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Looking for One Special Lady in New Hampshire or New England

Maybe this isn't the place to post this, but I figured I'd go ahead and try. I'm seeking a long term relationship, hopefully leading to marriage with a special lady in the New Hampshire/New England area, who is either already into kink or would like to be. Between the ages of 35 to 55 years old. I'm not looking for one night stands or a temporary play partner. I am looking for someone to have a committed, loving relationship with.

What good is searching for someone, only to find out once you're in the relationship that they want absolutely nothing to do with kinky play. You have four choices; hope someday you can convince them to play with you; give up the relationship; stop playing completely; or sneak around behind their back and hope you don't get caught. I know so many couples where one partner is into kink and the other could care less. They sneak around, go to parties, and play with almost total strangers. Its too bad. They're missing out on so much pleasure they could be having with their spouses. To say nothing of the danger involved playing some of these "games" with strangers.

How many of you ladies have been or are in a relationship that is great, except you don't dare tell your partner your true inner feels about playing "games"? Your partner would laugh at you or think you're "sick" or "perverted" if they ever knew you enjoyed "kinky stuff". So you don't say anything, how sad; to give up all that fun and erotic play.

I am 50ish, single, Dom-switch, in the southern New Hampshire seacoast area. I don't have children. Disease free and never done drugs. I have been pierced and modified (a long time ago and a long story). You needn't be into body piercing. I am interested in all sorts of scenes, both giving and receiving. I'm definitely not into giving extreme pain or humiliation, only pleasant/highly erotic sensations. I will never force you to do anything you really don't want to do.

I'm not looking to start playing right away. I think we should get to know each other first and hopefully fall in love before we play. I am interested in building a solid relationship, based on love and respect.

If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to ask. I’m very open about everything.

If you're interested, please email me so we can chat and I'll send you a photo.

Thank you for reading profile.

7/18/2008 10:06:18 AM

  It occurred to me the other night, that I’ve had a pretty good life. I’ve lived it pretty much on my terms. I’ve done things and been places that most people never have. I’m busy with career and settling in to my new house.

  The only thing I’m missing now is someone to share my Love and life with. I miss the feeling of LOVE, complete surrender, and total trust.

  The feeling you have when you’re out for the evening with your Lady/Lover, say for dinner or a film, you can’t wait to get back home and make love with her. To share your body with her and give her all the pleasure can. You exchange knowing glances and soft touches in the dark. You both know, deep inside, that the best part of the evening is yet to come. You’re walking down the sidewalk and you step back a few paces, just to watch her body move as she walks. She turns and gives you that smile that melts your heart. You KNOW, this is Love.

  I’m not here to find someone that is into chains or swapping or torture. I’m here to find someone interested in falling in Love and exploring our God given sensuality together.

11/7/2007 11:12:28 AM

I just up dated my interest list.  Can't figure out if this is play that you, the "listee" is supposed to enjoy having done on them OR if this is play the "listee" likes doing with the sub/slave.  So I did it from the stand point of what I enjoy doing with/for/to a sub/slave.

11/3/2007 8:11:45 PM
  Working on setting up the machine shop today.  Now all I have left to do is level the metal lath.  Gad I hate doing that.  But I gotta' do it so I can start on some new "toys" I have in mind.  Yes, I design and biuld my own toys and jewelry.  If you look closely, most of the "adult" toys on the market are junk.  Way over priced and shoddily made, plus I don't trust most of the jewelry out there.  They say, "surgical stainless steel" but is it.  I found one manufacturer was making his out of stainless steel alright, but it was the SS alloy that contained LEAD. (adding lead makes it easier to machine.)  Do you really want that in your piercings?????? Not me thank you.  I want to keep that body part.

  Back to work.  Sorry for the rant.






 
11/1/2007 12:58:16 PM
  I was thinking, while I was building shelves for the hall closet, this is a great place for a D/s couple.  The "Playroom" is almost finished; the whole house has wall to wall carpet (keep the subbie naked and barefoot);  a fireplace to cuddle by on cold winter nights; and a hugh heated soundproof play space. What more could you ask for?  Now all I need is a slave/sub/Lover.  That's the hard part. :(
11/1/2007 9:23:18 AM
  I think I'll use this journal as kind of a rambling blog.  Seeing as how it's more protected than a public blog, I guess.  If anything here interests you or you have any question, please don't hesitate to ask.  I used to write a column for the  "Sinsations" web site, so I'm used to questions.  My particular area of expertise is very specialized, and sometimes getting a correct answer can be difficult.  (More about that later. I don't want to shock you to soon.)  BTW, my spellng is terrible.

 
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 Age: 32
 Granville, Ohio