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...let's role the dice. Gimme that Lucky Number 7! Watch out for those snake eyes!
The fun thing about CL is seeing all the wild and weird shit that people are into. I have to admit that I'm into some of that weird shit too! I would guess that if you're reading this you are either also into weird shit or are comtemplating it. I'll still respect you, even if you're a fellow pervert or become one.
I left my wife 3 years ago now. My relationship with one girlfriend rose and fell (so to speak), but I'm still good friends with her. And currently I have an ongoing sexually sizzling FWB type of relationship. We have a blast together even though we both know it will never be a primary relationship.
But I've played my silly games, and now it's time to really sink my teeth into someone and hold on for dear life.
Yes, I'm contemplating an LTR!
Yes, the 'for keeps' kind.
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I am an unusual type of mature man that is in excellent physical shape. Tisk, tisk to all those with aches and pains. How about a trip to the gym? I'm in as good shape as I've ever been and, frankly, it's a major boost to my self-esteem.
Sex is more than just physical, but the physicality of sex is a big part of it. The physical part of sex is a lot like dancing. Strong dancers can do more with their partners.
In couples dancing, one partner must be the lead. It's typically the man. It doesn't mean the man is any better than the woman. It's a two-person team. Somebody must lead. You can't do dancing without a lead.
Sometimes it's more the woman that shines, even though the man is the lead. But certainly the best couples dancers are those where both partners are strong physically and both have style.
I don't mind when the woman is the lead. I just like to lead at least half the time, and I'm fine with leading all the time.
The other important area of compatibility is the emotional realm. Emotions are always up and down. So the goal is to help each other push things more in the positive direction. You must be a positively focused person. Master psychobabbler Tony Robbins agrees that it's better to err on the side of cockeyed optimism. A couple needs to be each other's best cheerleaders. But you have to believe in the other person for the cheerleading to be genuine.
I believe in myself. If you also believe in yourself, then we won't have any problem believing in each other.
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