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DFDom

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I'm 27 and I am a Master. Not a Dominant, but a Master. While I'm kinky in some ways, most of my kinks center around control and Dominance, rather than all the other little pieces of BDSM. I'm a good leader and I enjoy teaching and training. This is actually the central pillar of what I'm looking for. As nice as it sometimes would seem to get an experienced sub, I'd actually prefer someone who's brand new and has a burning need to learn and be guided by a firm hand. I experienced s&M for the first time at 19. At that time, I knew NOTHING about the lifestyle, only that my girlfriend wanted a "Master." Over the past 8 years, I've studied and learned, and I look back in shock that I was ever so ignorant as I was 8 years ago. It is my belief that 8 years from now, I will look back on this time the same way, in spite of all I think that I know. As I mentioned, I am seeking someone who wishes to learn. Someone who preferably has little to no sexual experience and wants to let herself be free with one person who she can trust and be safe with. This girl is preferably less into pain and more into pleasure. She is a romantic, and want's a Dom who is as well. This someone must be disease and drug free. Yes, that includes weed. My perfect sub will be smart and nerdy. She will be able to understand literature and love to read. She'll enjoy cuddling and watching a movie more than sitting in the theater and watching one (most of the time.) Even though she's smart, she's always looking to learn more because she wants to better herself. A few hard needs: No Drugs No STDs No IDIOTS No Africans/Ghana Girls No Children (Sorry, I love kids, but s&M + Kids = fucked up kids. If you disagree you're a retard and someone should take your children away.) No games/drama

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2/23/2011 4:36:28 AM

When Madison left me, I felt like my world was ending.  I questioned everything about myself and lost confidence in myself almost overnight.  The loss was devastating, and for over two years, even as the pain dulled, I slowly grew certain I'd be alone forever.  I tried dating, and even had sex a couple of times.  For a little while, I tried to convince myself that it was better to be single since I could sleep with whoever I wanted to.  Deep down I knew that the truth was, I didn't want to have anyone but her.

A few months ago I finally got to that point where I was "over her."  The point where I'd decided to start seriously looking for someone else because I had finally convinced my heart that I couldn't be with her and that there was someone even better out there for me.  Even so, I felt hopeless.  I no longer held delusions that I'd ever get Madison back, and I knew that someone else was what I need more than anything, but I know who I am.  I have a rare mind that most people think is crazy, creepy, and/or just weird.  It takes a very special type of woman to get who and what I am.  I was starting to think that there wasn't a snowball's chance in hell for me to find someone who I could love.

Last night, something changed.  For the first time in almost 3 years, I felt something that I thought I'd lost.  Hope...  Hope for the future.  Hope that maybe it's not all over for me.  For once, maybe I could find someone right for me.  I met Tasha.

I've always been very good at reading people.  I'm so good at this that my mother, who I will tell you is a million times wiser than I am, asks me to give her dates a once over and tell her if she should bother with them.  I'm a quick judge and I have yet to be proven wrong in my sense.

I've felt the way I feel now only twice before.  Both ended up being deep involved relationships.  One was with Madison.  I feel like this one is the one I've been waiting on!  After talking all night, I'm getting chills at how amazing this girl is.  I feel more alive today than ever.  I don't feel doom and gloom hanging over my head anymore and it's exhilarating! 


2/9/2011 3:35:53 PM

Went out and splurged on a new espresso machine.  Best $40 I ever spent.  I don't think I've ever had coffee this good, even when I made it myself.  It's so perfectly balanced I do believe it's well worth the extra effort and expense.  It's definitely going to pay for it's self soon.

Also, I went out and got a spice grinder to grind the coffee.  It made a difference I believe.  This is actually better than the stuff I made last night, though that also might be because the Farmer's Market just has better quality coffee than Kroger...  Oh well.  Point is, I can now fulfill my true potential and make the worlds most awesome coffee!  Ah!

I dunno.  Sounds almost like a selling point.  But I suppose it all depends if a girl wants a Dominant who would enjoy making her a really awesome Latte at home in the morning, even though it takes like 10 minutes just to make one cup with all the prep and such.  Even better, maybe I should just teach my new submissive how to make super awesome coffee!


1/28/2011 6:44:00 AM

Thanks for letting me know the reason.  New pictures are up.  Enjoy!


1/26/2011 8:53:35 PM

wow...  Apparently my picture is scary "and not in a good way."  That kinda sucks because I think the picture is a pretty accurate representation of my physical features.


1/26/2011 6:55:08 AM

Ok, allow me to clear something up.  I'm always polite and civil in my first message.  I've been told that this makes me come off as "to nice."  Understand, not being an ass the first time you speak to someone is not being to nice, it is practicing civility.  I'm just as capable as the next guy to call you a whore or a slut and to tell you of the things I do to you that will make you blush and get all wet between the legs, but I prefer to open with an air of class.  As one person on here mentioned in her profile, "Cruel, not crude."


12/26/2010 3:20:20 PM

Wow...  Of all artists I've ever heard, Amy Lee of Evanescence is by far the most talented.  Her voice carries power that is rather extraordinary.  Seriously grabs hold of my heart.


12/19/2010 5:44:14 AM
God people!  Have you never heard of periods!?  How the hell did you get past 3rd grade without knowing how to punctuate your fucking sentences!?

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simplygrace
 
 Age: 44
 East Sussex, United Kingdom