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Hetero Male Dominant, 40,  Georgia
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 Dominant Male




 African Descent



 Lives For:

 Movies (Expert)

 Travel (Expert)

 Horseback Riding


 Breast Binding/Play

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Cybering (Expert)

 MMORPGs (Expert)

 Science Fiction (Expert)


 Art Galleries


 Camping (Expert)






 Anal Play


 Body Worship

 Canes and Crops


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community (Beginner)

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control


 Vacuum Stimulation

 Vibrators (Expert)

 Wax play




 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 Simulation Games

 Web Surfing



 Intellectual Discourse


 Alternative Music

 Eighties Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Industrial Music

 Nineties Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Rock Music

 Ice Hockey



 Bar Hopping (Expert)



 Coffee Shops




 Skate Boarding



 Hair Pulling

 Arcade Games (Expert)

 Horror Movies

 Online RPGs

 Role Playing Games

 TV News




 Conservative Politics

 Liberal Politics

 Libertarian Politics



 Classical Music

 Country Music

 Electronica / EDM

 EMO Music


 Hip Hop Music



 Pop Music




 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes








 Street Hockey



 Amusement Parks

 Fine Dining



 Musical Theater




 Ultimate Frisbee

 TV Sports





 Curious About:


 Renaissance Faires

 Martial Arts



 Scuba Diving

 Surf Boarding









 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap

 Role Playing

 Sensory Deprivation


 Speech Restrictions











 Sky Diving


 Antique Shows

 Bird Watching

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales



 Wind Surfing





*** FYI, I'm spending most of My time on FL now ***   About Me:   Let’s start with the basics… I can be smart (from time to time) and a smart ass (most of the time). I was raised by a single mother and she taught be to be self supportive… Although I strayed from that path early on in My life, mistakes & tragedies over the last few years have reinforced that trait in Me. I’m a loner that enjoys solitude more than I enjoy the company of friends or lovers, although there are times that I enjoy a little company. I love to laugh and if I’m having a bad day I try to keep it to Myself instead of taking it out on others. I’m quick to distance Myself from negativity & drama (in situations or individuals) and I try to keep it out of other people’s lives, although in the past I really sucked at it (sorry about that…you know who you are… ).   I’ve got a truckload of regret about the things I’ve done and things I should’ve done. But I’m working on getting past that baggage so My life can move on & I can stop living in the past.
I love a good laugh, but I try not to laugh at the expense of others… Although I have no fun poking fun at Myself whenever the situation comes up and I’ve often said that I’m a blonde at heart.   My hobbies include watching movies (either at home or in at the theater), getting out to practice My photography, relaxing at home while listening to music, watching TV, relaxing on the couch with a good book, practicing the guitar, or goofing off on My X-Box. In rare situations I'll work on My erotic stories that I've been writing. My mood tends to dictate which one of those things I feel like doing at a particular time.   I love learning new things… I’ve got 4 Associate of Science degrees & I’ll finish My Bachelor’s of Science this year if I can get off My ass. I’m also trying to finish getting My pilot’s license since I’ve invested a few thousand dollars into it so far.   Oh yeah, sometimes I have issues finishing things (see above).   I was born in Miami, FL and raised between there & the Bahamas (where My dad & that side of My family resides). I was the only child, but I wasn’t spoiled… I was in trouble WAY too much for that to ever happen. Which is probably why once I got out of the house I always spoil Myself and anyone I’m involved with. I hate being told ‘NO’ and when I’m dating someone I try not to tell them ‘NO’ (hence the spoiling). I have a daughter in college and I have a hard time not spoiling her either.   I’m a Scorpio (some folks have told Me that I’m a textbook Scorpio), but I’m not quite sure what that means since I’ve never taken the time to look it up.   I’ve traveled around the world (literally & figuratively) with the military… My favorite place that I’ve been (so far) has been Germany. The people & scenery are awesome and I love the history… I was supposed to visit Australia & New Zealand this summer, but that trip’s been pushed back to a later date.   This BIO will probably be a work in progress as I add things to it… so feel free to stop by if you want to see if anything changes.  
  A little more about Me...   (Non Sexual): I’m funny, have a wicked sense of humor, and I absolutely love to laugh. I try to always find the best in a bad situation and chalk them up as learning experiences. I’m in the military and I have a few hobbies that occupy My time (photography, movies, college, reading, and console/MMORPG gaming).   Although, I tend to be a loner at times when it comes to getting out, doing things, and being social, I still like making new friends to chat with when I'm online (I never know when I'll convince Myself to go out into the daylight and try the real world for a change of pace)... lol. So feel free to hit Me up if you have Yahoo Messenger... =)   Once I get more time from work & school I'd love to make some local friends in the Central GA area... Fyi, I consider friends to be people I hang out and have fun with in NON-SEXUAL ways. Granted, trying to squeeze it into My schedule of work & school might be tricky, but I'll give it a shot.   I LOVE photography... Since I'm still kind of new, I’m always trying to find something or someone to take photos of.. and yes, I’ll take photos of anyone or anything for FREE. I pretty much take pictures of whatever catches My eye, but I tend to prefer human subjects (which usually drives people nuts). Until I can enroll in some formal classes, I’ll just keep practicing. I've got My photos posted online, so if you ever want to see any of My work, just ask…   Interests (Sexual): I’m a Scorpio, so I have a HIGH sex-drive and I’m not ashamed of it. I’ve experimented with quite a few sexual methods and there are a few that I REALLY enjoy, but there is still tons that I want to try. I’ll never judge anyone because of their kinks or fetishes… but please understand that some of them aren’t for Me.   The things that I'm into are bondage, resistance play, spanking, wax play, anal play, oral (giving & receiving), exhibitionism, and voyeurism, just to name a few.... I'd like to learn more about being a better Dominant, and a few other areas of the BDSM lifestyle like ropes, mummification, and flogging/whipping.   When it comes to sex I believe that pleasing My partner comes first and foremost, and they should get as much enjoyment as I do, if not more... I'm familiar with the BDSM lifestyle and I've mostly participated in light BDSM where I was the Dominant. I've tried the roles of Switch and sub, but I found that they weren't for Me.   Lately I've become interested in other areas of BDSM... this has gotten me to dig deeper & explore Myself more along with My wants and desires. I'd like to find a person , couple, or group that might be able to help Me make this journey. I believe that what I learn can only help Me become a better Dominant over time. That's pretty much Me in a nutshell… If there's more you want to know (and I'm sure there is), drop Me a line.

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Journal Entries:
12/7/2011 1:27:18 PM

Hanging out on FL now (mostly)... lol

10/22/2011 10:20:37 AM

I love discovering new sides of Myself (i.e. Primal Play)...  >:)

10/3/2011 1:46:13 PM

Sometimes this site boggles my mind... Ok, maybe not the site, but DEFINITELY some of the people on here.


>scratching my head<

9/29/2011 2:03:20 PM

So, I've found the perfect sub for me. I was surprised how fast it happened... I guess when the time is right, it's right, eh'?


I love the fact that we mesh so well, and when we play it's AMAZING for both of us.


She's not looking for a monogamous relationship and I encourage her to go out & play, and she does the same for me. How awesome is that?!?!?!?!


>huge smiles<

3/9/2011 11:25:50 AM

So I've been doing a lot of self-growth and I came to a few realizations...

If my sub is going to stay home and take care of the house, then I'll take care of basics like providing food, shelter, safety, love, and a nurturing environment to learn, explore, and grow as a Dom/sub couple.

I want a woman who will kneel at my side not because I want her to, but because she wants to. I want her to have the need and desire to please her Dom and know that I would never do anything to jeopardize their life, health, or family. I want a woman who I can sit down and have a meaningful conversation with about current events and the state of the world and then minutes later follow me to the playroom for wonderful sessions of spanking and bondage. But she must also realize that there are times where I need my space and she's strong enough to be independent when she needs to be.

In short, a woman that is beautiful inside and out, smart, strong, motivated, and willing to be a sub, friend, lover, wife, and slut... all rolled into one.

I wonder if there are women out there that would be willing to take that jump back after years of strength and independence...

3/9/2011 11:02:01 AM

I'm 6'2" tall and weigh about 225 pounds...

I don't have any allergies...

I've got two tattoos...

I've got high blood pressure (it runs in my family)...

I've been wearing glasses since 1995...

I snore...

I've got three Associates Degrees...

I'm five classes from finishing my Bachelor's with three minors & two certificates...

I've got a 3.5 GPA...

I hate the fact that I've been going bald since I was 30... (hence my shaved head)

Sometimes I get SUPER unmotivated and will stop something after I start it...

I love anime and kids movies...

I love video games...

I love World of Warcraft...

I've been shot at numerous times and I've shot back...

I'm debt free...

3/4/2011 7:10:44 AM

I came across this and found it to be an interesting read...


(This commentary is taken from the book, The Rules, IIwritten by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider. These are my thoughts on the book. I can't help but be amazed at the similarities between The Rules and Fascinating Womanhood.)


Whether we like it or not, there are certain rules that pertain to relationships between women and men. These rules are based upon laws of basic human nature. They work.

To think women and men should treat each other exactly alike is unrealistic. To think you can treat a love interest like a buddy is absurd! The man must have an attraction and be the pursuer in the relationship. Relationships approached any other way just will not yield satisfactory results.


You might want things to be different. You may not like The Rules, but you will like the results. The Ruleshave been criticized for being old fashioned and unfeministic (to which I say a hearty, BRAVO!) The authors try to defend The Rulesfrom these allegations. What didn't work 50 years ago still doesn't work today. Human nature has not changed because it is built in by our Creator.


Although the book is mostly written for single women wanting to get to the altar with Mr. Right, there is an excellent chapter on "A Rules Refresher For Married Women." This chapter is the focus of the remainder of this editorial. Below you will find 16 rules for married women.


1. Start with your looks.
If you happen to have a husband who is paying less attention to you than you would like you have to ask yourself if it is in any way warranted. Take an honest look at yourself. Do you need to work on your weight? Do you need to work on your hair or nails? Do you dress in nice clothing, or run around in sweats?

It won't help to demand his attention. You need to begin on a program to improve your visibility. You are the woman he loves and married. Keep yourself up for the sake of your marriage.


2. Use your mind.
Just because you are married and have made your family your number one priority (which it should be) is no reason to let yourself become too narrow in focus. Keep up on current affairs, have some outside interests, do some volunteer work, have some friends, or even take up a new hobby or sport.


3. Don't analyze and reanalyze your relationship or force him to talk about it.
You've probably heard that one of the major differences in men and women is the amount of words we have to use up in conversation in a day. Most of us women not only have lots of words to use, but we love to use them to torture our husbands with heart-to-heart talks and questions about your relationship. We like to know what he's thinking and like to hear him avow his love for us. Big mistake. Work on yourself, be secure with yourself, gain your husband's attention, but talk to a friend if you need some deep conversation and he is not ready for it.


4. Leave him alone.
This is sort of related to the above point. Men are more inward and at times they need to unwind and relax. If he's watching a game or reading the news, let him do it in peace. It's better to leave him uninterrupted than to annoy him and possibly feel rejected or unloved. This most likely is not the case. Get involved in your own activities and let him seek you out. The man is the pursuer and it works this way even for married couples.


5. Don't be a nag.
Don't complain about the things your husband provides for you such as, the house, the income, the car, etc. Don't nag him about his friends. Quit complaining about jobs he needs to do around the house or yard. Instead of tearing him down, build up his confidence. Let him know how much you appreciate him and how happy you are. Sometimes these gripes are valid, but nagging is never the answer. Work on accepting him while making yourself the best you can be.


6. Let him initiate romance.
Perhaps your husband isn't as romantic as you would like. He married you and you shouldn't expect him to have to prove it daily. He may bring you flowers and gifts, if so, be grateful. But again, the best advice is to work on yourself and remember, you reap what you sow. If you go out of your way to make his life sweet, you may benefit in the end.


7. Don't be jealous.
Put your energy into being confident, fun and intelligent. Don't be clingy and worrying if he talks to another female. Jealousy is a flaw in your veneer. You need to have the attitude that your husband got quite a catch when he got you and that there are plenty of men who would be glad to have you.


8. Take the high road with friends and family.
It is doubtful you will get along with every person in his sphere. You must let your noble character qualities shine in cases where you clash with his friends or family. Don't belittle yourself by criticizing them. A man wants a woman he can look up to as being a better person than himself. Don't waste your time on cattiness.


9. Try to compromise.
What if you have opposite tastes and goals? You must be flexible and open-minded. Don't be stiff and rigid, but be ready to enjoy life with your man.


10. Be quick to say you're sorry, preferably first.
Fighting is a part of married life at times, I'm sad to say, but there are fights and then there are fights. Don't be mean, spiteful, hold grudges, hang onto hurts, and stay angry. Don't let the sun set on your anger. Be the one to make up first.


11. Be neat.
The authors tie this in to being sexy saying disorder - stockings hanging around, dirty clothes on the floor, papers strewn all over, dishes undone - is not sexy. Very true, but not the only reason. Disorder in the home shows disorder in the mind to my way of thinking. It hurts your progress and creativity. Besides, the home is your haven. You should strive to be successful in the area you operate best in.


12. Be independent.
Dependency on a man is a distinctly feminine characteristic. Men love to know their women depend on them, however, you need to have a balance. Can your husband depend on you in a crisis? Does he know you have inner strength and spiritual fortitude? Does he know you will be there for him when he needs you? I think sometimes we confuse "independence" with "strength". Men do not want another man, they want a woman - a feminine woman at that. If you are too independent and don't need him, you may find one day, he realizes it.


13. Have time out together.
Alone-time with your spouse is important and it's good to get out in a different atmosphere. Hire a sitter now and then.


14. Lock the bedroom door.
This is an excellent practice in any home. Make it a habit to lock the door all the time and you will relieve yourself of any embarrassment you may feel if you only lock it at "certain times."


15. Say things nicely.
You keep throwing water on your relationship if you speak with a sharp tongue, find fault, or use snippy answers. Especially, don't let little things bother you. It can be easy to do. Stresses and strains can build up and it's easy to take it out on those closest to you.


16. Don't have exaggerated expectations.
When you have expectations, and they aren't met, it's always a let down. I have found it's better to expect little, then when you get more, you are pleasantly surprised. If he's working long hours, don't brood over your lack of attention. If he didn't pick the right gift for you, don't show disappointment. Learn to enjoy the simple things of life.

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