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I don't know how to classify myself here. I want to go down on a girl (one girl) often and without reciprocation. If the price of admission is giving you a massage and/or doing chores around your home, so be it.... but I'm not really interested in being tied up and beaten. Ideally this would be an ongoing, one-sided arrangement, but until that happens I'm open to doing this for a girl just once. If using a guy for oral sex sounds fun to you, then hit me up. I'm very real and I am looking to get comfortable with somebody enough to start doing this pretty soon, but I'm also in no hurry. Thank you for your time and consideration.

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7/3/2011 6:41:08 AM

My ideal "date" with a Dominant woman:

We go to a movie.  I pay for both our tickets, of course, and we get our seats.  The entire time you don't need a single thing until the movie actually starts.  That's when you begin sending me out of the theater for various excuses.  First a drink, then popcorn, then pretzel bites, then a refill on the drink, possibly a refill on the popcorn because you "accidentally" spilled it.  In between each trip out of the theater I maybe catch one or two minutes of the movie.  You seem to wait until I look totally comfortable before coming up with a request.  Maybe you send me out into he hall to take an "important" phone call from a friend of yours.  In addition to making me miss most of the movie by actually leaving the theater, you can make me miss part of it by making me massage your feet or insisting that I clean the floor underneath your seat. 

After the movie we can go out to dinner where you go on and on about how awesome the movie was and "didn't you like this part?" and "didn't you like that part?" acting totally oblivious to the fact that I actually missed almost all of it.  Also, you are being extremely rude during dinner.   Maybe you flirt with the waiter, you spend a majority of the time ignoring me and texting, you make me rub your feet while you eat so my food gets cold.  Before you let me eat you spit all over all of my food and in my drink constantly.  You do gross stuff while I'm eating too, like picking or blowing your nose and then forcing me to look at it... maybe even flicking it on my plate.

Throughout the whole "date" you come up with excuses to take money from me.  Like if you're showing cleavage you charge me a cleavage tax--$8.  If you're wearing a thong, thong tax-$10.  Tell me to guess what color of panties your wearing and if I guess right I get to see them... but it costs $5 to guess.  Turns out telling me to guess again isn't that same as telling me I guessed wrong ;)  While we're sitting in the theater waiting for the previews to start you offer to get popcorn and drinks.  Of course you are only offering to go get them.  I still have to give you the money for them.  When you return empty handed you simply say the line was too long.  No mention of money.  If I mention it you act like I didn't give you any money for popcorn.  During the movie (during one of the times where I actually get to watch a few minutes of it) you lean into my ear and seductively whisper that for $20 I can touch your boob (or some other such thing).  After I hand over the cash it's up to you if you're in the mood to let me or if you say something along the lines of "I meant later"  Of course, later never comes.  Maybe you make me an offer I can't refuse like a two hour massage for twenty bucks.  Of course it turns out that it's me massaging you and I paid for it!  lol

These are just some ideas to start, but I am totally serious about doing this as some point with a Domme that will have just as much fun as I will doing it.


4/18/2011 12:05:38 PM

More important to me than whether or not I find a Dominant or submissive woman, is finding a woman to cuckold me.  Now, at first glance, cuckolding may seem like something that I could only find in a relationship with a Dominant woman.  However, I don't believe this has to be the case.  There can be room in a relationship with a submissive woman for that woman to have sex with men other than me.  As far as I see it, one of two scenarios exist where this is possible.  The first is that I share my submissive with other men while I watch.  This isn't exactly cuckolding, but it is close enough for me.  The second, and more exciting to me, is that my submissive rebels against me and seeks other men to sleep with.  After she finds one and has sex with him, she  would then confess her infidelity and I  would punish her for it.  This can be a very redemptive process for both the Dom and sub.  In either scenario (yes, even as a Dominant) I would be completely faithful to my mate.  So, if you like the idea of being able to sleep with other men, you should hit me up regardless of whether you are Dominant or submissive.


3/10/2011 9:38:03 AM

I get a lot of emails asking me if I have a preference toward domination or submission.  It is sometimes difficult, for whatever reason, for people to grasp that I truly don't prefer one over the other.  I guess I can best explain it this way:

In high school I had a friend who called herself bisexual.  I asked her "Which do you like better, men or women?"  I found her answer to be simple yet profound.  She said, "I don't desire a gender, I desire a person."  For her, being bisexual did not mean that she had to have both a boyfriend and a girlfriend in order to be truly happy... it simply meant that she didn't rule either option out as a viable relationship possibility.  In much the same way I am a switch.  I do not need feel I need to have both a Domme and a sub in order to be happy.  Nor do I need a partner who can switch.  What I need is chemistry.  Ultimately, when the chemistry is right, I can fulfill just about any role my partner likes.  For example, I once dated an extreme pain slut.  I didn't particularly enjoy inflicting the amount of pain she wanted, but I eventually would because I wanted to fulfill her needs.

I hope this clarifies.  Feel free to email me with any further questions.


3/7/2011 10:15:18 PM

Today is my Birthday.  I just turned 31.  God, I am getting old!  haha


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 Age: 57
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