Hi
I enjoy speaking with other like minded people who share the same interests and are as open minded about Ds, sexuality and life. I've been in the lifestyle now for over 10 years and it's part of who I am but not all that I am. I continue enjoying this journey as ever before. There's much that meets our needs if you know what you're looking for and are precise about it. Personality wise I'm very independent, driven, loving, loyal, outgoing, respectful, social, very caring, a bit wicked, passionate, stubborn, affectionate and I love to care for, focus and give to the Dom in my life wholeheartedly. Hobbies besides BDSM are varied as I enjoy travel, nature, family, spending time with my now Husband/Dom and good friends, socializing, Ds events, working on my house and spending time with my dog. I love B&W photography, art, fetish wear and theatre.
In submission I am Submissive first with some maso tendencies. I try my best to serve a sadist where he needs to go as my fulfillment psychologically and physically comes from giving and being able to serve his needs, making him happy, loving him as he deserves and desires. In short treat him like the King that he is because I certainly don't pick anyone who isn't as deserving as such.
Professionally I manage a business, am well grounded, own my own home that I bought with my own hard work and eventually would like to invest in more. I'm in my mid 30's, no children by choice and am a very happy person overall who believes in living for peace, love, and laughing a lot, without these there, there's something wrong.
Who interests me...TRUSTWORTHY people. Who say and do as they claim. Trust is the key and non-negotiable especially within our lifestyle. If there's no trust there's no respect and much less Domination or submission on both sides.
I like people who have a sense of humor and are "balanced" in both their vanilla and the BDSM world as I am and are extreme in the right context. I like people who need that twist or are a paradox themselves.
I'm looking for other like minded folks and friends. I am happily married and I play ONLY with a few select friends that we respect and choose and that I feel I can give my submission to in a scene.
Very important to me is that Ds connection and mind where we can openly discuss and share as we grow in our journey.
As far as Dominant men I expect, and yes I said expect, them to be a combination of men, gentlemen and Dominant, leaders, able to make decisions, communicate, know how to create a safe "sandbox" for their sub, know how to love and know how to torture. Gain a subs confidence and trust so that she can give freely, surrender completely to him so that he can do as he is meant to do. There are many players out there but there's very few good, & grounded Dominant men who have both their vanilla and Ds lifestyle together, as I'm sure there are many bottom players but few Submissive women on your side of the coin.
My advice enjoy the journey every day and don't compromise what you're looking for!
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Kind regards,
Anica
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