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Say something thought provoking and witty, be Creative... GO. Nothing? OK just the facts then. I came here looking to discuss things I'm into and see if is it possible to have a vanilla relationship with a passionate, active, kink fueled bedroom component? They say men are like waffles (compartmentalize things mentally and emotionally) and women are like spaghetti (everything touches everything else)... but obviously anyone here is a little "different" mentally. These days I'm usually over at dot com... look me up, DFW_C_P In my younger days I dated girls who still enjoyed sex after an argument... is that something that goes away with maturity? Kinks I'm interested in: All of the below are secondary to pleasing someone... it's nice to have someone who enjoys the same things and the pleasure is mutual, so in no particular order: As A sub: -Prostate/anal play: I guess I never got the whole psychological hang ups that "most guys" are rumored to have about having something in their ass... it feels great to me, and I crave it. -Pegging (strap-on play): This adds an erotic psychological component to the physical mentioned above. I totally get women when they say they want to be "taken"... there's just something very sensuous and erotic about a woman thrusting into you with her whole body. I'm pretty experienced here... and enjoy a ...larger... toy. Did fisting once... quite a rush, not something for every day use though! -Facesitting: I love the smell and taste of a woman, and honestly facesitting is a more comfortable position for the neck than lying on her back (which has other advantages)... in any case I love burying my face in a woman's sex (both before and after I cum in it). -Chastity: Unfortunately 90% of what is on the internet just doesn't appeal to me on the subject. The phrase: "Kepy for her" sums up what I like best about the kink. I have a voracious sexual appetite, and I telecommute, so I have plenty of opportunity to play by myself. It's a symbol, a reminder, a little added self control... keeping myself for her. -Sounding: I've tried a little, and it was OK, it's a bit like taking a huge strapon, or nipple clamps... there's a great endorphin rush, and good psychological boost, but not necessarily physically erotic. -Bondage: Probably the greatest psychological rush. If you're with someone who is inventive, and likes to explore, it's awesome to give up control on that level... -Rape / Role Play: I think I'm a pretty good actor, I love the scene from "Myra Breckenridge" where Rusty is taught a lesson. Of course trust is paramount, and respect of the green-yellow-red. As A Dom: Most frequently I end up in the Dom role... I guess I'm just good at it and it's a little less "unusual" for a woman to take the submissive role. That said, I guess I'm guilty of "bottoming from the top" (don't hear that very often do you), and really am into anything that will get my partner gushing wet and begging for release... the flip side to that is if she isn't into something (even if it's something I like) my heart just won't be in it. - Spanking: A swat on the elevator than makes your butt sting... when you bend over in front of me in the kitchen... OTK until your panties are soaked. - Bondage: Don't forget the "safe word"... I love having her at my mercy... the fear in her eyes... the trust to loose control. - Sadism: I usually look at things from a sub perspective there's a lot I know how to do here, AND I personally have a high pain threshold, so most likely I'm going to push limits until I see fear, and try not to go past to where a safe word is needed. Outside the bedroom: I mentioned that I telecommute, so I'm a bit of a homebody. I got back in shape in the last couple of years, so without trying to brag I'd say I'm a pretty good looking guy, broad shoulders, small waist, flat stomach, long legs... There's some grey in my hair, but at least I have hair! I'm pretty OCD and purposeful about how and why I do things. If I haven't given much thought to something I usually don't have an opinion and am willing to go along with "whatever", but if I do have an opinion, I most likely have given something a lot of thought, and to convince me otherwise someone has to be able to win the argument intellectually. I have two High School aged kids that I adore more than anything and are the reason I got and stay married. "The wife" knows I'm online and accepts it, but if it gets rubbed in her face obviously she gets pissed. Maybe in a few years we will go our separate ways, but for now here I am. I work on computers now, but in the past I've been an airplane mechanic, and worked in construction for a while, so I'm pretty well rounded. I like to read, but rarely have time. Eclectic taste in music, but I did graduate in the late '80's so I do lean toward "Hair Metal" and I do like a lot of the new stuff.

9/18/2014 7:32:05 AM It's not all that exciting visually, but good grief the stamina! 20 minutes of exercise 3 times a week... LOL http://xhamster.com/movies/754147/wife_fucks_the_husband_for_20_minutes_on_spanking_bench.html

9/12/2014 8:55:10 AM One of the best stories I've read: http://www.literotica.com/s/tony-and-alicia-celebrate-halloween Obviously everyone has different tastes, but this one has several points that really appeal to me...  - Coerced into Chastity... There's a huge amount of erotic risk/reward in submitting to this.  She promises "sex that he will never forget" but does he trust her?   - Crossdressing... not usually my thing, and I'm not opposed to it if it turns my partner on, but it really works well in this story. - Pegging... again with a heavy dose of coercion, if there is one part of the story that I would change to fit my personal tastes it would be that she used the chastity as leverage to tie him up, and then once tied a more dramatic surprise with the strapon... but that's heading toward a rape fantasy, and I'm sure that's not everyone's thing.