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Some things about me that are probably useful to know. Sorry for all of the literature, but I find being up-front and honest about who I am and what my intentions are have served me better than hiding the more negative parts of myself behind a sheen of self-praise. So, here's the basics...
Who am I? I'm a college student in pre-nursing hoping to enlist in a Naval medical program.
What am I like? I'm 22 years old, 5'10", have neck-length brown hair (recently bleached and dyed teal), hazel eyes, and am in decent shape though I could stand to tone my body up. I'm shy, submissive, honest-to-a-fault, open-minded, stubborn, affectionate, trusting, and somewhat effeminate (or very, I'm not really sure). I tend to put my foot in my mouth a lot because I speak my mind almost all of the time, so I've had plenty of bad situations started with my friends (mostly girls, go figure) because I was being oblivious to them, and because of that I've learned to pay more attention to people; so for all the trouble it brings me, I've actually become a better person, I think, because of that. I'm pretty much open to any new idea given enough coaxing, but I still have a foundation of core beliefs that I will generally refrain from compromising without great thought and consideration.
I enjoy all sorts of physical activity, though I'm not quite the self-motivated athlete I'd like to be, but I have a history of sports and martial arts that has kept my body in good condition and built up a lot of stamina so I can tackle beginners hurdles in any activity better than the average joe. I enjoy the outdoors, camping, horse-back riding, hiking, rafting/canoing/kayaking (I haven't done much in this area but as with all of my likes, I'm always willing to learn more), and a good old campfire. I'm equally comfortable indoors as well, provided I have someone to keep me company, especially with mentally engaging conversations about pretty much any subject: politics; science; philosophy (including theology); the merits of cartoons. While I don't have much practice in any specific field except perhaps the Roman Catholic Church (atheist now, but some of their tenets are agreeable to me as a moral/ethical foundation of personal belief), I am familiar in a number of topics, and much like my athletic ability I'm competent enough to jump in but not skilled enough to compete without some study.
What am I looking for and what are my qualifications? I'd like to delve into the BDSM scene and am looking for a Mistress to 'show me the ropes', as it were. I am currently employed in a fast food chain and I do not have a car, but I'm used to walking up to several miles one way (I think my farthest has been about 8mi) to hang out with friends or to get to a family gathering. I have nothing to offer right now except my friendship, loyalty, attention, and hopes of compatibility. I certainly hope that's enough to make me interesting despite my status as a blank slate.
What am I into? I have pretty much every kink in the book barring some like scat and watersports which I find... not disgusting, but more... too messy to pursue with any sort of dedicated enjoyment. Aside from that wide range of interests I have a fetish for being dominated by women, though not necessarilly always in a mean or abusive fashion (though those sorts of things are fun, to a point); I like strong women, especially athletic or tomboy types and don't mind muscles on a girl. In regards to anything I'm not familiar with, I'm willing to listen (or at least shut up) and try once, usually three or four times, until I decide I don't like it.
What do I look for in a person? I would like my friend, partner, lover, mistress, domme, whomever you may be, I want a keen and curious mind; having childish enthusiasm is more endearing than detracting, in my opinion. Interest in the intellectual and athletic circles is a must; I've tried existing only to fulfill someone's sex drive, and while I could never restrain myself from indulging her whim, the periods of time in which we weren't having sex I found nothing to keep me interested in the relationship.
What About Men? First off, I definitely enjoy the company of women in all respects, this much about my sexual preferences is known to me. I find sex to be an emotionally neutral activity, it becomes fun and arousing when I like the person I'm with and find them emotionally desirable; I guess this makes me something like Pansexual. Regarding a sexual attraction to males, I'm curious and confused, which is as complex as the issue gets. I have had several spontaneous encounters, three of which were sexual, two of those actually involving penetrative sex. My reactions and enjoyment have been mixed, so I remain open to the idea that I could be bisexual, though I'm definitely not certain.
Submissive or Switch? I consider myself submissive with a great deal of surety; there are rare instances in an intimate situation where I have become dominant to a degree. This does not mean I turn into a sadistic 'master' either, I remain gentle and compassionate and I would like to think that I am also attentive, though I do not have the experience to say for sure. I can say that I have remained submissive while in a dominant position; my mental picture of these situations is one of service, not control. Explaining the difference is somewhat difficult and is probably easier demonstrated in a session than via a lecture. The basic idea of this footnote is that I can't and don't jump into a dominant attitude at will, it must be triggered and I do not have the experience or self-knowledge to know the trigger or find it.
So, that's just about everything you could need to know about me, hope it helps.
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This is certainly long overdue and I'm still at a loss as for what to write.
Everything in my life is going well enough, except for y'know, that whole intolerable feeling of loneliness single men have (or maybe I just like to think that  ).
There's a munch tomorrow near me, which is both good and bad since there are people I can relate to about having fetishes, but most of them are much older than I and, as per most things, a majority of them are men, so... yeah. At least I can learn a thing or two from their experiences and I always seem to get along with older people, so that's something of a plus (in that I'm not being run out of the club for being an impetuous youth with no respect  ). |
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| Age: 43 |
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