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 Please read before you message me
I am a 23 year old female living in Northern California. I am a fairly interesting person. I do like to be in control of myself except at times when I feel comfortable enough to relinquish my own self control over to someone else.
I am responsible and mature. I expect the same out of anyone who messages me. I am not here to be collared, to be disrespected, or to be hit on.
I do NOT like sub men. If you are a sub male or switch male, do not bother to contact me. You will be immediately ignored. I don't consider myself submissive, dominant, or even a switch. I am simply, me. I know my limits, and I would rather those limits not be pushed.
I would definitely like to find a man that I will feel comfortable to learn and grow with. I am looking for the other half of me that I can be spontaneous and monogamous with. (Sorry, I don't like to share or be shared)
I am an open type of person, but there are some things that you just don't ask me about when you first talk to me. I am a person. If you expect respect, then you better make sure you give me that as well. I do not like to be humiliated for your fun. If you are cruel or think that women are meant to serve men, you are definitely barking up the wrong tree. If you are in a poly relationship, that is fine, but do not try to push it on me. Not interested here.
I am going to college and that means a lot to me. I do have many plans for my life and will not let anything or anyone stand in my way of it. If you can not be on board with that, then again, don't bother with me.
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So I have noticed that the Real Doms/Masters on here treat you with respect. They don't just come out of the blue and try to have sex with you. To me, I find that to be the egotistical arrogant bastards who think women or even other people owe them something. To me, it's funny to think that such idiots can even get or keep a mate. But then, most of the bottoms to that situation have no backbone and like to be treated like scum. Not me though! You message me with, "Hey slut", "Wanna Play", or anything that has to do with sex, you get a smart ass remark back and then reported.
My main reasoning is: just because my screen name is curvyslut, does not mean that is all I am. I am a strong, independent woman first and foremost.
Another reasoning: Online, you don't know who is of age and who is not. You have to make the best decision to get to know the person before becoming sexually explicit with them. What would happen if you ask these girls sexual questions, and their parents find out. Your IP address can be backtracked to you and you will more than likely be labeled as a pedophile. If that's what you want, then keep doing what you're doing.
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I have recently started dating. Dating is a different experiance for me. I am used to either being in a relationship or not. Anywho, I met this great guy. He is very interesting, and very much my type. We have yet to explore a lot in the bedroom, but we are getting there. Wonder how this one is going to turn out? |
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So, I've wondered why I am on this website. I have been here a few times before, and still seem to be disappointed. Don't get me wrong... I have met a few good people on here. It just seems most of these people are into something I am not. I am interested in the BDSM lifestyle. But in my opinion, BDSM and Vanilla go hand in hand. |
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