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I am a lifestyle switch. My style of dominance is heavy on mind fucks, humiliation, and sissification. I am exploring financial dominance for the first time because I have a sincere interest in fulfilling the needs of men who have this fetish and because, frankly, the power exchange involved makes me very wet. What attracts me to this fetish is its bare-bones nature and its honesty (yes, its honesty).
You'll find me to be intelligent and intuitive. You'll respect me in the morning, you just won't respect yourself. Serious inquiries only (please understand this fetish fully before contacting me). Don't waste my time. I'll only be responding to notes that speak to me.
What differentiates me from most of the money Dommes out there is 1) I am real, 2) I am not a porn model with no interest in or understanding of BDSM, i.e., I'm sincere, 3) I am truly female, lol and 4) my style is quite understated and therefore different from what you may be expecting. The verbal humiliation you will receive will be specific to you and your actions. In other words, notice that I am not calling you a "fucking, money pig" in this profile text. That is because you have to show me that's the case before you'll hear what you want to hear.
I have no interest in leading you to bankruptcy, but you should know that this might hurt a little.... If you respond to this profile, please put the word "willow" on the first line of your message and do not address me as "Madam." Failure to do so will mean your email will be deleted.
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blatant copyright infringement follows:
Money Lust: The Taboo of Financial Domination
By Ana Blue
Money is like sex, it drives people, everyone wants more and nobody is every truly happy with the amount they have. Plots in stories often involve a man trying to win the affection of a woman by lavishing her in gifts and taking care of her expenses. In return, the woman humors the man until he runs out of money and she decides he is no longer wanted. For the sake of mainstream morals, the result of the heartbroken man is a lesson learned that money cannot buy love or happiness. There is an underlying agenda to these stories of unrequited love and desire for money. It may go unnoticed that a man may receive much enjoyment from his financial servitude and unrequited affections. In fact, he may be a submissive who enjoys financial domination.
While most people are slaves to their creditors, others find it emotionally satisfying to be in a monetary chokehold by someone of power. Financial slavery is not to be confused with or thought of as a form of prostitution. When in a financial S&M relationship, typically there are no sexual relations involved. The relationship is about power exchange and more often than not, the financial dominant will ignore the submissive and only speak to him or her when he or she wants something or needs bills paid. Attention is used as a reward if the submissive, or pay pet, has been on his or her best behavior. The idea to this type of submissive relationship is the enjoyment in surrendering your finances to someone whose affection is unrequited and attention is sparse.
More often than not, people are reluctant to enter these types of S&M relationships because there are many frauds who take advantage of this community. Financial slaves can be easily taken in by someone who is not into the power exchange and in it only for the money often resulting in financially ruining the submissive. As in all types of fetish-based relationships, there is an understanding to follow the rules of safe, sane and consensual exchange. Each relationship varies; some are only conducted via the Internet and many ?dominants? have set up websites where you can pay tribute to them. However, it is never truly certain if these are people into the lifestyle or are just taking advantage of pay pets.
Others prefer intimidation through blackmail where they surrender all their personal information to the dominant, and if they ever try to leave or cannot make a payment, this information is used against them. For example, a domme may threaten to tell their sub?s loved one or contact his place of work if tribute is not paid. A consistent part of this relationship is that there is little contact between the sub and domme, the relationship appears as a strict business association. Some use blackmail as more than just play, some use it to take complete advantage of the sub until he is completely financially destroyed, making it difficult for most subs to be trusting in fulfilling this fetish. Trust is the number one aspect of an S&M relationship and if there cannot be any due to the high volume of unethical people taking advantage of this fetish, then it easily becomes harder for someone to play out their fantasy as a pay piggy.
Another form of financial slavery frowned upon is a more mainstream version, the sugar daddy and the gold-digger relationship. A sugar daddy is often a wealthy older man who enjoys spoiling younger women in an attempt to gain their affection. Unlike a financial slave, if a sugar daddy?s attention goes ignored, he will just move on to the next younger attractive female and these are sexual relations, which can lead to long-term monogamous relationships. Sugar daddies often attract gold diggers whose main purpose is to seek out a wealthy man who will spoil them and cater to their every whim. Gold digging has slowly become more than just a derogatory name for a woman who seeks out men to spoil her; it has become a profession.
How to guide on landing a wealthy man are everywhere and becoming so mainstream that last year, the Today Show featured a segment from Money Magazine on chasing billionaires. Sugar daddies and gold diggers are changing in society; it is no longer the stereotypical Anna Nicole Smith and incapacitated millionaire husband on the brink of death. Sugar daddies are wising up and protecting their money seeking out women for more than their appearance; this is why gold diggers are now encouraged to go to business school and earn degrees. More and more of these women are coached and must appear as if they are already from wealth and do not need a man?s money, so they must create a false self to obtain their object of desire.
These guides make it appear as if the classic bimbo is no longer good enough to be spoiled, though thanks to sites like SugarDaddies.com they still have a place. The site was created for women to seek out the affluent men they desire. Despite what new guides on gold digging say, by joining a dating site catered to this type of relationship a woman does not need an education or lurk around events where prosperous men can be found. With a profile on such a site, a person?s intentions are clear and more honest than the suggestion of molding yourself into someone a wealthy man will find appealing.
As with any fetish relationship such as these, it is hard to develop trust because there are many who intend to take advantage of people who enjoy partaking. Just as there are many looking to take advantage of financial slaves to the point of ruin, there are those who take advantage of sugar daddies and gold diggers. A sugar daddy often sets himself up for deception if his intentions are not clear and a woman may present a personality that the man may enjoy so much he wants to marry her. In this event, a very good prenuptial agreement is the best he can do to keep himself from losing all he has acquired or at least half of it. Gold diggers run the risk of encountering men who pretend to be wealthy just to get them into bed among other things. It may possibly be easier to weed out those you do not want and feel are frauds using the available websites as opposed to presenting oneself as one thing and be taken by another because of the rampant deception.
Some say money is the root of all evil and others say it makes the world go round but one thing is certain, we cannot live without it. As in all types of relationships, there is an exchange of power; give and take is played out in a tug of war and if you find the right partner to play these fantasies out with, you will not have to worry about losing your shirt, not unless you want to.
from sexherald.com |
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If you think you can be a pretty, little cash cow for me then you need to make your first contact with me appropriate. One-liners will not typically be responded to. Tell me about yourself, what you are looking for, your experience with finDom, and what you can offer me. Your philosophy of (or an explanation of your attraction to) finDom would also be of interest to me. I don't play with everyone; you have to show me you have a brain. |
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