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	Huh... how to get the ball rolling? Well to start with I am a pansexual male switch. I know the term 'switch' pisses a lot of people off for various reasons but I use this term for a very good reason; I'm more or less a tool to a greater degree. I am dominate for the submissive and submissive for the dominate. I am like this because I want to learn both sides of the process cause I am fascinated not only by the various kinks out there but the relationships they forge if only for a night. That being said I am not a dominate who tries to humiliate you nor punish till your bruised and broken, not only does that damage someone physically but mentally and spiritually as well hence how I cannot do anything along lines such as those. Now along the lines of me as a submissive I am open to just about anything aside from what I said up top, I have had too many people take advantage of me through-out my life time because of my somewhat submissive behavior both in and out of a relationship. On this note I'd like to point out I don't live the lifestyle but I only practice it when I can, but the one thing I hold close is trust. Trust is a very important key in any kind of relationship from plain friendship to a marriage, but in this kind of thing it's the line that could stop something from going very very wrong. If I place my trust in you I expect that same trust to be returned, because I believe that such things are essential. I hate holding my end of a bargain and someone else decides they aren't serious. It happens all too often. The outside me... On the outside and out of the bedroom, dungeon or whatever other crazy place you people call it I'm a nice guy. I generally tend to have a good time and look out for others who need looking after. I'm a full time student in college, going for me B.S. in Sociology and a minor in History in a nice college between Reading and Allentown. I spend most of my time either on school work or with my friends. Also as a for-warning: I'm a geek. You know you love the geek ^^ On a personal note I will not go outside of a certain age range, so if your over 30 I am sorry but no thank you. In addition I believe that doms should not charge for a sub, if a dom demands money then that is financial domination and say that up front; to me if you dom or sub it should be about the personal release and pleasure, not charging an arm and a leg.

5/26/2011 7:24:03 AM

So how has everyone been after me week long absence?

4/6/2011 6:01:41 AM

OK I might not be that old to this world/lifestyle but one thing I am rather sure of is that I have never seen a site more filled with 'Doms' who want financial compensation for their 'work'. Last time I checked this is a two way street, more so I find it rather disturbing since I have never, not once, ever encountered a dom who only did it for the money. I understand that there such a thing as financial domination but the 'tribute' thing that seems to be going here is blowing my mind and quiet frankly I am not seeing a difference between those asking for money and people who work the corners.