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I'm not your average sub. I recently graduated from an Ivy League law school, and work in Washington, D.C. I take my work very seriously, which also translates to my submissiveness. My education has taught me to be meticulous, pay attention to detail, and obey the law...that is what I bring to my submission. I also have a very healthy, vibrant, and dynamic vanilla life, outside of the privacy of the bedroom; thus, I'm looking for someone who can seamlessly move from a vanilla life outside (attending black-tie formals, etc...), and then keep me begging helplessly on my knees once back in the privacy of Her domain.
I travel frequently with work to many cities across the country, so please inquire if you are not near the D.C. area. I often visit client agencies in Boston, Chicago, New York, Los Angeles, sometime Cleveland, and Atlanta...just to name a few.
I want to learn more about myself and the D/S lifestyle, so online conversations are satisfying to me - although I am very eager for more.
I have a very athletic build (I played baseball throughout college) and still stay in great shape by working out several times a week at my firm's gym.
I am looking to pamper, serve, and worship a dominant female who will help me learn my proper place beneath Her. You will discover that I am very respectful, intelligent, humorous, and seriously interested in you if I make an effort to contact you. I'm not in this for a cheap thrill or sex, but am in it only to serve and pamper.
I enjoy no-strings housework and generally being on my knees to follow any command. Housework and chores are most appealing to me, however! If you want a sub to cook, clean, and take care of you and your house...look no further! I look forward to hearing from you.
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I have come to realize that there is something uniquely depressing about being a submissive male. The depression exists because of the stark contrast (or perhaps stark conflict) between intuitions and reality.
Intuitively, one would not expect that finding a woman to serve would be very difficult. Society chides men who are selfish and self-absorbed. Women on TV and movies wish that men would be more giving, think of them more often, or just do the dishes once an a while. What woman wouldn't want a man who enjoyed doing housework? Why wouldn't a woman want a man who would bend over backwards for her and follow any command? If you didn't know the truth about the life of a submissive male, you might even think that we were a hot commodity - that women would be energetically pursuing us.
Yet, as is often the case, our first intuition is wrong. What we expect is not what is so. And that is where the depression arises. If you take Collarme, for example, submissive men beg and plead for a Domme's attention; most Dommes have dozens of subs pursuing them. Why is it not the other way around? Wouldn't every woman like a man to focus on nothing but pleasing her? If our intuitions are right, there should be very few submissive men and many more woman seeking us out. But that is not the case.
Why? The question is worth asking. Reflection reveals many potential answers, but very few are fully explanatory. And that lack of explanation is, perhaps, the only explanation we need to make sense of it all.
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I recently accepted a 1-year consultant position for a client in the Williamsburg, VA, area. I will be moving to that area for the next 12-15 months, where I hope to have much better luck finding a Domme than I had in D.C.! |
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So amazingly sick of fakers! |
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I have become rather disillusioned with this site and finding a real Domme who is a good fit for me. Thus, I have decided to take some time off from my search, which has lasted for well over a year. Perhaps a few months break will allow me to come back and search with renewed vigor, as I am rather drained by living in the difficult position of being a genuine service-oriented sub who is thrown into a mix of fakes and artificial Dommes.
I will hopefully return in a few months and, with any luck, will find some new Dommes in the metro D.C. area who are interested in more than shallow conversation and talking a big game.
Good luck to all. |
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No luck to report of late. I've been honored to speak with a lot of great Dommes, but nothing has come out of it. The search continues! If anyone needs a dedicated service-oriented sub, contact me! |
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I've spoken to a lot of very nice, sincere people lately, but still no luck with finding a properly compatible Domme to serve. If anyone is seeking a service-oriented, energetic submissive, please send me a message! Best wishes to all! |
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I just read an old ad on another site, and I had to share: "I want a laundry bitch. Just someone to come over once a week and clean all my dirty clothes so I never have to stress about it or waste my time doing that chore again." If this was posted today, I'd be all over it! If someone has this same type of perspective on things, and you are local, please contact me! I'd love to be the laundry/bathroom/dishes/chores bitch! |
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I've been on here for about a year, and still no luck! I stay optimistic, and am genuinely interested in several Dommes on this site. We'll see how things go. I don't know if I'm being too picky, or if the pickiness lies with some of those I contact and do not respond! Do know that if I do send you a message, it is because I provided thought to the contact, and not because I copy and pasted my previous messages like many on here do.
Good luck to everyone! I'm trying to check my profile and messages on here more frequently - work has been busy! |
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Argh! No luck yet...a few good leads, but nothing has substantiated. Please know that if I contact you, I am very interested. I'm not a chain e-mail, rapid fire kind of sub on this site. Also, just because I am a sub, it does not mean that my intelligence or myself should be completely disrespected. |
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Still frustrated. No one seems to be local, or, at least no one local is real. Please don't waste my time if you're not who you say you are! I have a webcam and pics...so please be able to verify who you are somehow, too! |
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Still no luck! I've had a few great conversations, but nothing has substantiated for one reason or another. Please read through my profile, and contact me if I interest you at all! |
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The search continues...I have also uploaded a few extra photos, so feel free to check those out. |
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Still searching for someone. I have been contacted and contacted several Dommes myself, but nothing have formulated. I'm willing to chat with anyone at least once, so please feel free to contact me. |
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