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Culturedhedonist

I'm a highly educated, very athletic, highly successful (including, but not just, financially), American man. I'm also intensely sexual, and quite dominant, but in a very respectful way - of limits, needs, and my partner's nature...I love bondage, discipline, collars, roleplaying, restraints, teasing... I have high standards in my life, including in my sexual partners, but am also a considerate and respectful person, desirous of my partner's well-being and development, and hope that I am not arrogant or self-satisfied. I would be very nurturing of my partner's emotional, physical, and erotic health, as they and I would agree to define it. But nurturing includes discipline and structure, and I AM quite dominant, particularly sexually, and would require that my partner satisfy me (and I'm rather insatiable)... But I also have an extremely rich, full vanilla / outside / public life. My partner would not need to partake in it, she could stay at home and remain entirely private if she wished, but she would need to accept that I will spend substantial amounts of time in highly public circumstances. I'm very fortunate; life has been extremely good to me. I'm well educated (Ph.D.) / traveled / accomplished, and very successful, both financially and otherwise, with many friends travels projects passions. I am bicoastal, New York - San Francisco, able to move freely between them, seeking people on either coast, or who are willing to travel or relocate to either coast. I also travel frequently to Europe, Latin America, and Asia, and my partner could travel with me. I'm 5'10", 160 pounds, very athletic, very healthy. I apologize for not posting a photograph, but I am rather well known, involved in sensitive public activities, and must therefore be careful about my privacy. If we get to know each other, it won't be a problem, and I will share a photograph privately. I am not at all painful to look at. I am seeking a beautiful, intelligent, intensely erotic, submissive woman / girl / pet / toy / partner / slave. I understand that "slave" doesn't mean "subjected to mindless brutality." I am potentially open to anything ranging from playing occasionally to a deep, loving, committed relationship, even marriage (only with the right person, obviously). I'm also sometimes interested in MFF threesomes and could imagine being involved with two bisexual females in a poly / triad relationship. But I can also be quite happily monogamous for years on end and could easily envision a lifelong marriage if and when the chemistry, both sexual and otherwise, is extraordinary.
pocketgothy
 
 Age: 19
 Metro, Minnesota