I am interested in white males only Ok, to start, I am new to this site and to bdsm. All I know is that for a brief period of time someone came into my life and changed the way I view relationship dynamics. I have always been the person people turn to in order to get things done and have always believed that I had a dominant personality. With that being said, I was shocked the first time this person told me what to do and how to do it. But, I found myself following his instructions and enjoying the feeling of submitting to him. He has been out of my life for a few years now but, I still fall asleep at night thinking about that experience and would like to find someone that is dominant to help me figure out if it was him that made me feel this way or if I am really sexually submissive.