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An educated, spontaneous, well liked, very handsome and well mannered
gentleman... but with a dark side! Also an experienced Dom who is
caring, loving, patient, and a bit sadistic. Have a sense of humor that
will make you laugh in the most unimaginable moments. Seeking a willing
sub to introduce to the lifestyle, or to train towards a serious long
term relationship. Age, race, experience unimportant. Looks and
attitude are.
You are submissive and a bit of a masochist. You have a strong
personality, but your way of loving is through submission. You like to
be used but not abused. You believe that your man is the head of the
household. You have a healthy dose of common sense. You are able to
express yourself and your desires. You aren't afraid of examining
problems to work through them. It is not that you can't make your own
decisions but that sometimes you choose not to. You are not a helpless
or a victim. You are empowered by your total submission to that one
person you choose to submit to. You take pride in your appearance
knowing that you are his reflection to the outside world. Do I seem to
have high standards? Good, I hope your standards are high as well.
I am Dominant but fair, in control but not controlling, persistent
but not obsessive, kind but wild, assertive but not cocky, protective
but not smothering, possessive but not jealous, adventurous but not a
risk taker, into domestic discipline but not domestic violence. I am
experienced in a wide variety of BDSM scenes, and very capable of
blurring the line between pleasure and pain until they become one. I
have a sadistic side but yet will gently soothe you afterwards. You
will always know that your weaknesses or fears will not be used against
you. Your dignity will be protected and self respect will be assured at
all times. I will not betray your confidence but use that knowledge to
push your limits farther than you thought you could go. I will never
force you against your hard limits. Your safeword will be honored
should you ever need to use it. Soft limits... well, those are very
well used for my pleasure and in punishment scenes.
Just to be clear up front: No cyber bottoms, no fantasy chatters,
no dual personalities, no short term thrill seekers, no gold diggers,
no man eaters. Not that I don't know how to deal with these types, but
rather I choose not to. Not having experience is ok, however you must
be willing and ready to explore your sexuality. I expect that you have
at least identified yourself as a submissive, and that you are very
comfortable with your identity. It is a big plus if you are outdoorsy.
I like it when my woman can get her hands dirty but then know how to
clean up well at night. Topping from the bottom will neither be allowed
nor tolerated. There are plenty of pussified doormats out there for
that. A natural desire to Service Top would be a wild turn on.
All limits are respected, but new ones explored. Safe, sane and consensual but built on an understanding of RACK ideology.
PS: Yes I am looking for a sub, but would gladly welcome questions and comments from other Tops and bottoms "in this lifestyle".
Tags: BDSM, Dominate, Submissive, Dom, Sub, D/s, lifestyle,
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