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| Hello everyone, thanks for stopping by. i consider myself a very laid-back guy, pretty much goes with the flow, and tend to deal with life through humor a lot.
i am interested in exploring new adventures with other open-minded women or couples. This is meant both as playtime, as well as socially; developing friendships with people that are non-judgemental. More on my interests below...
i believe communication is vital to having a good experience. Letting others know your interests, and your limits. Respect of these is KEY, while understanding that in the heat of the moment limits may be raised, they can also be lowered. Open-mindedness, communication, respect, and discretion... all of these are VITAL, and assured on my side. Discretion is assured as well, no worries if we saw each other at the supermarket, if that is something you needed. Myself, my kink-life is very separate from my day-to-day stuff, and you could say closeted. Being "open" out in the open is, well, nerve-racking to me.
i tend to be naturally sub, though i sometimes have thoughts about exploring the other side of things. Interested in exploring the serving/submissive side of it more... i'm not sure if "submissive" or "kinkster" is more appropriate of a title, but i do love to give myself to a spanking, and have recently enjoyed a face-smacking. (grins) i definitely do like fingers/vibes used on me, and a strapon is on my “bucket-list”.
ideally, the above would occur as part of femdomme. i am a fan of dressing up, and am really starting to explore this part of myself more. i've been doing a little shopping publicly (again, nerve racking!), and frankly, really enjoy being dressed. it feels... natural? just seems to fit. i love lounging around in my house with pink pj's!! Dressing, it's something i've engaged in some capacity back into my high school days, and would love to have a “bff” to help me expand my wardrobe, and possibly learn about makeup (did it once, want to again!). this is something i would like to also explore with some photography, having my camera used to take photos of the transformation, and perhaps play like that.
The bi-sexual status is due to having had experience, orally. i have no problem playing in a straight capacity, so if you're a couple with a straight male, there's no need to worry about male-male contact, i can respect that and focus on just the Female. (Although, to be honest, i'd love to lick her after he's cum, inside of her or on her skin... i love cum!! lol) That being said, i do have an interest in exploring anal with a guy, but that can be discussed more later.
These varied interests are "likes + wants", but are not "needs". i am open to a lot, and definitely open to learning… including items not marked in the profile. If my likes are more than yours, i can respect that and play to the level you are comfortable with; again, mutual trust/respect is what makes this work. i have limits that i don't want for myself, but may be ok with watching. As stated above, respect is vital, and i do not NEED to indulge in any of my kinks if the partner thinks they are too taboo. i can play kinky, or very vanilla...
Basically, i'm looking for an honest person(s), about their desires and wants, and who isn't here to BS. If looking for fun on the phone, one night only, or hopefully a steady friend (play or not), i'm very happy with any of these. Who knows, maybe I'll find the person I'll spend the next 40 years with too.
i'm basically just up for expanding my social network, learning more about some of these things and about myself, and taking it all one fun day at a time. It would be AWESOME to develop friendships with people that are understanding, and where i can truly be me.
so if you think you could help me explore this at all... whether socially, as a true friend, playing together, being my photographer, really in any capacity... please write to me. i would love your help as i explore this part of myself further. thank you!
(and if any ladies want to get together for a cuddle session with light touching, wearing stockings and other lingerie, my outfit is all set to go! lol)
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