This guy has been doing D/s for most of his life, simply did not understand that it had a name and a following. I am now looking to find the last submissive of my life, who I can build a lasting, powerful relationship with. I believe much of the typical D/s standard stuff is dumb, and principally designed to make insecure masters feel like they have control, I do not need most of this, you will want me to control, and will not need to make me feel in control by doing stupid things, like addressing me as "sir", simply using my name will imply "sir". I am looking for a woman who is turned on and feels emotionally complete when she feels she has become everything her master wants her to be. I want to establish our own rules, where we are both turned on by everything we do together. I want a whole, complete relationship. Am I being naive, looking for this? I hope not.