I am inclined toward submission, but have no desire to become a mindless drone. I'm fascinated by, and enjoy exploring the D/s dynamic and to a certain extent bondage and discipline. I am NOT a masochist, and have no desire to work at becoming one.

I'm not a bimbo or a barbie. I'm interested in talking to and perhaps meeting mature, respectful people only.

Although, it has been pointed out to me, my previous profile cleverly suggesting that I did not want to hear from married or otherwise undesirable Doms might prevent desirable ones from contacting me. Properly chagrined, I take it all back. I'll be happy to hear from anyone except Bush supporters.

For the moment, I'm seeking information and friendship. Any relationships that develop will take time and mutual interest. I'm an old fashioned girl. The man who 'wins' me will have to work for me, but I'm pretty awesome, so definitely worth the effort ;-) .


Observations determining my preferences at present are:
* With regards to your 'realness' follow the sage advice of Canadian virtuosos Rush and "show, don't tell."
* I appreciate those who make me laugh, both the humorous and the absurd.
* I'm not looking to play games with weekend Doms with the 'my wife is vanilla' syndrome.
* I'm not bi-sexual.
* I'm not looking to move in with a couple, although I like to talk with folks living in a 24/7 lifestyle.

I appreciate all those who have answered my questions and offered sincere guidance. Every serious chat I've engaged in has helped a little bit with clarity and understanding myself. Thank you all.


Final point, I make no commitment to respond to every message I receive, but in general I reply within 48 hours.

Thanks, S