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Well we have all filled a profile out before and its really tough to describe who I am and also give you the full experience of my sense of humor, personality, character, and values. Of course Im going to give it my best shot...Do me and yourself a favor, don't read to deeply into my profile, or anyone Else's for that matter without having a conversation with them or meeting them. My old profile had this very specific description of the exact type of relationship I wanted as it pertains to the lifestyle, but sometimes Id see someone I was interested in, and they would rule themselves out as not a good fit. (Ohh and rest assured ladies and Gentleman I still know exactly the type of relationship I want, and refuse to settle and so should you, be patient and wait for one that you really believe could be a life long relationship, I mean really who here actually likes searching this site, I dont! lol) So I am completely re-doing it so that I can just give you some basics about me lifestyle wise, some certain traits that im looking for, and then a bit about me outside of the lifestyle if you think im hot and don't see anything that scares ya away then get in touch and Ill give you my personality, character, sense of humor, and values over a chat sometime. I was first introduced to Bondage by a girl I was physical with as friends a little over 3 years ago. Since then, I have owned a slave, done some light training (honestly more like informing), been in a short term poly relationship, and within the last year came out into seeking and wanting a relationship that is built around the different aspects and attributes of the BDSM lifestyle. A couple of Traits that I really look for... ****I am a sadist, and day by day I am learning more and more! So it is important that you would classify as one of the following three ; - You enjoy pain or the feeling pain gives you chemically and emotionally, - You enjoy and want to satisfy my need to use different ways of inflicting discomfort and pain either because it turns me on or because it helps with a stressful or frustrating day, - You are curious about different impact play implementations such as ex' Paddles, Cane's, Whip's and other tools of the trade. ****A great personality, sense of humor, character, and Values. I need someone who is an extrovert like me and can start, maintain, and drive a conversation not only with me but other people in what ever situation I may guide us into. Being shy is only natural at the beginning but at some point I want someone who will reach out and grab somebody! ;) ****Someone who enjoys giving a good long massage when its necessary. ( not all of the time) ****Someone is emotionally available or doesn't have any issues that are going to cause her to push away anyone who is new and tries to get close. THIS IS A BIG ONE! If you just broke up with someone and need a rebound, if something in your past is unresolved and it has you with all kinds of guards up against new people, or if you are very far away (a couple of hours or more) and do not frequently travel here, Then Its probably best that you give someone else a try. ****Someone who is in shape, takes care of herself, and has good self confidence. You should have a petite, slim, or athletic figure because you'll need it ;) No offense to any plus size ladies out there Im not mad at ya and im not judging anyone here! Just for certain reasons need someone who is a lighter build or -135 lbs or less- (if ur close and in shape its ok, Im open minded, not desperate or in any hurry though. ****Someone who is open minded, non-judgmental of others, isn't looking for perfection physically or mentally in there partner (because I can tell you now Im Not! I feel Im an attractive guy and anyone would be lucky to have me, but I am not cocky and do like and appreciate re-enforcement of your thoughts on me as a person looks & mentality wise lol), I go to the local BDSM club/Dungeon once a week at least and so you'd need to be ok with that and want to come as well. ****Someone who wants a Nice guy and knows how a nice guy acts. Sometime it can appear that nice guys finish last with ladies. Ladies feel more of a challenge or chase when the guy is a jerk from time to time and pretends he isn't interested (or in any other words, playing head games). Im looking for something that's going to last, so if you think its weird or obsessive to send a text message or call you once a day or close to it, then Im not the guy for you. If you like a man that will get to know you, then will tell you he likes you, will focus his spare time and energy on the hopes that we can build something permanent and perfect, and never have to search again! (Nobody is perfect, NOBODY, Perfect is what a couple become together as they build there relationship.
VANILLA INFO- Ok so about me outside of the lifestyle, I am 25 and my birthday is coming in October (I will add way too quickly). I love college football and have lots of passion for my team. I live by myself, drive, and income that just squeezes me out of dead beat range financially, Only temporary though i was laid off a month ago. I love wtahcing Movies, playing poker, people watching, thinking of different types of sadistic predicament bondage scenes to do with someone. I have bright blue eyes, brown hair, would say I am more pale then tan, Muscular in the shoulders and arms but could do some work on other areas of my body I guess. (aka my Buddha belly lol) I was a class clown in school and will not only try to, but will make you laugh right from the start, it comes naturally to me and my confidence i. I love to see a smile or hear a laugh, especially if I like you. I do not have very many friends, right now I would say 2 friends and a few acquaintances, I am loyal as a friend almost to a fault, I have had a best friend take advantage of my kindness in the past and that's way over with now. Anyways that's enough get in touch if anything or any bit interests you! I have the three main messengers! Sir Brad

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6/3/2009 8:21:48 PM
So I finally was able to find a new place and get moved in, and I am really liking it even more then I thought I was going to.  I have a lot more room and I am looking forward to that part, plus the grounds are really pretty with big oak trees and bushes that are well taken care of, just looks really nice and peaceful.
  Im starting to learn that I get somewhat get on someone a lil to early sometimes.  Ill talk to someone for a week or two and get to know just basic stuff about them and then think we are instanly a good fit.   Its ended up leaving me dissapointed twoce sinec I have started an online search, one of two was abrupt and very sudde.  It hurts and Im realizing I need to put somewhat of a shield up and also really focus on there inside more then there looks.  I also hate how girls say that dont want games and blah blah blah and the  you call or text once a day to say helloo and they act like your some kind of stalker? Oh well their missing out ;)

My mom is going to school to become a ahir dresser and tomorrow Im going to actually let her cut my hair for the first time which is kinda nerve racking and I would rather not do it but i am going to show support for her and even if she screws it up which is very possible lol, I have got to show her that Im proud so that should be exciting

5/31/2009 10:02:03 AM
Found a Place and I am soo excited and relieved lol....I also just wanted to coment on how lucky I am to have met the couple of nice women that Im currently interested in and that are interested in me in return.

Niceeeee


5/25/2009 11:36:29 AM
Moving day is growing near and Im still unsure of where im going to move, if anyone needs a roommate or has a place they are trying to rent please let me know....


Thanks

5/18/2009 11:44:50 AM
Its a bit frustrating sometimes when you meet someone online that is sooo great and then it eventually becomes dead in the water or you just kinda stop talking whether its because you are busy or whatever it may be...I know who I like and I have found a person I think is a great fit...will this become someone that eventually falls apart of me and ends up another wasted conversation?  Hope not ;)

5/13/2009 11:18:54 AM

 just as a regular man that's curious about the tinks and kinks of others minds....For me, I will say that giving pain to someone who you care deeply about or even are in love with is sooo great...way better then a play partner...because although after being with the same Dom for a long time you know how they work you as a sub/slave and you know what they like to do, but there is still that underlying trust factor that gets deeper and deeper inside someone as time in a relationship goes on to the point where it starts to go from trust to almost "granted" or just knowing in other words that this person that I love and have been with for months years whatever it may be is not going to jump across that line and really really hurt me in a non playful anymore way lol ....Soo the idea that my sub/slave is going to be pleased and happy to donate her safety to me and my sick sadistic needs of slapping, whipping, choking, and beating A women that is tied/restrained somehow is one of the most beautiful things about BDSM and if the world could take a page out of a sub/slaves mindset for a day it would be a much better place....Unselfishness...serving others...Loyalty, Its just a really great way to think and live and enjoy your life...Thumbs up and a big thank you slap to all of the sub/slaves out there

If these seems like lost rambling....it is I slept three hours last night and have ADD to the point where I cant put a 5 word sentence together properly at times so get out your "Cant write a smooth flowing article for shit" deciphers and make out what you can....just another probe of the mind of a human being.


what do you think about Pain and Pleasure in it?


5/12/2009 10:10:28 AM
I cant say just how frickin amazing it has been to go to the shed and meet all of the sooo cool people that I met not only just my age but also some older people, or older then I would normally hang out around socially, and they were just super cool.

It feels and takes sooo much pressure and just almost sadness at times off of my shoulders because I know that I am definitely going to be able to achieve the level of learning and skill in my role as a dominant that I truly want to reach, as well as find someone not almost perfect, or settle for something not perfect at all, but find that absolute perfect slave to own and cherish...and just torture from time to time..*scary evilish grin*  with the support and people I connect with up there and as well at the new events I have learned about and will be attending soon.

5/11/2009 12:35:35 PM
Hey guys will be out until 6pm and will be online all night say Hello!

5/9/2009 11:31:09 PM
Well I just got back home from the local Dungeon and I had the best time ever and met the coolest of the cool!  I have realized now that Im not going to meet anyone on here that is either serious and ready to build a relationship, especially one has dedicated as mine, and two that most of the ladys on here have some definite shields up and aren't really willing to put in the effort it takes to get to know someone online, a few great conversations and then it just stalls out and dies without moving on to the next step...there are a few Slaves on here that i am talking to but other then that....well its either Im not interesting or look wise enough to get a reply to a hard thought and long email...or that they are just not willing to let anyone in there heart and not able to open up...its sad but true.

So I will be focusing on meeting people through the local community gatherings and for now on...If you email me here Ill get it but please if your going to email be open minded, ready to get to know someone, and for sure serious and hungry to meet and serve.



5/9/2009 11:30:54 PM
Well I just got back home from the local Dungeon and I had the best time ever and met the colliest of the cool!  I have realized now that Im not going to meet anyone on here that is either serious and ready to build a relationship, especially one has dedicated as mine, and two that most of the ladys on here have some definite shields up and arent really willing to put in the effort it takes to get to know someone online, a few great conversations and then it just stalls out and dies without moving on to the next step...there are a few Slaves on here that i am talking to but other then that....well its either Im not interesting or look wise enough to get a reply to a hard thought and long email...or that they are just not willing to let anyone in there heart and not able to open up...its sad but true.

So I will be focusing on meeting people through the local community gatherings and for now on...If you email me here Ill get it but please if your going to email be open minded, ready to get to know someone, and for sure serious and hungry to meet and serve.



5/8/2009 4:10:22 PM
Well Im home and all better with a note from the doctor clearing me for full contact ;)  Anyways Im starting to run out of people to talk to new on here so if I havent sent you an email or talked to you give me a try maybe I havent noticed you the first time or maybe my ideal match has changed..

5/2/2009 8:43:11 PM
Hey everybody I am going to be out of town in the hospital for a while but those of you that want to reach me can at pokerplayer6969 on yahoo and acura20vtect on aim....Thanks for stoping bye and I will get back to you when I can take care..

5/2/2009 6:48:01 PM
Hey my Pictures are being re approved since I uploaded a New Profile pic, shouldnt be too long before they are back up.....Good girl for reading my profile and journal! :)

5/2/2009 10:29:07 AM
This was recently sent to me in a email and it was a day as described by a slave to be what she wanted in her perfect relationship and I found it to be very much what I would like as well, of course with a few tweaks here and there to make it what I want and the slave of my dreams needs...


i wake up to the alarm clock in the morning, and shut it off hopefully before it wakes you. i want to be your own personal alarm clock, your blowjob alarm clock. we take a hot shower together, and i get the chance to wash your body, give every inch of you attention. morning coffee and breakfast together, over the daily crossword puzzle. spending time together in the morning gets me in the best possible mood for the day. we go over my schedule, where i'll be and when, what kinds of errands i need to run after work, etc. i check in with you every step of the day, i want you to know what i'm doing, and i want you to know i'm thinking about you. when i get home in the afternoon, first things first, i get out of my clothes. nakedness serves as a constant reminder of my place. i clean up the house. when you get home, i drop whatever i'm doing to greet you and do anything you tell me to do to make you comfortable. i always make us dinner, i'm an excellent cook, i really do love cooking. sometimes i sit at the table with you, sometimes i sit on the floor next to you, depending on your mood. the evening is yours to do with me whatever you please, but i hope you tire me out, and let me cuddle with you in bed when we go to sleep.




 

4/30/2009 5:23:09 PM
Ahhhhh I cant tell you how happy I am right now!!!   I just met the most amazing, funny, witty, kinky, sexy, seducting, gorgeous, amusing, and just plain out kick ass awesome slave ever.....I also realized that another one is just jerking me around and has no interest in meeting or really even being friends for that matter....I went to bed last night wondering if the one for me exsist's and now I know that there is someone out there that likes everythiing that i do and its really refreshing!!!

You rock Kitty Cat!

4/30/2009 5:07:33 AM
Well Good morning to all of you out there who are Sub/slaveless or Dom/ Masterless

I wake up today with a good outlook on the day...i just started emailing someone across the country who wouldn't you know sends me an email that takes my breathe away and gives me soo much hope that there is someone out there who is looking for someone just like me....if theres one there has to be 2,3,10? right?

why is it the perfect ones seem to be soo far away?  Less pressure knowing the chances of RL meeting are slim?  Are we just that rare that the real ones are all spread out across the country?

Who knows but one thing I do know...is that if I want what I want I guess I am going to be in for a long wait saddly :(





4/26/2009 3:05:53 AM
I saw this on another slaves profile and this is the kind of dedication and HUNGER to serve Im looking for...if your not close to wanting this....save your time please and mine....

Today I met a local Master in my area... what I like about him is since this was our first meeting he told me that I would not be used as sexual object.  Most men all they want is to fuck a girl just because she is a slave on the first meeting.

Instead Master had told me that if I came over to his house there would be a list of domestic chores for me to do as well as cook his dinner later that night.

So, I went to this house and was forced to strip for him.  He then inspected my body as i stood completely still for him.  (all of this was prearranged).

Then I knelt before him as he locked cuffs around my wrists and a collar around my neck. 

He then walked me around and showed me where all the supplies were as I was crawling behind him.

He then handed me a list of chores to do.
Bedroom
  Put away all clothes property folded and hung
  Dust all furniture and electornics
  Vaccuum rug
Bathroom
  Scower tub/shower
  Scower and clean toilet
  Scower and clean bathroom sink
  Wipe mirros
  Clean the shelves of the medicine cabinet
  Scrub the floor on my hands and knees.
Kitchen
  Was the dishes in the sink was not allowed to use diswasher
  Put away all dishes and dinnerware
 
Master had not washed dishes for a few days on purpose.
  Scrub countertops and appliances
  Scrub kitchen floor clean.

As I was doing this master would check on my progress, as soon as he entered a room I was in I was to immediately drop to my knees and kneel before him.

Master gave me time limits as well and during my chores I was to serve him snacks or change the channel on the TV for him.

Once my chores were done it was time to make him dinner.

I cooked him steak and mashed potatoes and knelt by his side as he ate ready to refill his plate or his drink.

After all that was done I was to worship master's feet and thank him and praise him for allowing me the honor of serving as his maid and housecleaner.

Master allowed me to make him popcorn and he allowed me to cuddle with him and watch a movie together.  Of course I fed him and would refill his drink upon command.


4/26/2009 2:34:59 AM
"whatever you give to a woman, she will make greater. You give her sperm, she will give you a baby. You give her groceries, she will give you a meal. You give her a house, she will give you a home. You give her a hand, she will give you her heart. Whatever is given to her she enhances and/or transforms. So if you give her any crap, be ready to recieve a ton of shit"

Found this on another persons profile and liked it alot...

4/26/2009 2:22:32 AM
Im looking for someone to serve me in other ways, yes there will be sex but DAMMIT that's not what its all about!  Im really starting to wonder if the one lil slave for me is out there....are my expectations too high? 

Im getting a bit frustrated, it seems that there are alot of subs on here that say that want an apple pie, but when that apple pie is given to them, they are allergic lol...I am not looking for a slave to use as a sex object...

4/23/2009 4:52:42 PM
    Today I had the unpleasurable experience of talking with a person who just completely was opposite of what was expected based on the things on there profile...
    Why cant people be truthful with themselves and what they are willing to do/not do and, and then when they are able to see a profile, like mine for a convenient example and see that I am a very hardcore type that is going to expect pretty quick obideince and effort up front from anyone that is decently experienced and seeking a real hardcore type of relationship...

(if your new to the lifestyle its fine tell me and I can take it as slow as ya need if your what I want in a slave mentally and physically, thats the moral of this long blah blah blah fest if youd like to stop reading here lol)...

So when they have pretty much my hardcore sub descrip on there profile and I quite "being a slave ins't a part of my life, its not what I want in my life, IT IS MY LIFE" and then send me an email giving me a demand?

gezzz point of the story, be true to yourself and if you need to be trained or brought up slow TELL me!

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BossLadyMistress
 
 Mistress, Age:  26
 BUCHAREST, Romania
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