finally got my new toy & uploaded it as my current picture.  I usually think cockshots are stupid, but figure this is more of a picture of the chastity device.  Originally I was worried about what it might fee like, but it turned out that the tube is surprisingly comfortable  & there is only a bit of  snugness around my balls

Went through & removed all references to fetishes from my profile & most of the ones in my "interests" recently because I was tired of people simply using them as buzzwords to try and start a fun & games playdate when they had no interest in them whatsoever or having them potentially drive people off.