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Hetero Male Master, 67,  Montgomery Villag, Maryland
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COME ON IN-LETS DANCE I am retired now and have a lot to offer the right partner, be it for just play or a more involved relationship. They say life is a dance - just need the right partner. I will keep your modesty in My back pocket- your body ,behavior and attitude My priority. How much structure do you NEED? Contract and training taught. TPE dose not mean doormat, rather the opposite. Lets Dance. I am seeking the woman whos needs will complete Me. Seems it is now important that I add I am a STRAIGHT MALE seeking a 100 percent female. I would be considered a well educated, emotionally mature, stable, SINGLE, EXPERIENCED, non-poly, Dom for LTR. Experienced Master seeking My one- are you out there? I am currently seeking a female match in Ms. If you like dancing it would be a plus but not necessary. Please be honest and truly interested in a TPE- not saying yes then listing so many limits that an agreement to serve becomes impossible. I have been in this lifestyle too long now to play that game anymore. Many thanks to those who understand what I am talking about. I have read many profiles and many list -- looking for someone with a passport , non -smoker, good credit rating, financially stable, and no criminal record, and the chemistry to go with it. I am looking for someone like that as well. I am looking for a complete relationship. I believe a couple in Ms is as close as a couple can get , but there are many aspects to make it complete. In the end it is about meeting as many needs as possible I am Meetable - Dateable - and currently Available. I am an Accountant by trade- now retired you should message Me if you would like to learn a different way in Ms- Many Doms have no clue how to enslave a woman, it is not for the lazy. If you are looking for a lazy Dom - I would not be for you. My rules are written. Lets get you trained. Dance? I have recently found the site I once wrote for is about the contracts. Smiles-











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 Dominant Male

 Montgomery Villag 


 5' 11"

 165 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

 Lives For:

 Beachcombing (Expert)

 Dancing (Expert)

 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Chastity (Expert)

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 Sensory Deprivation (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)


 Fine Dining

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 Renaissance Faires (Expert)


 Sailing (Expert)


 Local BDSM Community

 Gags (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Leashes (Expert)

 Massage (Getting)


 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Spanking (Expert)

 Whips (Expert)

 Card Games (Expert)


 Eighties Music


 Rock Music

 Seventies Music


 Anal Play



 Corner Time



 Electrical Play


 Eye Contact Restrictions




 Medical Play

 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 Orgasm Denial

 Outdoor Bondage (Expert)

 Public Play  (Expert)

 Role Playing


 Speech Restrictions

 Suspension (Expert)

 Vacuum Stimulation

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 1950s Household

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Journal Entries:
7/29/2017 10:38:53 AM
  Back from the beach- new photo  7/17 

12/14/2016 5:27:37 PM
  Anyone know of a singles dance for New Years?    No date for Me- and wont go without some singles there.    Ones I know all have dates.     

9/29/2016 3:59:06 PM
I got excited when I saw the Jersey Mikes  Ad.  I went to the one near by and there food is fantastic.  I enjoyed every bite- but sadly they did not have what I went for.....

A sub Above 

9/6/2016 5:29:06 PM
  Trouble in paradise and lots of drama.   Being friends is a bit more than just saying Hi.  It happens that 3 of My vanilla dance partners have all broke up with there boy friends at the same time.  Times like this I sure miss having an M/s lover.  I so hate drama, and like the peace this relationship provides.  

12/6/2014 11:08:15 AM
you should message Me if you are interested in the next singles dance- I will send you the web site info and hope to see you there. 

5/15/2013 5:41:22 PM

I saw this joke today- I had to think twice as it was in a vanilla publication- I like this joke: 

Met a beautiful girl down at the park today. Sparks flew, she fell at my feet and we ended up having sex there and then. God, I love my new Taser!

8/2/2012 5:27:03 PM


7/7/2012 12:13:07 PM

  I am trying to figure out why the armbinder I bought this year for Christmas and the body binder I bought last year remain yet unused.  I started e-mailing yet another - this one was on ok cupid- only to find out yet again that she is not yet divorced.  I was wondering if there was anyone left who might match what I need and then I read this profile.


I am not good at being a conditional or a circumstance "submissive". I just don't relate that way. Either you are in charge at all times or we are independent of each other. We are either "in or out" - I need it black & white - & l don't deal well with vague or wishy-washy.
I am not interested in being just a girlfriend or wife. I am interested in being a slave. If I have to be a gf/wife - while functioning as a slave - that's understandable - but if that's the zenith to my role in another's life I will be miserable.
I need to be under some manual control or I just start to veer off and away. That control is how I interpret - on a core level - concern/interest/engagement. I need to have my power taken - and replaced with efficient utility and the security of being held within tight boundaries and to meet one's clearly expressed expectations.
Oh yeah - and brutal, cruel, primal sex acts of utter vile and degrading depravity is the romance I seek and for which I melt. :)
Enslavement (that being someone actually having to take the effort to enslave me) is what makes an intimate relationship work for me. Do you know how to enslave? If so, maybe we can chat.
Most masters don't seem to comprehend the importance of utilizing a methodology (perhaps more than one) for enslaving a woman or they don't know how. Please don't PM me expecting me to tell you how to enslave, if I don't really know you
Without enslavement, I'd probably prefer to remain single/dating as kinky friends. It's more than quite probable that l'll opt to do all you want, but you probably won't get compulsive obedience & "selfless" service without some form of enslavement. The difference being whether the choice is mine or yours. Just a fact of life & psyche.
the mental touching is a vibrant, living thing
Give me the guidelines...Tell me the rules...
Build me a box...And i'll live contentedly within its walls

   I am giving the sub who wrote this many thanks today!  It is the hope I need to carry on My search. This one is taken, but I sure hope there is someone who gets it still around for Me.  

6/19/2012 6:08:57 PM

Wow- Saw yet another great dating ploy on alt tonight.  Same pic- three different profiles  all on at the same time.   I hope all three have good luck- and no one gets hurt. 

12/31/2011 9:28:50 AM

 It Dose not matter what you call yourself ..... It is about your needs 

The short version- Meet - Date - See if My Vision matches your needs and Mine. you make your choice to serve or to leave.  you will have this choice to make several times early in the process. I do not believe in collars of consideration and a lot of internet crap. I belive in meeting needs and the binding contract M/s offers - serve or leave. I do not want a door mat. rather a woman who needs structure and in that format will grow to her full potential.   I think a loving couple in this arrangement are as close as two can get. For more please see the rest of My profile.

12/28/2011 5:55:38 PM

  It is amazing to Me how many profiles ask for a Master - a real Master, one who will honor the commitments. One who knows what TPE means and the amount of work it takes. One who understands that no matter what there can never be a power backlash- for that would not be meeting the required needs.  One who -from the recent trillogy and other works I have read - knows He will not be complete without the M/s relationship.  It is about the contracts. I have written many and have had many posted over the years. I do not understand why so many profiles complain of not finding what they seek. 

11/23/2011 10:51:37 AM

  They had met once before at a spanking party. She considered spanking and nipple pinching almost vanilla now as spanking parties are often like singles dances. Many partners but rarely a match. Time has a way of getting to things that should be. With the third meeting the time had come to try more than just a vanilla match.

  He had managed to move the light spanking into her loins and it smoldered there as she had her hands tied to a hook in the ceiling. Now out of her comfort zone she was nervous as her lower clothing was removed and her legs spread. She heard herself protesting the plug going in her backside- but knew it would not make any difference- and she squirmed as He tied it into place with the crotch rope. “Hold Still “ His voice was there - she wanted to please Him.

The rest of her clothing was removed when He brought her hands down from the hook and now retied them behind her back. When that was done - another longer rope was attached to the crotch rope in back looped around her fastened hands - pulled up very high - then over the shoulders and attached to the crotch rope in front. The effect was that if she moved her arms up it pulled in back - arms down pulled in front.

  He now sat on the bed with a riding crop in His hand admiring His work and her naked body struggling with the rope. She was thinking very hard about how the 4” shoes were probably not a great idea when she heard His voice say “WALK”. She did not move rather had a look as if to say - are you kidding? But the riding crop found her backside and she moved forward. At the other end of the bed she heard His voice say “TURN” she turned and walked back towards Him.

  As she walked she kept adjusting her arms - first up then down trying to find some comfort. She turned again at His command and then the plug in the rear reached a spot that began to send spasms through her. She quickly brought her arms down only to now have the same feeling in the front. “Walk “ she heard but the voice was not real close. The shaft of the riding crop on her backside produced a forward lurch and she processed that pain into the wonderful feelings that were exploding now deep inside. There was a female voice now moaning in the background but still she listened. “Turn” His voice was far away now.

  She tried to please the voice - but her self preservation kicked in. Her knees locked together so she would not fall off those heels. She was shaking violently - still trying to please the voice - Oh wow is that me making those sounds /??-and then she heard “KNEEL” She felt Him in front of her and called up all of her moxie to unlock her knees. She knew that the pressure on the rope would cause her to release when she went down . The female moaning voice was really loud. The next thing she felt was His hands on her rock hard nipples as she found the floor and the trip to subspace-release - “Please Sir” she said .


7/20/2010 5:19:42 PM

I was messaged after a dance that someone had come to the dance.  The message said that I seemed busy dancing.  Well I sure wish whoever it is would let Me know if you come to the dance.  I love to dance and there is not enough time or good songs for Me.  There are usually several hundred people at the dance- so maybe it is hard the first time to meet everyone. To anyone I may have missed - please come again.  I do dance with several in a group that I just dance with - It is just a dance, not a date. 

7/18/2010 9:11:14 AM
I once read an ad by a sub-female seeking a Dom. She said if the Dom did not know,like,and appreciate the song : "In the Evening" by Led Zeppelin- He should keep looking. Though this is not a deal breaker for Me-(is My fav song though) I could understand why this was for her.  I read another ad that said - if you dont have eye hooks in your ceiling...... - well of course. 

7/18/2010 9:07:32 AM
Shortly after I graduated from college and got My first job, I was going to parties hosted by a friend. There was a core group that got together with various dates and other friends in the mix. After a few months I and a young woman, also part of the core seemed to gravitate toward one another as the evenings wore on- even though both were dating others. Now at that time there was not the exceptance to Alt. lifestyles there is now, and the word perv. was used alot -lol. Over our drug of choice and alot of inuendo it was apparent that the lifestyle was of great interest to both. Instead of inviting Me to a party(the next weekend) - My friend asked if this woman might come to My house for the evening and made sure that I would be alone. At eight that evening, two of her friends ( I knew them from the parties) walked her up to the door , rang the bell and left. I answered the door, said hello, and was wondering why her arms were not in her coat. She walked in to the middle of the room and asked Me to remove her coat. She wore only high heeled shoes, stockings, and a pair of hand cuffs fastening her wrists behind her back. The key around her neck. She said "Do what you will with me, i cannot stop you." I said "kneel" and helped her to the floor. As I returned with a collar and leash she said " i hope this turns You on as much as i am". The relationship lasted 24 years - till her passing. I think she knew I was.

7/18/2010 9:03:19 AM
Honest, caring , sincere , seeking same to be My one, (slave in D/s for without a match there is only the search)-for that one truly special relationship that will achieve the natural flow to M/s. I believe in the lifestyle and the structure it provides. I believe that a loving couple in D/s are as close as two persons can ever be to each other.

7/18/2010 9:00:14 AM
I am seeking My one... that special sub-female that needs and desires being in a loss of control, loving relationship. I have always thought that submission is a need, just as control is Mine- given to the One/one who will fulfill those needs together. I would be capable of taking as much control as necessary to meet the needs of My possession-assuming of course there is the chemistry between us to become so. I am very possessive and desire only one lasting relationship.                                                                                                                                                                           I was walking along the boardwalk at the beach (one of My favroite places) several years ago. I saw a man come out of a first floor room some distance in front of Me. He was followed closely by a women, and though they were clad in only bathing suits, I could sence that the lifestyle was in place between them. He sat down to watch the beach on this sunny day and she began to position herself around him. she had just finished wrapping herself in a comfortable position at his side as I was passing. The expression on her face said it all. she was totally HIS leaving no doubt to anyone who saw them as they passed.  I have never forgotten that expression, and hope there may again be one for Me.

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