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Hello fellow BDSM enthusiasts. I've been in this scene for a long time considering my age. I have always had a sexual reaction to bondage, and I have a particularly strong fetish for gags of all varieties (ALL varieties, hand over mouth, tape, panties, and of course the "hardcore" stuff). For almost a decade I was in a very serious relationship that became more and more about "swinging" than the BDSM side, although we were regulars at several clubs and munches. I mention that only because I am not looking for that. I am looking for the right sub (I can and will take on a "slave" but 24/7 has never been that attractive to me, I do like a woman with a brain, who enjoys culture, music, movies, and can hold a conversation) who clicks with me and vice versa from the start but still keeps it fresh and exciting 10 years in. On the vanilla side I enjoy music (have a bachelors in music composition but that is not how I earn my living) of all stripes, and I also have a tendency to multi-task entertainment, often I will have a show or movie on one TV and be playing video games on another. I do smoke and I drink more than socially. That being said I have never had an issue with the bottle RE: getting arrested or becoming violent. I tend to finally start to relax and take off the public persona that I am forced to keep up in day to day life. Part of my love of dominating a beautiful woman comes from giving her pleasure while she is helpless, I am pretty far from a sadistic dominant. It also helps my mind focus on my pleasure and my subs giving me a much needed release from the non-stop barrage of random thoughts and memories my ADD brain throws at me. I feel I am starting to ramble so if you're interested in me, just let me know. I've never minded taking things slowly. Dan