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Who am I?: My names Julie. My nationality is Hispanic-I was born in the US but my parents were not. I do however speak Spanish and am fluent(apart from writing it). I am a big girl for many medical reasons, not because I overeat/don’t work out-I am healthy otherwise. I have depression etc. I am on medication and it has been working out well. I’m open and upfront about who I am. I love myself and who I am but there are always going to be parts of ourselves we do not appreciate or like. I’m overly friendly and a bit naive and trusting at times, this does not mean I am unintelligent. There are still things in life that I need to learn. I take all my experiences in a positive way, I grow and learn from everything I have and will go through.
How old am I?: I’m 26 years old regardless of how believable or unbelievable that may sound. I don’t act my age unless I 100% need to or a serious topic approaches and or my mood is low.
About my little side: My little age ranges from 5-8. I love pacifiers, and stuffies, and a major fan of hello kitty, I love anime, and movies, I feel cute in little space and I show my childish personality, I’m little most of the time and not afraid to be little outdoors. I buy little-kind foods and snacks for litllespace. My voice does change when in little space and comfortable around others. I am not to be confused with an ABDL as I know some littles are however I am not(but have many friends who are). I enjoy coloring while in little space, crafting and so on, I like to get my hands dirty. I love guidance in littlespace, I am most innocent when in littlespace-I like to be taught what to do. I am also a kitten and take these qualities with me in LS.
BDSM in my community: I have been to a littles group here, I’ve made friends with one the leaders and I absolutely adore them- however due to circumstances and not driving I cannot make it often and haven’t been to another one yet. My friend encouraged me to not be afraid of asking for a ride so I will be doing that again soon. There are so many events that are coming up that I cannot miss (toy store/summer events♥) I have not been to a play party or other groups because I am not comfortable going alone. (and I much rather just stay in the littles community right now).
I love: Art, anime, cuddles, gifting, smiles, supporting others, walking, the outdoors, nature, flowers, stuffies, hello kitty, eeyore, cosplay, catgirls, playing, watching movies/tv shows, poetry, concerts, tattoos, piercings, all types of music (including oldies).
How long have I been in the lifestyle: Unlike many others I have only been in the lifestyle for one year. Though I have lived this way since forever. I started having these likes and thoughts at the age of 9, however growing up in a religious household I avoided who I really was and what I liked, I tried being someone I was not for a very long time. After a while I met a friend online who introduced me into BDSM when we roleplayed(petplay). I never knew all the things I liked were considered BDSM and once I found it-I found myself. After encountering a chat room I learned about being little and ever since I knew. I cannot see myself without this lifestyle.
What I can give you: I can give you a lot of things as a submissive, but the most and probably the most important aside from my submission to you, I can give you loyalty, love and obedience(of course with a little bratty-ness). I can give you respect and honesty. I can give you communication; my thoughts, my feelings. I can give you parts of me that others don’t see. I can give you gifts and surprises, I will give you space and time when needed, I can give you support and motivation in all things, I can be your safe place.
What I am looking for: I am looking for a dominant to guide me, communicate with me, to be open and kind with me, to be patient and understanding, who will stay when things get tough, to teach me, to love me, to be committed and to want a serious bdsm/ddlg relationship, someone who understands the lifestyle and the seriousness of it and is 100% sure they want this lifestyle and knowledgeable about it. I’m looking for someone who is not superficial who sees past the surface and into the mind, someone who believes in love, who is caring and nurturing. I want someone who can be my safe place.
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ffffff. Finding a real daddy dominant is hard. This site is.. blegh when it comes to that. Most just want a hook or something where as I would like a real relationship. -shrugs- someday =P |
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Questions for future daddy dominants.
What makes you a Dominant?
Being a Dominant what do you get out of it?
Do you have any on going problems?
Have you ever been in trouble with the law? if so what for?
Have you ever been in jail/reason?
If divorced is there any drama with your ex?
What are the goals you have for your sub?
What type of structure do you plan on providing?
Are you going to require me to do something that could cause me to lose my job or family? (public humiliation etc)
What is your age?
How tall are you?
Do you want children?
Do you have a job? if so what and how long?
Do you live alone/friend/family/roommate?
Do you have or like pets?
Do you use any drugs or drink frequently?
Does anyone aside from yourself know about your lifestyle?
How long have you been into BDSM what made you have this lifestyle?
How much experience do you believe you have as a dominant?
How man subs have you had and why did they end, how long did they last?
Are you confident in what you can give?
Can you give support/after care/guidance/discipline/rules?
Are you capable of handling someone who has emotional issues(depression/anxiety)?
Can you communicate well with your sub/have you ever had a problem with this?
What are your hard limits?
Do you believe in love?
What do you expect from me?
What are things you cannot handle from a sub?
What is an instant turn on for you?
Do you or have you ever had anger issues?
Have you pushed a partner too far if so, how?
What are your usual safe words?
Have you ever been in a LDR?
How much time can you give a sub in a LDR?
Do you have issues with me being overweight but trying to lose weight?
Do you like tattoos/piercings? Do you have any?
What things would you want to do with me?
If you were to make any rules for me what would they be?
Could I be both in little and in pet space at the same time or would that bother you?
What kind of punishments would you give me?
What are your kinks? |
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| Age: 18 |
| Ft riley,
Kansas |
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