- The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet

The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet

Horizontal Line
Vertical Line
Hetero Male Master, 64,  Columbus, Ohio
Horizontal Line

Horizontal Line


Horizontal Line


Horizontal Line

Vertical Line

Greetings - Thanks for taking the time to look at my profile. Are you tired on trying to get a good selfie? Why not let me take pictures of you?

I am a professional photographer that is looking for models that would be interested in exchanging posing for images - I DO NOT plan on selling any images or to let them escape into the wilds of the internet unless we both agree that the images can or should be posted. I am not planning on making money off the pictures either selling them to you or anyone else. These are partially to increase me skill levels and capture you in all your loveliest right now! I am freezing a monument in time and letting you hold on to that forever.

That all being said, if we agree on a bondage set - I will be doing the tying so you will be touched by me.

I have been ask if you would be paid to pose for me? My answer to that is if we agree to sell an image and it sells we split the profit 50 50.

Folks, I am not on-line to fuel your jacking off fantasies, nor am I going to send out pictures to anyone who asks for them If you have questions, ask!

I hope to hear from you soon!


WARNING Any and all law enforcement agents, agencies, institutions (UniversityCollege), and or media personnel, who are using this site, or its associated sites for projects, etc., you do not have permission from Me to use any portion of My profile nor My pictures, My videos in any or forum, both current and or future. If you have done so, or do so in the future, it will be considered a violation of My privacy and will be subject to legal action.











 Dominant Male



 6' 9"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

 Lives For:

 Photography (Expert)


 Tai-Chi (Expert)

 Anal Play



 Breast Play

 Canes and Crops






 Eye Contact Restrictions


 Massage (Getting)


 Outdoor Bondage



 Wax play


 Science Fiction (Expert)


 Diet and Exercise


 Rock Music

 Seventies Music



 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales



 Renaissance Faires





 Body Worship


 Corner Time




 Foot Worship


 Hair Pulling


 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Denial

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Role Playing

 Speech Restrictions


 Theatrical Scenes


 Vacuum Stimulation


 Board Games

 Card Games



 Historical Shows

 Web Surfing





 Intellectual Discourse

 Liberal Politics

 Gorean Lifestyle

 Goth Lifestyle


 Old Guard




 Alternative Music


 Classical Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Folk Music

 Heavy Metal Music


 New Age Music



 Auto Racing



 Art Galleries


 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining

 Musical Theater




 Comedy Shows

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Country Music

 Nineties Music

 Pop Music













 Curious About:

 Scuba Diving



 Electrical Play

 Medical Play

 Plastic Wrap

 Public Play

 Sensory Deprivation



 Role Playing Games




 1950s Lifestyle



 Amusement Parks



 Genital Punishment

 True Crime

 TV News

 TV Sports


 Female Supremacy

Horizontal Line

Journal Entries:
4/21/2018 10:44:40 AM
I am frustrated that subs and slaves are not telling me the truth! And in at least one case they claimed they said one thing and I proved that was a lie... I will not give them the chance to lie more than once before blocking snd deleting their texts.

5/26/2017 8:51:47 AM
I am to the point where I am going to be damn picky about what you have written in your profile and if you LIED in the information you put on your profile IS A PROBLEM! I expect a sub or slave to TELL THE TRUTH. I value truthfulness and I do offer second chances to people that lie.

11/16/2016 4:01:03 PM

I found this on Fet and thought it needed to be seen by more people...

Consent Is As Easy As Tea, Except When They've Never Had Tea.

So here's a weird aspect of consent few bring up: consenting to the unknown.

The problem is that we think the unknown is known, based on simple explanations: "Oh, being spanked is just someone whapping on your butt! I consent!"

But the issue is that while you may know the physical mechanics of a thing you've consented to, you may not understand how that spanking affects your body and your emotional state. Some people find spanking to be fun, and giggle a lot even when welts are forming; others feel deeply humiliated, and start crying, and love that catharsis of being allowed to cry; still others feel deeply humiliated and fucking hate crying and call red.

And here's the issue:

Too often, people are consenting to what they think the experience will be, as opposed to consenting to having an experience.

Which is to say that if you consented to a nice jolly spanking where you giggle and squirm, just like you saw your spank-loving friends get, and instead a spanking of the same intensity and time period churns up deeply painful helplessness, you often feel like your consent was violated.

Yet the problem here is unclear communication. You consented to something the other person could not guarantee providing. They could only provide the circumstances; your reactions are unknown.

Which means when you're consenting to a new experience, you also have to consent to the understanding that even if your experience provider does precisely what they said they'd do and no more, this might not go the way you thought it would.

I mean, I thought the skydiving experience would be, "The soaring feeling of wafting down to earth." Whereas the experience was actually "My entire body weight resting on my testicles thanks to me hanging down from straps I didn't put on properly," so, you know, lesson learned.

But the point is, consenting to a new experience is not consenting to the experience you wanted to have. It is consenting to learn what that experience is.

What you may learn is, "I really hate that."

Knowing that is your responsibility as the consenter.

If you're the consentee, too often the experience provider hears "I agree to try spanking" as "LET US OPEN UP THIS CAN OF WHOOP-ASS." Yet there's a responsibility as well to understand that this person has not consented to enjoying this experience, they have merely consented to trying this experience.

As such, you need to go slowly and check in. Yes, even if it's a brutal angry scene designed to traumatize. Because yes, maybe via the letter of the law they have agreed to be in your clutches for a while - but if you purposely do things to people that you realize they will regret later, that makes you a douche and nobody should play with you.

Your job, as the first-time experience provider, is to not turn this into a full warrant to get your rocks off, but rather to give them enough of the experience to see if they want to go farther with it.

Furthermore, you should be consenting to stay with them if this turns out to be an unpleasant experience, giving them whatever care they need if they realize this really sucked.

Side story: I was at a diner once that had a sign that advertised, "BEST MARTINIS IN TOWN!" Being freshly twenty-one and never having had a martini, I ordered one.

It tasted like salty gasoline. Which, I later learned, was pretty much what a good martini tasted like.

I left the rest of the drink on the table, when the owner came out to harangue me. "YOU DON'T LIKE MY MARTINI?" he bellowed. "I MAKE A GOOD MARTINI!"

"I'm positive you do," I said. "I am taking this, in fact, as the gold standard of martinis. And what I have learned about martinis is that I don't like them."

He didn't like that much. He was so angry, he stood over me and glared until I drank the rest of the martini and made fake "mmm" noises to get him to go away.

As a person providing the new experience, you have to not be Martini Maker. Yes, you gave them exactly what they ordered, and the fact that they responded poorly is not a reflection on your fine quality as an ass-whapper. And too often scenes that go wrong wind up with one traumatized bottom and a Martini Maker standing over them bellowing how this was a good spanking, they've been doing this for years, what's wrong with you.

If something goes wrong with a new experience, shift your ego to one side and comfort them. You'll be better off for it, and so will they.

Once the seal's broken and they have enough of this unknown thing to recognize how they react to it, they can begin to consent in earnest and you can start ramping up to some pretty amazing things... But as with most things in consent, it's not a contract, but a careful dance.

And you may ask: What happens if you ramp up the intensity of your scene and their experience they think they've agreed to changes? As in, they really got off on you spanking their butt cheeks, but you hit them six inches down on their thighs and that was so intensely painful that suddenly the experience they had nebulously communicated as spanking turned out not to be what they wanted at all?

And ah, grasshopper. You're starting to realize why consent can be complex sometimes.

Good luck with that.


7/20/2016 1:33:14 PM
As the election draws near... Do your own research, read the trans of the debates - make sure that you read the fact checked copy of the debates - remember both sides will have practiced and practiced debating against a "stand in". And as sad as it sounds, pick one of the major candidates, if you don't like the Democratic canadate then vote for the Republican, if you don't like the Republican candidate then vote for the Democratic candidate. As much as you might think that the Green Party or the Independent candidate is best, they will never enough popular or Electortal College votes to win. So pick the main stream candidate that you think will hurt the USA less. And vote for them! I don't give a duck what YOU think I should do, I have seen enough already that I have made up my mind!

4/17/2016 7:21:08 AM
Why, oh, why do people on this site want to say that they are from Ohio when they aren't?  I can understand someone NOT wanting to put the city that they live in but to say that they are 475 miles from my location and then admit that they are in San Antonio, Texas... What kind of foole do they think I am?  I am serious about photography but unless I know that I will be selling the images and making big bucks from the sell I can't finance someone's trip to Ohio from anywhere!  I am not going to put up with people that lie about where they are located...

475 miles - right more like 1,315 miles

Does the person putting up the profile, not think that I will check the truth of their statements?  And any images - get run through Googles image search program... I have sent emails to people that have had their images hijacked and posted here.

1/18/2016 5:00:51 AM
To the subs and slaves that want me to view them on line, I am a hands on sort of photographer- I hope that the 'subs' get the message.  If you are not posing in person for me, I will pass!

9/19/2015 5:06:12 PM

10 Truths About Submitting


I'm not going to sugar coat this. If you're new to this lifestyle, if you're here because of 50 Shades of Grey, get ready to have your heart broken, baby dolls.


1. Dom's aren't always going to fall in love with you. There are going to be scenes that end as just that. There are going to be men that want to fuck you in the worst way. But just like every other situation, they may choose to leave it at just that.


2. It goes so far beyond spankings and toys. It goes past a dirty contract. You are going to be challenged. You are going to have to find some sort of emotional strength inside when you are bent over and helpless. You are going to find your limits, and maybe, you may go past them. But you have to be strong enough to also admit when you've had enough.


3. You can't always envision corsets and fishnets. A real Dom is going to want to see you at your rawest form. He's going to want to see you as you just wake up, a total mess. High heals are not mandatory in those moments, but your submission is.


4. You're going to be the one in charge, whether you want to be or not. That safe word puts you in charge. Those physical marks of evidence, also called bruises, puts you in charge. That contract puts you in charge. Knowing what you are okay with doing and not okay with doing puts you in charge. You give the paint and the Dom paints the picture.


5. Being a brat isn't sexy all the time. You have to want to please him. You have to want to make it work. The Dom isn't going to want to constantly be forcing your submission, especially if they've already proven themselves in such a manner that they have earned it. Either you want it or you don't.


6. Its the things you do that you aren't told to do that catch the Dom's eye. Waking them up to breakfast, having their warm bath ready after work, them coming home to their favorite movie rented from Redbox... Those things will make you stand out and make you more appreciated.

7. You need to be appreciated too. No matter what fantasy you want to live in, it is impossible for D/s to literally exist 24/7. Its completely okay to have a day off where you are wined and dined and allowed to voice your opinion without consequence as well. It may actually be one of the healthiest parts of the relationship. It lets you know that you are valued and in good hands. 

8. D/s should never be actual abuse. If you want to play around, and everything is consensual, that's great. But nobody has the right to take away the freedoms of another person without permission.


9. That being said, there will be things that you don't like to do. Such as cleaning the bathroom. And the fact of it all is that sometimes, you have to do what is asked of you. And if you can't handle simple tasks just because you don't feel like it, perhaps this isn't the lifestyle for you.


10. Christian Grey was a fictional character dreamed up by a horny housewife. He's never going to really exist. And that's okay. Maybe you can find what you are looking for and write your own story.

6/16/2015 4:24:39 PM
Welcome to the soapbox area.... there be strangeness ahead!

I just terminated a chat with a 'slave' that was being sold by her Domme - actually the slave was calling 'You need to afford my mistress release fee and change of ownership fee.'  There were many things that seemed wrong -

) Would a Domme not want to talk and vet the person that would be taking her property to a new home? 

2) The Domme needs the money based on texts and images that may or may not be the person texting me.  The money was paid BEFORE getting an address to pick the slave up at and then you can come and pick up your property - I would never buy a car based on just an image and I know that my farmer cousins would never send money to someone for livestock without being there to check on its health and to make sure that they were getting what they were paying for!

Why do people think that we are all stupid and would fall for a scam like that... It may have been an honest offer but when the phrase "When can you have the FEE?" is ask over and over - something ain't right!

6/14/2015 4:07:04 PM
Why is Collar Space m_o_v_i_n_g so slow?

Collar Space seems to be very slow doing things like loading profiles, switching between profiles and uploading messages!  And I am not getting notifications for anything - new messages waiting to be read or messages I am saving to my to my email site!

7/1/2014 3:54:30 AM
Welcome to the top of the hill ...... it is all downhill between now and December 31 when we start the upward climb again. That does not mean you can coast through the rest of 2014.

10/6/2013 6:50:39 PM

It amazes me - I know that schools are not teaching geography like they used to but really.... how can someone like petslave121fox think that Ohio covers over 1168 miles!  Last time I drove from one side of the state to the other I didn't cover more that 300 miles! 

5/1/2013 6:35:42 PM

It's the First of May!!!!!

And EVERYONE knows what that means......

11/19/2012 2:39:59 PM

It's amazing how stupid some of the people that make profile are!? Last time I checked there wasn't enough distance in Ohio for someone to be 1905 miles from me and be in the same state!?


Do they think we are are all that stupid!


10/15/2011 12:21:13 PM

So is it just me.... every sub or slave that I start chatting with always complains about the number of messages that they get the minute that their profile is approved and posted.....

I know that every poser and wanna be Dom is trying to get their profile seen.  And they must be thinking that if they send out an avalanche of messages maybe one person will reply to them.....

Any way.... if there is a sub or slave out there that wants to contact me - you have my permission to do so!  I will not be offended that you were so forward as to send me a message . . . . I would be more offended if, when I send you a message, you say "I was hoping that you would contact me"

3/4/2010 4:30:51 PM
There seem to be so many women on this site that are just looking to scam men!  Like we men are that stupid!  You might burn us once but after that, at least in my case - I don't trust that something is going to happen until she is naked an kneeling in front of me! 

Ladies, sorry if this seems harsh but I am tired of spending time chatting with a sub or slave only to find out that they are NOT in Ohio like they say they are.  And if I want them, I will need to pay for them to come to me . . . I have NEVER done so and I never will.  So if you are looking for a sucker...move on, there is nothing for you here!

9/12/2009 5:37:27 PM
I hope that I can find real people here at Collar Me.  I get tired of chatting with someone only to find that they are in Africa, living with their 'parents' family.  But if I send them money, they will come to America and do what ever I want them to do!

Vertical Line

Vertical Line

Copyright © 2021 and  
18 U.S.C. 2257 Record-Keeping Compliance Statement

Vertical Line

DMCA |  Privacy |  Spam |  Support |  Dir | TOS

Horizontal Line