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Hetero Male Dominant, 46,  Ottawa Ontario, Canada
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Hello All...

I am naturally Dominant...

I love the mental aspects of the Ds relationship. I am a nice guy who has a very naughty and creative mind. I like that when you look at my photos you would never guess the dark and kinky scenarios that I want to create and make real. I am looking for a submissive who is intelligent and is mostly submissive in the bedroom. I do NOT want to control all aspects of your life. I do say play in my name as PLAY and FUN is critical to life. It does not mean I am only looking for one day play!

My preference is for long sessions of sex with LOTS of foreplay and teasing... a mixture of very sensual - with very naughty hard sex... Very few limits to what I might enjoy... as long as it is consensual!

I do have pictures for the right person (people) and can also Yahoo MSGR, skype or MSN to verify who I am... I would expect the same from you at some point. I do value privacy and will respect yours... but with the number of fakes on here - it is also important to be realistic.

I am based in Ottawa, Canada and travel with work to Montreal, Toronto and NY on a regular basis.

Good luck with your searches everyone.












 Dominant Male

 Ottawa Ontario 


 6' 0"

 185 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

Switch Women


 Fine Dining

 Travel (Expert)

 Camping (Expert)


 Hiking (Expert)

 Anal Play (Expert)


 Breast Play

 You wearing my collar


 Being Massaged (Expert)


 Hair Pulling

 Orgasm Control (Expert)

 Role Playing (Expert)

 Spanking you (Expert)

 Gardening (Expert)

 Biology (Expert)


 Art Galleries

 Fishing (Expert)

 Going to the Opera


 Running (Expert)

 Scuba Diving (Beginner)

 Ultimate Frisbee



 Blindfolding you

 Body Worship

 Canes and Crops



 Placing you on a leash (Expert)

 Massage (Giving)

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Maid / Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play



 Intellectual Discourse


 Soccer (Expert)


 Curious About:

 Erotic touch (Beginner)



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Journal Entries:
10/12/2012 12:36:38 PM

Ok... I definitely have a burgeoning fetish for high heels - as an admirer of a sexy woman in them...  


Check out some videos posted in softandsilky25 's journal...  


Then there are is this pair - the profile pic for  innocencetaken



10/2/2012 8:31:37 AM

AGGGHHHHH!  I am SO fucking tired of all the fake pictures (and profiles) on here.  I chat with someone... insist on truth... they assure me they are being truthful... and yet when I do the simple step of using google image to check their pics - they are clearly stolen from the internet.  VERY FRUSTRATING.


I understand that people want and need to hide their identities at times but there are ways to do that.  


If you are just looking to chat and get a thrill - SAY SO... there will still be enough traffic for you as well.



9/26/2012 7:46:50 AM

No offence to all the bi and straight women out there... but - wow - there are a lot of VERY hot lesbians on here... lol.  Maybe just the grass is always greener effect...

9/25/2012 7:48:24 AM

And YES I do read people's profiles!  So please do keep writing them even if many people do not!

8/30/2012 8:27:45 AM


After 10 days on here I wanted to share more about me!

  • I am an intelligent, well rounded individual.  
  • I am a "nice" AND very kinky guy . 
  • I lead a healthy life style... eat well, exercise and have fun!  But I still like and eat "poutine" - google it if you don't know.  It is one of Quebec's important exports to the world.
  • I am both an environmentalist and an educator. 
  • I love both city life and the outdoors.  And outdoors to me is not a patio (though I enjoy those to).  It is hiking, canoeing, camping, skiing....
  • I am naturally dominant.  You will feel my calm presence and energy if we met - and I also do not need to drive a hot car or talk shit to know I am a man.  
  • I am very open minded in everything I do.  
  • I value experience way more than stuff - that means I love to travel and explore more than have a HUGE house!  That said, I do value quality stuff as well.  
  • I have a full and active vanilla life and like it that way.  I appreciate my privacy so am generally not part of the scene. (though I do enjoy public 
  • I love that I learn something every day.
  • I do have lots of pictures and am happy to share if we connect. 

All for now...  That was waaayyyy longer than planned.  And bonus points if you actually read it all...


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