mean a long series of one-night stands. It means a commitment. My goal is to create a tribe of guys committed to the Freak lifestyle, as well as BDSM. That means living, working, fucking, sleeping, etc. together. All together.
If it is your intention to serve within the household, 24/7, with no outside employment, then you had better have a plan for how you would contribute to the household. You would still need to eat, have shelter, have heat and electricity, etc., and all of those cost money. And no, prostitution is not a viable option.
I am into a wide variety of kinks. However, I do not do women, scat, kids, cannibalism, murder, abductions (get real), animals, immigration, feminization, amputation, etc. The fact that I even have to spell that out indicates the human race is not as sapient as they would like to believe. Fisting is only on the table after my needs are met. Bisexuals will have to realize that they will not be bisexual with me; full-time means full-time. I am not a backscratcher, find someone else to "scratch that itch" your girlfriend can't reach. As far as straight guys... I know very few worth talking to, much less going to the trouble of "converting" you. You guys have no idea how to have decent sex, you think a baseball bat is kinky, you have no tolerance for pain, and most of you shouldn't be allowed in public without a babysitter. I don't poach other Dom/Domme's property, and I don't take orders. If you want your sub abused or humiliated, do it yourself. One more thing: I don't believe in humiliation. There's no such thing in a Dom/sub relationship. If a Dom gives a sub an order, it is the sub's honor to obey. The Dom is trusting that the sub is capable of carrying out the order. Carrying out the order not only benefits the Dom, but it also shows other Doms that the Dom has chosen and trained the right kind of sub. If you have a problem with any of the above, contact your local Chamber of Commerce - because I don't want to hear it. I know how to use Block and Ignore very well. I'm also not above naming names in very prominent places.












 Dominant Male

 Inland Empire 


 5' 7"

 135 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Sub / Slave Male

Switch Male

Sub/Sub Couples

A Poly Household

 Lives For:




 Blindfolding you (Expert)

 Body Worship


 Chest Play

 You wearing my collar

 Genital Punishment (Expert)

 Rear End Play (Expert)

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Gas Masks


 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control

 Spanking you


 Body Art




 Canes and Crops



 G-spot Stimulation

 Being Massaged

 Foot Worship


 Placing you on a leash

 Masks on Partner

 Medical fetish play

 Selecting the clothes you wear

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Rubber Fetish

 Sensory Play

 Speech Restrictions

 Suspension Bondage

 Wax Play

 Card Games

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction

 Lifestyle BDSM





 Corner Time

 Electrical Play (Beginner)


 Erotic touch

 Fire Play

 Hair Pulling

 Housework Service

 Modern Primitivism


 Sensation Play

 Maid / Butler Service

 Plastic Wrap Bondage


 Vacuum Stimulation


 Whips (Beginner)




 Eye Contact Restrictions




 Hard Limits:





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Journal Entries:
3/23/2016 8:20:08 PM
CollarSpace's notification system is not notifying me of messages. I've had one situation a few days ago when I got notifications for messages sent on March 4 (almost three weeks late).

So if I don't respond right away, you can be patient or you can choose to be offended.

2/6/2015 3:20:55 PM
I'm really getting sick of subs who are only interested in wasting my time. I'm especially annoyed with guys who don't know the difference between a bottom and a slave.

1/7/2015 11:06:40 AM
Why are straight subs going to my profile?

For that matter, what are women doing reading my profile?

11/3/2014 11:40:12 AM
Due to recent actions taken by passive-aggressive subs, and jackasses who think it is fun/funny to manipulate people online, here are the new rules:

I will not make any plans regarding visiting or moving in with me until I have received the following, at a minimum:
1. A recent face pic (and yes, I can determine when the picture was taken)
2. Your phone number and at least one call to verify it
3. Your flight/train/bus schedule, which can be verified online
4. A definite timeline of when you will contact me once in town

You can thank a few idiots on this site and several others.

Be glad I'm not requiring a cash performance bond.

11/2/2014 2:06:44 PM
No, "Joining a Poly Household" does not mean that you, as a top, will be joining a completely sub household.

Thank you for playing, we have some loverly parting gifts for you.

And yes, I did block you.

10/5/2014 7:43:15 AM
Keep your fucking fucked-up politics out of my life. Your beliefs impose no onus upon me to adhere to them.

Your high horse isn't so high, and it isn't a horse.

So here it is:
  • Do you believe that people on Disability or other "safety net" benefits are "living off honest taxpayers"?
  • Do you believe that your political opinions are the one and only way to "fix" the government, and your party's platform are 100% correct in every situation?
  • Do you believe that other people don't "deserve" services or benefits that you use (i.e., Worker's Compensation, Unemployment Insurance, Minimum Wage, clean air, clean water, effective medications, decent roads, etc.)?
  • Do you believe that your job is harder, more important, more professional, more valuable, than other people's?
  • Do you believe that your faith (or lack thereof) is 100% true and established fact?
  • Do you believe that other people should arrange their lives according to your beliefs of right and wrong?
  • Do you believe there is any sub-group of humanity that is less intelligent, less worthy, more criminal, more violent, etc.?
If you answered yes to more than one question, congratulations: you're not a moral authority, you're just a hypocrite trying to force other people to live in a way you won't live yourself.

10/5/2014 7:01:30 AM
Okay, look. I shouldn't have to give you the third degree about your past, in order to know any facts that could impact me adversely in the future.

If you have past felonies which would make it difficult to sign a lease or get a job, you need to let me know before we make arrangements to meet. Especially if they are ones that would put you on the sex offender database. If child pornography is your thing, it's not mine. Move along.

If there is anything in your past that would open me up to legal scrutiny if you moved in with me, I want to know about it. I don't want to find out about it by your probation or parole officer knocking on the door, or having the IRS trying to collect money from me to cover your debts.

If you have an STD, be up front about it. I don't care if you think it's not contagious. Your opinion doesn't change facts. If my health is going to be at risk, I want to know about it. You do not have a right to privacy when the facts you are covering up will cause me problems.

Past drug problem? I can cope. Bills in collection? I can relate. Any condition which requires you to take medication or change your diet or activities? That should be disclosed too, for your own sake - how else am I supposed to know what needs to be done or how to handle an illness if you don't tell me up front?

My life is, pardon the pun, an open book. I disclose anything that might be a deal-breaker. I'll answer any question you ask. There are no dumb questions (but there are insulting and offensive ones).

But if you lie, or conveniently forget to tell the truth, that really violates the Honesty mentioned in my profile.

I'm getting too old for this bullshit.

8/25/2014 7:37:20 PM
Perhaps somebody can explain to me why I would be interested in owning a "piece of shit", "worthless", "useless", etc., slave.

If there is anything in my home which is useless or garbage, it gets put in the garbage and gets put out on the sidewalk for collection by the garbage truck.

If you have no respect whatsoever for yourself as a slave, then you will be unable to have respect for me as a Master. In fact, you're 99% more likely to be a codependent leech.

I want property that works well, does what it is intended to do, and at least looks useful. That goes for any possession, from chair to dishes to slaves.

If you want to be useless garbage and used and abused, throw yourself in front of a truck.

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