Good day. I'm simply a nice man in a mind-expanding marriage. After twenty years she let me know she always wanted to be spanked, choked, and more, and that she thought good girls shouldn't. As a big, nice guy, i never even considered administering pain. But if it meant pleasing her- and pleasing is what I live for- I would give it a try. I never expected to enjoy it so much. So here I am.