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Hetero Male Dominant, 46,  Alton, Illinois
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Update.... My WifeBabyGirl has just recently passed away. For the past two years she struggled with cervical cancer, it was cleared, but treatments took too much of a toll on her body. I miss her, she was my heart, my home, my everything.

LOOKING FOR OUR HOUSE SLAVEPET that will become part of household for years to come. We will be your home,world, your everything.

I am going to re-write our profile soon. Im not so sure that anyone really reads them at all. Just in case I will lay out all specifics in a simple at that hopefully everyone will be able to understand. I want to thank everyone that has contacted us just to chat or to see if we would be a good fit. Always around here. Lets have a good week everyone

We are looking for our third. That diamond in the rough to be our slave and pet. We are a 247 household. The one that wants to be part of our family must be dedicated to us and truly desire to become fully owned and completely involved in our lives. This a loving yet strict tightly woven household. Any questions, just ask and will freely discuss everything. I will help out with anyone if they would like my opinions or advice. I have been a mentor many times. I love to see others grow in the lifestyle.

I have been asked several times if we are real or not and to immediately talk over the phone or Skype in the very first email. Im not giving out my phone or my BabyGirls right off. We dont have Skype. We do have Kik though and email addresses. Now yes everything goes through me at first and then my BabyGirl will join in on the conversation. I do not ask for nude pics, I do like to ask for a face pic and only because ours is posted. I respect others privacy and discretion.












 Dominant Male



 6' 3"

 254 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Female

A Poly Household

 Lives For:


 You wearing my collar

 Being Massaged

 Lifestyle BDSM



 Blindfolding you

 Body Worship

 Breast Play


 Canes and Crops


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Domestic Service


 Hair Pulling

 Housework Service

 Placing you on a leash

 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control

 Outdoor Bondage


 Spanking you




 Corner Time

 Electrical Play



 G-spot Stimulation

 Local BDSM Community

 Rear End Play

 Erotic touch



 Masks (Wearing)

 Masks on Partner




 Maid / Butler Service


 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Sensory Play

 Speech Restrictions

 You wearing stockings

 Suspension Bondage


 Vacuum Stimulation



 Wax Play


 1950s Lifestyle



 Curious About:

 Erotic Hypnosis

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Journal Entries:
9/20/2016 8:05:53 PM
I haven't said much about this to anyone here, I am an Army veteran. I know there are many that could care less and just the same amount that do care. I was only in from 1990 - 1996. I was in the sandbox, and I was in the woods, I was many places. If you are reading this and know of a veteran that has seen things, been through the areas no civilian ever dwells... don't ask them what it was like, just let them know you are there for them if the memories become too much for them. They may not talk about it, but the distractions will help them more than you understand.

9/16/2016 6:04:49 AM
It's a slow moving thunderstorm going on this morning, a certain sweet little pet slave would be heavenly right now as I sit here in my chair, watching the news, drinking my coffee

9/15/2016 2:16:25 PM
I'm thinking that I could really use a daily personal assistant. Got too many things going on at once.

9/14/2016 10:55:22 PM
I'm also amazed how many place phone numbers in their profile, makes me wonder if they are the same ones that state right off that the need to be bought from their current owner

9/14/2016 10:52:54 PM
With many of these profiles it makes me wonder who is real and who is not. I see many that show passion in their profile, but many seem just the same as so many others

9/14/2016 10:24:23 PM
I sometimes wonder why I get these deep urges to take a woman I don't know and bend her over my knee and give her a right good spanking. I've thought long and hard about this many times. It's not consensual, there's no sexual gratification that I'm getting, there's no broken rules.... maybe I am just that much of a sadistic monster. I never actually act on these impulses or urges that would cause untold consequences, but there are times that those urges run deep. I don't know.... what I do know is that no matter how strong those urges are, I always have control over them. Though I will have to say that on those days when it hits, it seems like every woman's ass has a spotlight on it. Anyone have any comments on this?

9/14/2016 8:11:44 AM
I'm debating on attempting to take a pic of current inventory of tools I have to use and placing it in profile. Debating if that would just be in poor taste or maybe just wrong in general. Feedback anyone??

9/13/2016 10:26:47 AM
I am in the need to bend someone over my knee and bare handed spank their ass till I feel calm. Any volunteers? Lol I find that a good session lowers my blood pressure and calms my mind.

9/12/2016 3:14:29 PM
Yes, a year ago august ourban best friend and our collared pet/slave passed away in her sleep. She was at her parents home when it happend. The coroner and police could not find any wrong doings or causes, when she was founder, she was in bed with a smile on her face, all we know is that she just simply passed away in her sleep. I've never wanted to accept the answer that a reason couldn't be found. From her journal I do know that she was happy and content with us and that she felt like she had finally found her home with us. No one can ever replace her. She was passionate about life and who she was. We are at a point where we are now looking for someone new. I know if she were with us still, she would be scouring and looking through ever place possible to find one that fits in with our Household.

9/12/2016 3:02:38 PM
I had to vent some, and yes there may be spelling/grammar errors. Oh well. I will say that in my Household, My rules are what is in place. Yes I like intelligence, yes I like my subs and slaves to have thought. It pleases me that they know who and what they are and can come to me if they have issues, want to explore, questions. It all comes down to what's agreed upon on how they are treated. So simple, so easy.... I can beat them 20 times a day, lock in a cage, suspend from a beam, sleep at the foot of the bed, sleep between me and my BabyGirl, it's all our business.

9/12/2016 2:53:30 PM
Well I feel better now. I had a Domme and sub tell me yesterday that a Dom can not be flexible in how they train. Where is it that as a Dom I can only enjoy one type of training?? I enjoy training in a very wide range of techniques. I am a sadist and yet I do have a heart. So what?! Why can't I enjoy giving a harsh ehausting session or decide that I might just want to give my sub or slave a full complete body massage just because I want to???? Yes I believe that subs, slaves, pets or whatever kind of sub they are, they are still human. Whatever terms myself and the sub have agreed upon are between us only. I can train a sub to be nothing but an object, I can train them to be princess or servant. It's all between the Dom and the sub and what they have agreed upon.

9/12/2016 2:40:17 PM
I really wonder if anyone ever reads journal entries other than myself. Sooooooooo..... LICK MY BALLS AND MAKE THEM CLEAN AND GLISTENING

9/12/2016 7:39:42 AM
Another thought that's been on my mind would be setting up a house for wayward subs that need a home to serve and a place to stay until they found their true calling. They would have the support of other subs, structure, training as needed. It's a thought. I know I would enjoy it thoroughly. I enjoy the teaching, training, mending broken subs and building then back up.

9/12/2016 6:23:55 AM
I think back to when I was was introduced and taught about the lifestyle. My mentor was amazing and so very knowledgeable about every aspect of it. He passed away 15 years ago. I strive always to honor his teachings, his ethics, his mission to teach others correctly and enlighten those that are ignorant about what the lifestyle is all about. I have had thoughts about setting up a training house. To me it would be an amazing way to honor his teachings, passing them on to Doms/Dommes and subs of all types and levels. I am curious to hear from others on thier thoughts about this idea.

9/5/2016 10:44:11 AM
Submission is a rare gift that is treasured, cared for, nurtured, and protected... not something that gets used up in a flash and tossed aside like yesterday's garbage. Yes I am very opinionated on this, I can not stand to see that beautiful precious light of submission extinguished because some ass clown. I'll shut up now before I makbbe a fool out of myself, if I haven't already

9/5/2016 10:43:52 AM
It's amazing to me that real Doms/Dommes can even find a sub/slave/pet/lg/bg anymore with the amount of impersonators and wannabe fakes and flakes out there. I've come across so many that have been broken by these that it's really sad and depressing. To see that they will never get to grow or explore and experience who and what they are. .

9/3/2016 11:55:04 AM
I am in need of someone who enjoys to be tied up in many different ways. Need to do some rope work and refine some new styles and techniques.

9/3/2016 11:50:35 AM
Where are the subs/slaves/pets that have passion about being what they are? I've had a few contact me that just seem so robotic in their messages. I've talked to others that are full of life and passionate, just not a match.

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